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Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 6:37pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
cococandy: Nne eh If not that I am born again and trying to stay on the straight and narrow sometimes I want to advise the wife of a cheating husband to just go out and cheat to her heart's desire What nonsense There are a zillion men out there that can give her a good time She may actually feel much better afterwards For how long will somebody pray ? You are praying,your man is shining Congo at Sheraton You go night vigil shouting die die die,he is at Hilton and both him and the Okpeke are very much alive You are jumping from one prayer house to another looking haggard and emaciated ,he is jumping from one bed to another happy Why can't the Holy Spirit just allow women take matters into their own hands eh Sorry folks My flesh was speaking 4 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Dipville(m): 6:43pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Sorry bout ur cheating hubby @ happy wife But to be honest with ourselves,look arnd...how many gals on this thread can boast she neva dated a married man... A lady once told me...she enjoys dating married men...Cz of the money am sure Am not saying @ happywife/rowzzay did this b4 getting married But honestly,most of the married women complaining here have done it once@least It's karma if u ask me I pray ur husbands have a change of heart roWzayy: |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 6:45pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Women should realize that a cheating husband is more romantic and family caring than a non cheating husband. Believe it or not its the hard truth in Nigeria. Just advice him to use protection end of story. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 6:46pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:let te love of God take over... Hard as it may , you will definitely forgive. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 6:48pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Kimoni:who cares about who s watching ..... You wanna live in sadness because you wanna please your next neighbor. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 6:50pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
BananaBender:you just need to understand one meets different class of individuals on Nl 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by cococandy(f): 6:51pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
babyosisi:they do. Don't mind these our 'innocent ' sisters. Only that what the men don't know can't hurt them. Some men have affairs with their married colleagues, bosses, business associate etc yet in their minds their wives cannot cheat. Fools paradise. If you know how many married women that are having affairs with their pastors you will cry for the husbandfolk. Our naija sisters know how to cry very loudly when the man Is fuuckikng around forgetting that out if the four kids they have,two don't belong to the man . Lmao 2 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Odutodaiwa: 6:52pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
mutter: Madam mutter, may your days be long. I have a non submissive woman in my home now. Infact, I would be better of marrying an illiterate. You actually made so much sense with your advice on how to treat her husband. A lot of these our 21st century girls are made about these their women's right today. Very soon our communities will collapse like the african american community. A white feminist woman teaches our girls that men and women have equal rights. Dem white feminists get back home and shower love on their husbands only for you black mugu to be shouting on your man. you say 10 things before he says one. Tell me any man who is will willin to cope with a nagging wife today. 4 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 6:57pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
AZeD1: Why should she even bother about her mum? She needs to move on. If she gets married to a man whose mother is alive...no harm in taking her mother inlaw as her mother |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 6:59pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Odutodaiwa: Lol, the Nigerian community in the UK might be worse than the African American community right now. And that's for a group with no crack-era/crack-babies with massive imprisonment history. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:00pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Odutodaiwa: Do you live with these white women? How do you know they shower their husbands love? Have you never seen a feminist shower her husband with attention? Do you people think feminists are cruel unemotional thugs? Educate yourself first on feminism before you display your ignorance any further 9 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by CHoccolaTE: 7:05pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
babyosisi:Abeg abeg abeg, born again or not you said it as it is, you cheat on me heavens know I WILL do the same. Suffer in silence because I dey craze abi because of wetin? Thank goodness I have gazzillions of exes that I can go to if he decides to start fooling himself. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by CHoccolaTE: 7:08pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
cococandy:That's the funny thing. I know quite a number of females that see nothing wrong with wives cheating. Even the ones wey dey form shorsh goer sef will tell you that all sins are equal in the eyes of the lord and that adultery is on the same level as telling lies or some other insignificant sin. Abeg I no fit laugh. On the internet everyone is a virtuous woman. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Kimoni: 7:11pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
majekdom2: The word "learning" should have given you an idea of who I'm referring to. Children learn from their parents not neighbors |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Katier00(f): 7:12pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
mannyiyke:thank you dear, u got my point |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by cococandy(f): 7:15pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
CHoccolaTE: my naija sisters are very hypocritical when it comes to stuff like this. Someone who just left her lover's house with the xemen still not dry will join hands to shame another woman in the street because that one was caught. Meanwhile all men cheat and we have fact to prove that men are even slightly higher in number than women in the population. So who are the men cheating with? Not Nigerian women of course. Maybe she goats and women from other countries. Certainly not my virtuous sisters. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:18pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
jennykadry:pls divorce is no sin.... The only reason that justifies divorce is adultery. I wonder why majority of the pastors preach against it and keep telling the to pray . There are some issues you don't need prayer to resolve. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:19pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
happywife:he is no great father.... Wait till the other babes have kids for him.... All you will hear is a " it is a mistake". Those babes may be more desperate than you thinking. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:19pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
majekdom2: its better for her to cheat...dont you know it is a sin to divorce your otherr half? |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Katier00(f): 7:20pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Evathyst:. My dear wetin you want make i say na? Woman wan cheat becos oga dey cheat, that is not right na. You are right , all men are the same so lets jus deal with it or leave it |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:20pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
jennykadry:oh I see the humor now .... Lols 2 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Curvinus(m): 7:20pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Did you catch him with another woman? Seriously, did you? So because you noticed missing condoms and hotel payment details, you concluded your husband is cheating on you with another woman. Either the OP is being economical with the truth or is just confused herself. Again, you stated in your story that you confronted your husband and he told you he wasn't cheating. Why don't you take his answer for whatever it is worth and move on with your life? Or has he been lying to you as well since you got married? Anyway, from my experience, women only put up with cheating men if he is wealthy and very good looking. The excuse about wanting your kids to have a great life even though it sounds a great idea, could be a smokescreen as I know some women to be very selfish and would stop at nothing when exiting a relationship they no longer feel comfortable with. Another possible theory is your simply worried that other women are attracted to your husband for the same reasons that you find him irresistible, hence your resort making things up in your own head, that aren't really there . Whatever the case, since you have decided to endure the situation as you suggested, I don't think there is any other short cut to happiness in your marriage except you yourself calm the f**ck down. You must admit the fact that your marriage is having a rough patch for one or two reasons, like any other marriage (even though yours appears to be exaggerated in your own head.) So you must take whatever you get from this on the chin and move on. At any rate, there is no marriage that does not have its own problems. It's just that you have decided to bring yours to the public domain for an advice, even though you've got your mind pretty much made up on what to do. Lastly, you sound very frustrated and this level of animosity alone is enough to make any man frankly aghast. my advice: Try not to blow hot air for at least 10 seconds everyday and you just might calm see things a bit clearer. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:22pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Nashville:I am so much in love with you with the love of God. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:23pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
veave:she has the thought already.... It's never bad , but better for her to leave the marriage. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:23pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Odutodaiwa: Your ignorance is mind-boggling. You should have married an illiterate, you two would deserve each other. What has feminism got to do with nagging? Where did ever see a feminist promote nagging or insolence? You blame feminism for the "collapse of African American" communities? Mr, stop saying what you know nothing about and read a darn book! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:24pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
bennyrazz:when you keep having flaws at your place of work , don't you get sacked? 2 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Fourwinds: 7:26pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
roWzayy:I don't know what is wrong with some men. chopping pu...ssies is like joy to dem. I wonder y a man can not control himself. dis is how d devil started and became greedy. not contented |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:26pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
bukatyne: My dear, you can say it again. Mothers married to their sons instead of husbands. Once their sons have a baby, they pick up their Ghana must go bag heading for omugwo. Leaving the wandering blokus man of a husband. That kin life. Pathetic |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:26pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
SirShymex: So feminism is the reason for kids growing up without their fathers in the African American community? Feminism is to be blamed for the amount of single mothers in AA community. Really?! Really?!! Feminism is the cause of early pregnancy or teenage mothers?? I like when you show how dumb you really are Shy, you are just like any of these noise-making empty heads on NL. 7 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:28pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
SirShymex:my dad is about 70 , If not for an enlarged prostate he will still be womanizing,he did that till he was about 65 and was diagnosed. He won't out grow anything. Wait till he infects her or bring in other kids in the name of mistake. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:28pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
babyosisi: Born again ? You wey mouth sharp pass razor blade. Wonders shall never end |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 7:31pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Odutodaiwa: This one Marry disrespectful wife, him call am feminists Behind every nagging woman, there is someone notdoing what he is supposed to do. Check your self and live long 5 Likes |
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