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Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by Nobody: 10:17pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
dmz:Truetalk. It's indeed essential too but shuldnt @ all be abused. I rem vividly, way bk wen my immediate elder bro got me cross. I gave him d silent treatment. Omo, he didnt find it funny . He tried all means to mk me talk /smile, cracked jokes in front of me which he knows on a normal day i wld hv been grinning . I jst boned him like say tomorrow no dey . Lol. Until he did d needful .... An apology. Then he returned to my gud book. |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by Cwaya(m): 10:20pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
The Silent treatment; Yes I do give some people that . Because thatz the best way to treat the person wahala that moment. Itz not as if I will keep the damn quiet without saying a word. Nope, i will communicate with you but in a scanty way. People who dont care about your own reasons deserves it. People who alwayz want to be Mr. / Miss Right, deserves tht too. My opinion is, do it when necessary but at the same time , dont overdo it. Overdo fit double the problem |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by Cwaya(m): 10:27pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
[quote author=Kachisbarbie post=28198033] Women? I thought we women love to 'rant'? Men are the worst joor, they do it and form maturity. because una wahala too much. U dont expect us to join in the ranting. if we do , the Words Bureau de exchange will be very busy Most times its the best solution for u girls. |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by ivyy(f): 10:29pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by Nobody: 10:32pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
[quote author=Cwaya post=28203542][/quote] hehehe...not like I rant (shout) __ nahhh. I just pour out my mind as soon as possible. 1 Like |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by Nobody: 10:35pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Truckpusher:Wow! Please tell me you are a psychologist! I'm trying hard to be nice but "I HATE THESE KIND OF PEOPLE" there,I just said it#reliefed! Silent treatment in this age and era? Way too childish! But like you rightly said,ignore button does the magic |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by Cwaya(m): 10:42pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie: 70% percent of girls arguement neva ends in 10minutes. Me i hate arguing with girls coz i dont know how to. I easily forgt the points i wanna make to win the arguement, simply because i dnt take it as a big deal. This is when the silent treatment might come in. "i'm Sorry" is meant to be enough. |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by Tymax(m): 10:48pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
ivyy:Only a merciful guy will give just 2 hours. What's 2 hours sef? Just 60 minutes times 2. |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
iebanehita: sure I am aware...hehe Happy birthday to you, keep Living 2 Likes |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by drakeskull(m): 10:58pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Had someone like that, well she's now an ex cos I let go of her a** cos of the silent / turning off attitude. Now she wan kill herself, she don beg taya but am sorry, I got used to her b**lsh*t , adjusted and later stopped giving a Bleep. |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by crackhaus: 11:56pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
The silent treatment works in a specific way - done too much or too long, it becomes counter-productive...but done just right, it can calm one's nerves. 2 Likes |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by heemah(f): 2:42am On Nov 21, 2014 |
I detest this attitude so much..My kind of person, I joke a lot buh I get angry easily. So when u offend me, I 'll tell u instantly and that's all!! I cnt keep malice cuz I tend to hate u in d process and it makes me unhappy too... buh I have a friend who is fond of this SL!!.. For more than a week, she wnt say a word to me!! I 'll ask her Times without no what I 've done wrong buh she 'll never answer!! Call her, she won't pick!! As much as I love her, I kinda hate her for dz bad attitude.... |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by Nobody: 4:08am On Nov 21, 2014 |
Silent treatment is another form of wickedness and evil. In fact anybody dishing out silent treatment can kill. 1 Like |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by Nobody: 9:04am On Nov 21, 2014 |
Silent treatment is bad in every way... I have a male friend that does that a lot...and it really pisses me off..he won't reply my massages on viber or what's app or anywhere and won't pick my call, and if he manages to reply it would just be a text that said " I'm busy". Once I did it to him over an issue we had, and he got so furious and sent a message , where he had rambled on over 11 pages of total bvllshit explaining why It should be only him that has the right to do such. .. Meanwhile Currently, he is giving me another silent treatment since 4days now over something I'm yet to find out about.. U can imagine that sort of thing.. he doesn't know how fed up I am with the relationship and I will seriously be cutting away from him soon. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by bukatyne(f): 11:48am On Nov 21, 2014 |
Truckpusher: Nothing annoys me more than using playful banter to cover up misdeeds... Just say sorry even if you want to use 'banter' to cover it up. To me, it's pride 2 Likes |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by bukatyne(f): 11:51am On Nov 21, 2014 |
Valeree: LOL! Read this post over and over again Truckpusher: 1 Like |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by Nobody: 12:18pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
dmz: I agree. I do this, and it works. It's not like I plan it out, but I prefer retreating to arguing, and I need my space. The longest SL treatment (full) I've been in lasted almost a year, and it was with one of my siblings. But I can only tolerate that one in small doses anyway... |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by Nobody: 1:05pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Truckpusher: False. Silence is drama-free. Silence is beautiful! |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by heemah(f): 2:15pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Valeree:like seriously, are dating d same guy?? Had to read it again to make sure I'm not d one dat typed this..My bestfriend is fond of dz attitude too tho |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by dmz(m): 5:22pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul: A year with a sibling? That must have been a serious problem. I can go months without speaking to my siblings but not because of a problem. The guys are not the calling type but the girls do keep in touch more often. |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by zeb04(f): 5:32pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Is silent treatment not malice abeg I don't have the time for that oh. |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by eminex(m): 6:22pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie: its immature, irritating & bad. it spoils what is meant to be a good relationship, crushes it until dere is nothing left to save in it & brings it to abrupt end. it can weaken & kill marriage. it also gives room for infidelity cos it makes d love u have for dat person to diminish wit d lack of communication whilst anoda person is giving u d attention u so desire... 1 Like |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by Truckpusher(m): 7:28pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
bukatyne:They think only about themselves and no one else - Yes ,pride is a major fault they also share in common. Once you learn how to be resolute and ignore them completely without any show of remorse they'll always come back to their senses. They are nothing but manipulative cry babies. 4 Likes |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by Nobody: 7:36pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Truckpusher:Thank you!! |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by Truckpusher(m): 7:44pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul:Silent treatment is filled with the worst hidden drama of all time you ever imagine. Lemme give you an example; You had an argument with your boyfriend and he decided to give you the silent treatment for some couple of hours but as soon as your sisters showed up he's all smiles and warm and the moment you try to engage him in a conversation he shuts down like a treatment plant leaving everybody around to be guessing what crime you've committed to deserve such public rejection from someone that's suppose to make you happy. What impression is he trying to create before your siblings? and how will they perceive you and even himself ,I hope you're aware that a little act of perception can make you a demon instantly in the eyes of people that you think they knew you better especially if they have some reservations about your personality. I still maintain that silent treatment is immature,childish and they are manipulative set of selfish people that would prefer to see you being battered emotionally than say it out and give you that peace of mind you deserve in every relationship. You can only disagree with me on this if you've never been loved by somebody or you never loved your partner in the first place. Which normal person would be happy to torment the people they love so dearly emotionally ,even when they beg for your attention.? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by Truckpusher(m): 8:00pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
nabsprada:I'm not a psychologist. I've dated a perfect silent treatment giver and because of the love and passion we had for each other ,the silent treatment would always lead to a fight and my Mom got involved at a point and I was trying to explain to her that she made me hit her but she told me plain simple that she's manipulating me and I would end up being a woman beater. She told me to learn how to walk away or walk out completely or remain a woman beater - Because she was going to make me one ,it's just a matter of time I'll get use to it and it becomes a normal thing and the name will stick......."woman beater'' After tolerating her for sometime , I was surprised I called it off and I realized what a burden I've been carrying all this while. Just imagine getting a silent treatment from someone and you decided to take a walk and cool off allowing her to come back to her senses,the same person holds you down on your cloth ,lock the door and still continued with the silent treatment - If you're not man enough you'd be forced to retaliate with physical force to free yourself from her stranglehold or take the key back and that's a sad way to go. 1 Like |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
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Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by englishmart(m): 8:04pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
this chick thread don enter final busstop Back to topic. "people in France don't do silent treatments. So I can't answer your question 1 Like |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by LogoDWhiz(m): 8:06pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
I hate that shiii Gals do it more often. I prefer resolving the issue once and fast Don't have the heart to start holding grudges or denying myself of having fun or talking to the girl I love. Double hurt |
Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by Johnaybee: 8:09pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
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Re: OPINION POLL: Silent Treatment - Maturity/immaturity? Good OR Bad? by ignis: 8:11pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
To me, it's not the best. |
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