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Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 9:05pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
BananaBender: Imperfections of human beings right there, and what makes you human. Hence we might need to start looking towards open marriage just to make all parties involved happy. Regardless, the structure is about father, mother, and children - not mother and children, with a missing link. And their character flaws are inconsequential, as long as they can raise the children the right way, and show them all the love they need to navigate life. Anyway, have you got any solution/remedy for cheating spouses? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 9:06pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Good faith thread is not about gold diggers and gigolos It a about a man comfortable in cheating who deserves a cheating wife also Why does that make you uncomfortable A woman should not be cheating abi and you spending time telling us how the woman will be dumped Is the dumper the only man in town? One ends she moves on to another and dumps some herself just like her husband He is also getting dumped and dumping some At the end of the day they are still in the marriage Any woman with a cheating husband ought to have the balls to also cheat rather than die in silence That is my summary 4 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Kimoni: 9:07pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
majekdom2: Too bad hun, I learnt loads from my parents and I would forever remain grateful to them. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 9:08pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
D same ol'stories again. Lol Bia edwife, what will u give me this night? Hard day, tired but not hungry. Come eddy, u know I rov u ![]() |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by edwife(f): 9:10pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
moca: eh eh didn't i say it? ![]() ![]() You know you can't do without me ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 9:13pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
majekdom2:Where did this arrive from? ![]() |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 9:30pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
happywife:Chai |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 9:33pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
SirShymex:what cross you talking here.... That u married to an unfaithful partner ? How is it one's cross... The bible did not envisage this kind of cross. Broken marriages is not the sole reason for dysfunctional kids...unhappy marriages are a reason for this too. Why not leave and live happy. You can still train your kids as separated infact they will learn from it and not want to make the mistake. 5 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 9:41pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
majekdom2: Nah, when you make wrong decisions, you just have to carry the cross and be responsible for ya own actions. Hence folks need to always keep their eyes open and brains functional when choosing partners. And get a better understanding about reality and imperfections. Taking the easy way out should never be an option, especially when ya action is going to have a ricochet effect on folks who have nothing to do with ya decisions. Also, by ratio, broken homes by far churn out the highest number of dysfunctional kids. And that cycle has to stop! If you can't do that, stop getting married and making kids you can't raise right, period. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 9:43pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Babygirlfl, I'm waiting for ya post on this thread. ![]() Got one eye on footie, and the other on my laptop. @BananaBender I know you cheated on ya ex. How were you able to annihilate the cheating virus inside you? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 9:52pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
babyosisi:she got the balls but it is better for her to leave. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by darlenese(f): 9:58pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
U have'nt evn caught him right handed and u're dying slowly, Madam abeg nor go kill yourself oooo If u kill urself with thought na u loose! Btw, what do you mean by You are a one man girl? Hmn |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 10:08pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Onegai!!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by 2scorehigh(m): 10:12pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Chiefpriest1: Scare tactics, I don't like. What is good for the goose is also good for the gander. But all the same, my dearest happywife, you can never cope with a cheating husband. Never! So far as your whole thought is there. It's only possible if you don't love him anymore. And even if another man is banging away, you will still be thinking about him, which is like cheating yourself because you know you are not being true to yourself. Not to mention all that feeling of worthlessness that will accompany the act assuming you have not successfully killed your conscience. So, I'm so sorry to say that I don't have any clear-cut answer for you. But I only have this one advice for you. Please in whatever you chose to do, always remember the eleventh commandment: Thou shall not be caught! 4 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Clone2020(m): 10:20pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Isn't it ironic that your name is "happy wife?" The high frequency of cheating in Naija is very shameful and scary. Do not tolerate a cheating man, all girls should be financially stable either via employment or entrepreneurship before getting married. If u have hard evidence that shows ur husband cheated on u, pls divorce him. I know I will not tolerate a cheating wife, my gf knows better than to cheat on me. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 10:31pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Clone2020: I hope you won't be cheating on her either |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 10:54pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
My motto when it comes to cheating: Cheat once and you're out the door. Faithful and loyal people are hard to find, but they still exist and hope I will be lucky enough to find one of them. Mcheeeew. Tolerate a cheating husband ko... How dare I! May I never marry a cheater. Amen and Amen. 6 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by calnon(m): 11:17pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
I can understand the pains this woman is going tro,cos my wife have put me in such pains b4. I cought my own wife in ther verge of cheating me, failling inlove with another man, charting another man every day while we were on the same bed, and also been consious of her phone, so I notice something is fising out, also her constant nagging shows she is seeing another man, one day I secreetly got info tro her phone and saw some mess my own wife was sending to another man and I sleep on the same bed while she engage on this chart. Women can be stupidy knowing fully well the implication of what she is doing, I confronted her with matured way she opened up that she just develop serious affection for the man though they have not seen out side b4. I nearly quite the marriage what save the marriage was she opened up to me the content of their messages and how she have been giving the man green light but they man was just picking interest small small. I know she never open her pant for the man, but I gave her that grace and if I see more of this she will leave my house. She cried and feel remose over her stupidity. Later she called the man and ask him to put and end to this their madness, but they funest thing is she does bizns with the man every day. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by stellademas: 11:19pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Is DR OGBARI you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship,I promise you.your problems will be solve immediately.After being in relationship with mike for seven years, He left me, i did every thing possible to bring him back back but all was in vain. I wanted him back because of the love I have for him, I begged him but he refused until I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather mail a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believe in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days,that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day,that was around 4:00pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened,that he wanted to return to me, that he love me so much. I was so happy and surprised. Since then I have made a promise that every body I know will never have a relationship problem, that I will refer them to the spell caster to help them. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, hise mail drogbarilovespell@gmail.com |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Kizito2nv(m): 11:29pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
konji na bastard |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by iaatmguy(m): 11:34pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Chiefpriest1:are you sure u are not an angel ? |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Deguy12: 11:39pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Chiefpriest1: You are really Chiefpriest, well said! |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 11:42pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
happywife: and you think cheating on him will make you happy ? My frnd tat nt he way out.. If u sleep with another man u av worsen the matter.. U re a wonderful woman God knw u played ur part as a Woman so wat u need to do nw is live your life to please yourself and your children.. Ignore him.. I bet you with time u won't be getting hurt or feeling bad again (everythin depend on tym) be pleasing him as usual make sure e does nt find fault on you .. Babe nobody worth taking your joy.. U av a good work u can cont. With tat. Am a man and i can tell you tat hardly will u see a faithful man.. Is nt possible.. Nt possible.. We can't stick to 1 woman.. The earlier u knw this fact.. Urs is even Good atleast you knw your husband is cheating on you .. What of my WIFE ? |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by zeongeon: 11:49pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
BananaBender:JUST SHUT UP...ur type end up wetting there pillow with tears every night by the time U clock 40 and u hv no man. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by SpaceWorld2013(m): 12:08am On Nov 19, 2014 |
Bridgetown:until you eventually force me to comment. By my nature, I hardly contribute to topics like this, yet read all the comments. Op, I have seen good advice here, don't cheat and stay with your man with prayers. Just a matter of time. Thanks |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by Nobody: 12:08am On Nov 19, 2014 |
zeongeon: Smh. Point out the error in the post you quoted. 1 Like |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by LEAFLET(m): 12:09am On Nov 19, 2014 |
I really don't have nothing to contribute here! You guys have said it all..I just wish I am never going to cheat on my future wife when the time comes..I sincerely hope so.. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by zeongeon: 12:20am On Nov 19, 2014 |
Happywife am so sorry, I can't even imagine what ur going through.. But u have to be strong at this time...everyone of us will be tested sometime in life in various ways but it so unfortunate ur test has to come from ur husband and I must admit its a difficult one. For it is not easy to get over betrayal "You can always love again but trusting again is the difficult path of love" I want you to remember your marital promise of "for better for worse" now the worse has come and as a strong woman I expect u to keep that promise by taking CHARGE of this situation. - Try your best possible to do things that make you happy...u need a little happiness at this time. -Dont let ur anger rub off on the kids infact do more fun things with them. -Decide to talk to your husband about how u feel and do this by taking him out just like the way he takes u out, take him out to the spot u both like and then talk to him about how u feel about everything..when talking please do not sound confrontational but sound like ur trying to advice or counsel some one, use words to bring him down just like u do too a child who has done bad. -Dont change ur attitude towards him by nagging just try to b that happy wife but this time with boundaries eg don't talk with him as long as u use to do, go to bed earlier or later than usual. -Pray to God to give u the grace to heal and forgive ur husband, a praying wife has all the power she needs. Don't try to cheat back if not u will allow the situation control U..it doesn't make sense allowing some one else's mess up make decisions for U. |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by zeongeon: 12:23am On Nov 19, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul:if u dont hve anything to say just SHUT UP so that we may think u wise |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by NobleG1(m): 12:23am On Nov 19, 2014 |
happywife: Point of correction: Not every man cheats. If you want to cope with his cheating behavior then you're encouraging him! Why would you want to be with a man who cheats on you repeatedly? What's the essence of the marriage if this happens? Do you want to be in a broken relationship or out of it? Have a serious discussion with him and warn him to change his way or else he'll get a surprise from you! If he continues cheating, get a proof and divorce him in court. It may be emotionally hard (if you love) but you're doing yourself good by leaving him. But if you insist you want to "cope" with it then good luck to you, you'll need it. Nigerian women are groomed to tolerate every s*hit their men do, and most think if they divorce nobody will marry them again, which are complete b*ullshit. If you're a good woman, men will like you irrespective of being a divorcee. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How To Tolerate Cheating Husband. by delishpot: 12:24am On Nov 19, 2014 |
Well, treat the case same way he would have treated it had he caught you cheating. |
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