A friend of mine who is a fresher in school said she met a final year student who she fell deeply in love with. Though he professed his love for her she later realised his behaviour was contrary to the love he said he has for her... According to her this change is as a result of his pals influencing his decisions and this has given second thought over their relationship. She feels leaving him is the logical thing to do but her heart is playing the love game with her. She wants to learn not to love him... What should she do

am facing same issue

xplicit107:
A friend of mine who is a fresher in school said she met a final year student who she fell deeply in love with. Though he professed his love for her she later realised his behaviour was contrary to the love he said he has for her... According to her this change is as a result of [b]his pals influencing his decisions [/b]and this has given second thought over their relationship. She feels leaving him is the logical thing to do but her heart is playing the love game with her. She wants to learn not to love him... What should she do

She should stop making excuses for him. No one is influencing him and most importantly she should love herself more and more, her life needs her.

andromida:


She should stop making excuses for him. No one is influencing him and most importantly she should love herself more and more, her life needs her.

I told her same

xplicit107:
I told her same

Hopefully it will sink in and oh she should definitely give him a lot of distance and end the nonsense. No calls and chit chat so she can see clearly.

from experience the best way to get over a crush or someone that you are so much in love with is by getting yourself submerged in your hubby. by doing this you shift your focus from that person to a new activity that u will find very enjoyable and that will also keep you busy in your spare time.

this method has worked for me on several occasions and i suggest you give it a try. just choose any activity that you like to do for example watching soccer on tv, going to the gym or watching your favorite tv series.

hope you find my advice useful

She should face her studies...Dating from first year is starting on wrong foot for her....or is she studying LOVEcology? What's her mission there?

Lol.
Im in the same shiity shoe.
I love this girl (she does equally) but i dont want to ask her out because she has a bf and she always hate to see me around any girl. Now her mom told me she'll be travelling to lag and some part of me is missing ha already. We're not even in talking terms to make things worse.
I've tried how to get rid of her off my brain but no way. Just cant wait for leave.
If i mistakenly say i saw this girl im interested in she go just look me one badddd eye. As if she jazz me. I dont even have the appetite to woo any other lady.
I know if I ask her out now she'll tell me she dont want to double date or she'll say we're already friends na.

I pray her love for him withers when she sees her first semester results.


Its way too early to start stuffs like that

Whynotthetruth:
She should face her studies...Dating from first year is starting on wrong foot for her....or is she studying LOVEcology? What's her mission there?

that's it o
it baffles me that people who just got admission into a school already found love (so called love) before the end of d first semester. and dats how they will keep quitting until they have dated proly half of d guys in d school

why can't she just face her studies first and watch people before falling for anyone

@op, like someone said she is just making excuses for him. if she loves her sef more than anything she should better quit, its her call to make, nobody will suffer d aftermath with her

Whynotthetruth:
She should face her studies...Dating from first year is starting on wrong foot for her....or is she studying LOVEcology? What's her mission there?

Maybe to date?

If she's a fresher, that means she just started school last month, and already is having boy problems?

tpia6:


Maybe to date?

If she's a fresher, that means she just started school last month, and already is having boy problems?

Carryover from 1st semester 1st year.

Tell her to go phuuck herself.

Smh..

Must it always be a friend?

hangzhouro:
from experience the best way to get over a crush or someone that you are so much in love with is by getting yourself submerged in your hubby. by doing this you shift your focus from that person to a new activity that u will find very enjoyable and that will also keep you busy in your spare time.

this method has worked for me on several occasions and i suggest you give it a try. just choose any activity that you like to do for example watching soccer on tv, going to the gym or watching your favorite tv series.

hope you find my advice useful

it is helpful, not the first time i hear it but still there r moments when u r alone and start thinking