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Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by djmask(m): 9:10pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
DO NOT MARRY FOR LOVE, MARRY FOR MONEY. A man's wealth need not amount to millions, but enough to meet your need - whatever those needs might be. And if the money is not there yet, well, you may want to consider other factors, i.e his potential. What would you gain marrying a poor man? The misery bank? The fact is that somewhere along the line, love will fade if and when you begin to in broke and unable to afford life's necessities. Wise men will tell you that love and financial anxiety don't mix well. Don't let religion or culture tie you down or clog your intellect. Things have changed! This is no longer your grandfather's Nigeria. After money and all the things money can buy them you can talk love. Besides, poor men have inferiority complex. They have issues with self-image. Unless you, as a woman, are ready to work hard to support yourself and the kids, you will have a frustrating life. In many instances, when you help him gain financial stability, the chances are that he will cheat on you - or even leave you for a younger woman. ....culled from PUNCH 19-11-14 2 Likes |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by chibwike(m): 9:12pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Op..what if the money finishes |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by dre11(m): 9:19pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Em!!!!! 1 Like
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Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by Missmossy(f): 9:20pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Huh What's this? |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by Nobody: 9:26pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
djmask:in other words MEN should get rich or die finding wife....some men are hustling in silence waiting for the success to make the noise if you dnt hook them up now, you don miss b dat |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by djmask(m): 9:35pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Missmossy:An Advice |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by Yonce(f): 9:39pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Just locate where money is and fall in love there. Op that's a better advice IMO 3 Likes |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by djmask(m): 9:58pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
chibwike:Then both husband and wife lack business acumen 1 Like |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by chibwike(m): 10:00pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
djmask:Lol |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by Nobody: 10:00pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Na guy be this? |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by Nobody: 10:02pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Best thin is to marry for the LOVe of Bleep |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by Lordabas: 10:17pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Fall in love with a man that has money & save yourself the stress |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by djmask(m): 10:31pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
missberrypop5:A guy that sees the sad truth |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by Nobody: 10:37pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
djmask:awwwwww, sad truth seeing guy. Do you know that money may or can't be permanent? I'd rather marry for love, for my days to be longer |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by Nobody: 10:48pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
are you sure op |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by Agrika: 10:54pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Tell them!...though money shouldn't "blind" you from assessing your partner's character before marriage...but is one of the most important ingredient that sustains a 21st Century Marriage and inaddition, ensure that the person is matured enough...someone who has integrity and loyalty as his personal watchword, someone who understands that marriage is serious bussiness and a contract between two adults....that word love eh...ain't worth the stress. 1 Like |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by djmask(m): 10:59pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
missberrypop5:Deep down in ur heart u agreed with the facts...but because of the butterfly in ur tummy u wanna choose to stick with a potentialless poor dude. Well I hope he can even to feed u, if not, those butterfly may as well abate ur stomach cos of hunger. 1 Like |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by Charles4075(m): 11:01pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
If a relationship does not take you to the bank and altar, my sister you're a slave.. Na op talk am ohh, I use beg God una ohh.. |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by Nobody: 11:08pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
djmask:a poor man today can be the wealthy man whom you'll find feeding both the rich men of today tomorrow. You can't tell me not to love a man because he's broke at the moment. The thing there is know a man with potentials, who has a dream and vision, that you know will manifest in future than ending up with a useless persons that will make life a living hell. |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by yemmit90: 12:31am On Nov 21, 2014 |
missberrypop5: I think op is talking about 'marriage' and not just dating. My sister, if you're still single(though love is very important), please marry someone who have at least a steady source of income. Don't fall prey of the popular say that 'think will get better after marriage'. Contrary to some people believe, a man can easily realize his potential while still single than when he's married. Unlike when he was single, a man dream and vision can be altered by many factors in the marriage. Infact, only a visionless lazy man will get married without considering his financial status. So, while marrying for Love, consider other factor especially a man financial stability. 2 Likes |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by Nobody: 12:40am On Nov 21, 2014 |
yemmit90:well said. Thank you for the advice. |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by ALKARULEZ615(m): 12:46am On Nov 21, 2014 |
djmask:English = He can even to feed u *falls from pammy tree* |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by djmask(m): 8:33am On Nov 21, 2014 |
ALKARULEZ615:Unlike ur grade 1 teachers, mine taught me to look at the various meaning of a word before jumping to a fool's conclusion. |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by ALKARULEZ615(m): 12:10pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
djmask:funny.... huh? Just admit the fact that u made a mistake |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by Greatomotoy: 12:13pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
ok |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by omoharry(f): 2:30pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
chibwike:kick his ass and live him to start digging gold, after all they will look else where when your breast and body has slackened due to several child birth. tooth for tat |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by chibwike(m): 2:32pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
omoharry:Lol...dear am counting on your votes tommorow in the ongoing MR NL contest..by 10am..thanks alot |
Re: Do Not Marry For Love, Marry For Money by omoharry(f): 2:45pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
missberrypop5:the best advise. Don't marry a man because you have expectation of him, that he would be rich by some estimated years to come. this is because as the years goes by without this expectation turn up , my sister, frustration will start settling in.Then you will start thinking of your past suitors that had money thinking you must have made a mistake. so marry a man because of his character, prospect and and hard work. the most important thing is that he should earn a monthly salary or into a business.When this happens, you will now learn how to take life easy as it comes without any expectation that will later later sow a seed bitterness within you. 1 Like |
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