Kachisbarbie:
sorry, I won't say yes.

I will form shy and run away

Kachisbarbie:
sorry, I won't say yes.

I will form shy and run away
___bobo, so na onlookers come make the proposal big way?
Tchheeew,I thought u will say- the ring dey inside Rolls Royce.

kuphid:
Why will she remain in that relationship since she's convinced she can't marry him due to a particular character of his? I guess she's hoping for a change abi na miracle sef, ok nah...then she should say 'yes'

Some girls like putting themselves in a difficult situation.

Kachisbarbie:
sorry, I won't say yes.

I will form shy and run away
___bobo, so na onlookers come make the proposal big way?
Tchheeew,I thought u will say- the ring dey inside Rolls Royce.

Ploy:
If I were a girl, I would collect and marry him then separate after 5 months. Tiwa Savage style you know.

AgapeCharis:
hahahahahahahaaaahaaa


U wicked gaaan!

If a girl does this to u, hw u go feel?

Ploy:


I will feel bad, really bad but I should know when a girl doesn't want to marry me. There is spark in real love.

3cycle:
Happened to me once.....
I barely knew him, was 20yrs then and he proposed marriage after 3weeks of meeting him but I refused.
Thank God I rejected his offer then!

AgapeCharis:
After 3 weeks of meeting him??
Na so d love b dey shak am?

destante:
hmm. It depends o...on how I interprete the scenario you painted.
I will definitely say yess to someone I have stayed with for two years, as I would really like him, having stayed that long. The negative change in attitude, depending on how gross it is, may be tolerated.

Now if it is someone I am sure I won't marry because of a huge difference, there wouldn't be any point in not declining the proposal.

mizzkeji44:
I wont say yes...
Rush in,rush out.

MarthaK:
Why will a girl not want to marry her bf? Isn't marriage the point of a relationship?

Kachisbarbie:

Tchheeew,I thought u will say- the ring dey inside Rolls Royce.

nor mind Agape.. See his definition of big way.. Not on even with a RR Key

If d change is really gross... Hw r u gna decline in the presence of everybody? And abt tolerating... U mean u can go into marriage knowing u'll have to tolerate something probably for d rest of ur life??

Kachisbarbie:


@Agapecharis.
We do a lot of tolerating in marriage.
Let me tell you a lil story. My husband used to be one of the most careless person in the world, when I say careless____ I mean careless!! He can misplace himself gaan, let alone an item...lolz. Being a very meticulous person, that attitude was making me mad while we were dating. He was also hot tempered.

I talk tire__ very little change. Then I decreed that anytime he gets angry unnecessarily/misplaces any item, he would pay me N500. He didn't even care, he kept on misplacing things and would tell me to calculate the weekly fine for him. I increased it to N700, he reduced *smalll, I increased it to N1000___ then N1500, he would now be pricing two for N2500.

One day after months, I noticed REASONABLE CHANGES, I sat him down and we talked extensively.
I used that money, to take us out for a dinner...hahaha. Then I gave him *smallll* out of it, I took the rest, I can guarantee you, it was very plenty...lolz.
It has been years now, the man I moulded is definitely the best man.

Dahjhi:

nor mind Agape.. See his definition of big way.. Not on even with a RR Key

AgapeCharis:
hmmmmmmm! Dx marriage sef!
pricing two for N2500! LWKM4H!
U wicked gaan

Sustaining a marriage needs a lot of tolerance sha bt when u realize b4 marriage dt dx dude doesn't even wna change no matter hw hard u try....I think u'll think twice
Owhia?

AgapeCharis:
Lol
I put it dt way cos dtx what will somehow hold u back in dropping a no

anyway.. As the female folks have been saying, even if he proposes on the moon in the presence of other planets, it should be a blunt NO since she's not feeling alright with him @ the particular moment.

sexymoma:
I would Hug Him And Whisper in His ear
"Let Discuss This At Home"

MarthaK:
Why will a girl not want to marry her bf? Isn't marriage the point of a relationship?

3cycle:
Happened to me once.....
I barely knew him, was 20yrs then and he proposed marriage after 3weeks of meeting him but I refused.
Thank God I rejected his offer then !

ERCROSS:


I guess u rejected him coz he's Not TALL..

Kachisbarbie:


If he doesn't wanna change. I would first ascertain if he is aware he has an attitude problem, some of them don't even know that attitude they put up is 'that bad'.

Mine kept telling me to help him change though, and he asked me to use whatever measure I want...so, if the guy is aware and just doesn't want to change.
__ The next step would be for me to weigh the degree of the problem and possible solutions.

Dahjhi:

anyway.. As the female folks have been saying, even if he proposes on the moon in the presence of other planets, it should be a blunt NO since she's not feeling alright with him @ the particular moment.