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Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by GuyFawkes: 2:00pm On Nov 20, 2014
EnlightenedSoul:


On the contrary, it seems people on this thread are getting castigated for not kneeling.

@ Are you shocked by something I said?

Pardon me for contradicting myself smiley but its a complex issue, it has nothing to do with culture though.

Yeah you make the very essence of kneeling sound 'ridiculous', like it will diminish your character.

I'm indifferent about the whole issue tbh and I wouldn't want anybody kneeling to apologise to me.
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by GlorifiedTunde(m): 2:05pm On Nov 20, 2014
GuyFawkes:


Pardon me for contradicting myself smiley but its a complex issue, it has nothing to do with culture though.

Yeah you make the very essence of kneeling sound 'ridiculous' , like it will diminish your character.

I'm indifferent about the whole issue tbh and I wouldn't want anybody kneeling to apologise to me.


That's what they do not get. They feel its demeaning.

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Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by tabisegroup(m): 2:09pm On Nov 20, 2014
mifavour:


what happened to saying sorry without kneeling? ?? I mean who does that when you can easily take him to d bedroom and apologise
pikchur of Hw u can tek him to d bedroom n apologize..or ah don't bliv !!

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Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by Nobody: 2:11pm On Nov 20, 2014
GuyFawkes:


Pardon me for contradicting myself smiley but its a complex issue, it has nothing to do with culture though.

Yeah you make the very essence of kneeling sound 'ridiculous', like it will diminish your character.

I'd say it has everything to do with culture, but I'd like to hear your thoughts on how it doesn't.

That's because it is...to me. I'm sure some of that stems from culture as well.
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by GuyFawkes: 2:13pm On Nov 20, 2014
GlorifiedTunde:



That's what they do not get. They feel its demeaning.

Yes bro.
Heck its not even an African thing per se
Don't people kneel before the Pope or kneel to be knighted by the Queen?

So it becomes demeaning when its your partner involved or what.
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by Adeyinka123: 2:14pm On Nov 20, 2014
mifavour:


what happened to saying sorry without kneeling? ?? I mean who does that when you can easily take him to d bedroom and apologise
I prefer your method to kneeling. Bedroom is the best consolation. Especially when it is spicy.
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by Nobody: 2:14pm On Nov 20, 2014
GlorifiedTunde:




THE ISSUE IS THAT ITS NOT A BIG DEAL!!!
yea is not though to some it is to me is not
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by annita19(f): 2:14pm On Nov 20, 2014
HELL NO
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by DaBullIT(m): 2:15pm On Nov 20, 2014
duni04:

Exactly! The ladies/girls making noise here are the ones from the land of the rising sun, where they drag everything with their men. No respect at all.


Na you talk am , no be me oooooooooo he he he grin
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by stinggy(m): 2:15pm On Nov 20, 2014
CoCoLav:



Why not? what's wrong with it?

Something that won't take anything from somebody.

Abii oo
I wonder why some babes are feeling to big to kneel down. Could it be western influence?
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by Tymax(m): 2:16pm On Nov 20, 2014
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by GuyFawkes: 2:17pm On Nov 20, 2014
EnlightenedSoul:


I'd say it has everything to do with culture, but I'd like to hear your thoughts on how it doesn't.

That's because it is...to me. I'm sure a lot of that stems from culture as well.

Not really Miss-E
This discussion involves partners or spouses, and I don't know of any african culture that insists you must kneel before your husband/wife.

The topic says would you kneel to apologise to your husband/wife.
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by andyanders: 2:20pm On Nov 20, 2014
mifavour:
I cant kneel down to apologize. I can still kneel and pretend to be remorseful. isn't it berra I sit or berra still stand and apologise ad know I did it with my heart?? nnaa eh biko noro one side ka m fu uzo!

You are right. It all depends on individuals. Myself, I hate anybody to kneel down to apologize to me no matter their offence.

Why must my wife kneel down to apologize to me. You woman should be your friend and partner and there are better ways to apologize. Someone can kneel down to apologize while pretending to be remorseful.

We all should be liberal and shouldn't see women as a tool to be used. Remember we men come from our mothers. Respect should be reciprocal. Unless you did not marry your true woman , but a slave.

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Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by esn1(f): 2:23pm On Nov 20, 2014
tdammy:


hmnmn lobatan, dat mere male dude might be ur husband tomoro oh. wink


You're right.
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by clevvermind(m): 2:24pm On Nov 20, 2014
let me quote bible to the ladies now.

1 peter 3:1-6.


1 Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word, they, without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives, 2 when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear. 3 Do not let your adornment be merely outward—arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel— 4 rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God. 5 For in this manner, in former times, the holy women who trusted in God also adorned themselves, being submissive to their own husbands, 6 as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose daughters you are if you do good and are not afraid with any terror.

gringrin
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by amaechijay: 2:28pm On Nov 20, 2014
Yes ...and why not?

My husband is my "Next-to-God" according to the Bible

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Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by ohaleoghene(f): 2:31pm On Nov 20, 2014
clevvermind:
u are from urhobo or isoko i guess.



you guess right! the name right?
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by Nobody: 2:35pm On Nov 20, 2014
three days ago, I got upset with my girlfriend over an issue and I was shocked when she went on her knees and appologised to me..... My heart skipped a beat and I immediately swore NEVER to see her in that position again.... I felt so angry with myself for letting her beg me to that point.... I cried cos of that..... I've done that to apologise to her a couple of times but I dont ever want her offence or whatever to make her kneel before me..... Its not just right....
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by andyanders: 2:37pm On Nov 20, 2014
clevvermind:
let me quote bible to the ladies now.

1 peter 3:1-6.


1 Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word, they, without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives, 2 when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear. 3 Do not let your adornment be merely outward—arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel— 4 rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God. 5 For in this manner, in former times, the holy women who trusted in God also adorned themselves, being submissive to their own husbands, 6 as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose daughters you are if you do good and are not afraid with any terror.

gringrin

Understand this; the above did not state that the woman should kneel down to apologize to their husbands. A woman can respect her husband and there are better ways of doing that. Herein, must she kneel down and be apologizing? Apology must come from the inner mind and one must notice the remorse been expressed by the person, with no pretense. I do remember when my mother would tell me to kneel down and apologize to my sister and I would grudgingly do that knowing fully well that the apology was not from my heart.

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Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by CoCoLav(f): 2:38pm On Nov 20, 2014
stinggy:


Abii oo
I wonder why some babes are feeling to big to kneel down. Could it be western influence?

I can't even blame it on western influence. It might just be pride. Anyway wassup with you?
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by DucciJay(m): 2:39pm On Nov 20, 2014
CEO oda peoples comment (opc) grin grin grin
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by optimistcandyboy(m): 2:39pm On Nov 20, 2014
eleko1:
Cos I lof U kiss undecided Oya go ur knee now and do ranka ya dede
smiley wink cheesy grin seriously shocked kiss kiss kiss
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by Nobody: 2:43pm On Nov 20, 2014
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by clevvermind(m): 2:44pm On Nov 20, 2014
ohaleoghene:




you guess right! the name right?
yea. which one pls. urhobo or isoko? i strongly suspect isoko.
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by Nobody: 2:45pm On Nov 20, 2014
GuyFawkes:


Not really Miss-E
This discussion involves partners or spouses, and I don't know of any african culture that insists you must kneel before your husband/wife.

The topic says would you kneel to apologise to your husband/wife.

Fawkes, if a custom is practiced to a level in a country, or by a certain group(s) in that country, it will certainly have a different tint to it for anyone outside those groups/countries/cultures where that practice isn't found. Yes, the question involved spouses and partners, but it's also based on a cultural and societal practice. If the question was on praying-mantis-style Chinese bowing, and the OP asked "would you do this for your spouse?", the responses would reflect the outlandish view of it from the outsider masses i.e NL'ers.

That's the beauty of culture.
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by Nobody: 2:45pm On Nov 20, 2014
herald9:




hmmm


Dhammy you're a G...

What you're carrying is too much for your young head.

Being different is cool...But being a feminist is an herculean resolution.

The society don't welcome women who tries to rub shoulders with the men.

You can still be different in another way.


HMMMN.SO THAT'S WHAT U THINKwink
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by Nobody: 2:46pm On Nov 20, 2014
braine:

Your days shall be long in your husband's house. cheesy



And yours would be short.
Agbara gbuo gi. Onye Apari. Be blabbing like an idiot. I withdraw the respect I had for U on this Forum. Wish same.
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by PRINCEHPXP(m): 2:49pm On Nov 20, 2014
silly question
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by GuyFawkes: 2:50pm On Nov 20, 2014
EnlightenedSoul:


Fawkes, if a custom is practiced to a level in a country, or by a certain group(s) in that country, it will certainly have a different tint to it for anyone outside those groups/countries/cultures where that practice isn't found. Yes, the question involved spouses and partners, but it's also based on a culture and societal practice. If the question was on praying-mantis-style Chinese bowing, and the OP asked "would you do this for your spouse?", the responses would reflect the outlandish view of it from the outsider masses i.e NL'ers.

That's the beauty of culture.


Ok agreed.
Guess you don't like the culture then since its kinda alien to you.
I haven't gone through the comments so I don't know where the opinion of NLers swings.

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Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by Nobody: 2:50pm On Nov 20, 2014
Why not? What's the big deal there? Doesn't mean you no longer hold the key to his heart now. Does it?
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by ohaleoghene(f): 2:55pm On Nov 20, 2014
clevvermind:
yea. which one pls. urhobo or isoko? i strongly suspect isoko.



isoko
are you a brother?
Re: Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? by peterphd(m): 2:55pm On Nov 20, 2014
MadCow1:



Is this all you brought back with you?! angry

Seriously!!?!

And here I was thinking this would be a fair fight.. Calling blow up dolls 'dummies'.. grin The biitch is not only arrogant, but also illiterate and reetarded. grin

I never thought I would ever see the day I ran into a reetarded, Ignorant Ekuke with an over bloated sense of self-worth... grin

I am done with you puppy!

This is not a fair fight.. Keep scrapping your knees on hard concrete at night sucking diicks for cent and walking tall in the morning telling those stupiid enough to listen to you how you are so much of all that whatevers that you cant kneel to apologise to any man.


grin


FhuckingCretin..
Floyd mayweather uppercut!

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