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Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by chingydaboss(m): 12:56pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Under no condition.. God hates divorce.. Divorce is nt allowed.. U can separate, Bt no one is allowed to marry again.. Separation is distinct frm divorce |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Jsaviour(f): 12:57pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
inasmuch as God used marriage to show us what our relationship with Him is n should be, then we need to understand that since He (God) has not or does not cast us away irrespective of how we wrong Him everyday, then there is no reason for u to cast ur spouse away or dispose him or her off in case of inconvenience. there is no problem that is beyond solution, like someone said earlier that d problem is that most of those marriages r not founded on God, most people that call themselves Christians don't even know Him or hv d fear of God. if u r really a true child of God, if He is ur director then there is nothing His grace will not sufficiently provide for u to b able to stand at all times. ofcourse we all know that one cannot give what he/she doesn't hv. since God is love n d originator of marriage, then u need Him for ur marriage to succeed. if u want ur marriage to b successful;it will b, if u don't, nobody can help u cos d devil has vowed to destroy marriages cos he knows that any Godly marriage that succeeds will b a treat to hi kingdom because of agreement prayer n d Godly seeds they will raise as children. but wen he has succeeded in using u to truncate d little angels that would hv been a treat to him by making ur children traumatized by their parents separation then u hv a lot to answer before God. the bible said that if d foundation b destroyed, what can d righteous do. d problem marriages r facing today is a product of our wrong reasons of getting married n not been prepared or knowing what marriage entails before going in. just know that divorce is not an option before God, cos there is no problem He cannot solve but u r just telling Him he is incapable whereas u r d one who didn't invite or involve He that can make ur marriage work. again knowledge is very vital cos people perish for lack of knowledge. u need to study to show urself approved, read about marriage before entering n above all don't forget to always pray cos a little slumber n d one that has come to steal kill n destroy will take over. 2 Likes |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by franugo(m): 1:02pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
angelTI: am sowwi 2 say this, but ur comment's unbelieveably naive. @op, if u can no longer stand ur spouse then its beta 2 divorce instead of turning or being turned in2 a punching bag or worse!! E.O.D. |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Samabu07(m): 1:03pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Elxandre: My friend I am not married yet. There was a girl I dated till date she still after me cos she knew she goofed real time...few weeks into our rship she was guilty of the worst crime of a rship. I forgave her cos I realised I was even more into her. I treated her and never brought at any time cos I let go of it. She was more scared because I didn't react as a script would play out. I strongly doubt the wife I will marry will do that...if such happens, don't think I will kill her...if I divorce I am not getting married. (Marriage na byforce self)? Let me ask you, when such occur do you divorce your wife and then kill your friend? Is it worth it? Jesus is my role model and not man of God. No real men of God would derail. Are you the one that listen to people or do things to please others? |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by franugo(m): 1:04pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
chingydaboss: what is this one saying "god hates divorce"? Na god some guys dey use do punching bag |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Elxandre(m): 1:06pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Samabu07:You already sealed it with your claim that you won't remarry if that happens. |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by bukatyne(f): 1:07pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
aisha2: Beautiful Happy Sunday 1 Like |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by GoodcasHMan: 1:08pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
If one is truly a child of God, there is no divorce in the book of God and more over God will be in their marriage, and once there is God there is everything but since many people don't put God first their marriages runs into problem and they resulted into divorce |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Samzzy94(m): 1:09pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Wat of a case whereby the husband didnt tell his wife dat he is impotent b4 getting married.it was after d wedding dat the wife discovered his predicament(which was afta 5months of marriage)dat was because d husband was always organising fast&prayers(,and u know it isnt a good idea to do dat tin during dat period).........so wud u say d wife shud remain in the marriage,knowing fully well dat she is not going to have intimacy wit her husband till death do dem part? |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by franugo(m): 1:14pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
mencade5: hmm, bros so na u holy pass U wan tell me say u never chop woman punny Piety no go kill us 4 dis country... Anyway...
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Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by tdayof(m): 1:14pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
holyboss:you get time to dey type epistle |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Larow(m): 1:17pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
simplemach:any bible verse to support that? |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by FreddywellsNGN(m): 1:17pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
simplemach: ...gather the exact crowd to where...and seated before the same priest? Is the church that will commence the divorce process? this is a dulling arrangement of the highest order. ved in the divorce process ? |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by franugo(m): 1:18pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Mhizdimplez: mhizdimples ni?? Where is dechandel Someone wants 2 take ur crown o #MISSsexiestDIMPLES |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Austin234(m): 1:18pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
'What God has joined together let no man put asunder'. 'For the Lord ur God hate divorce'. 'And I say unto u, Whosoever shal put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery' (Math. 19 vs 9) Separation could be a better option than divorce. May God help our homes in Jesus name 1 Like |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by franugo(m): 1:19pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
FreddywellsNGN: methinks he was being sarcastic bro |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by mencade5(m): 1:22pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
franugo:who is talking about piety.....it is message like this that nigerians hate to hear. Am not a pastor mr man. No one is perfect but what stops us from doing the right thing instead of this shameful acts. No wonder corruption continues to cripple this nation due to the fact that people hate to hear you say the truth to them. 1 Like |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by boolet: 1:22pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
honeric01:Who is a "born again" Christian"? Should a "born again" Christian be a "punching bag"? |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by 4C2215131: 1:24pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Zakkyoz: Well sad. Divorce I keep iterating is the best thing that happened to the institution of marriage (a paradox I know, but it is what it is). |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by ALEXIS0240: 1:25pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
simplemach:smiling...come o...with all that crowd in attendance,chopping and flexing go dey? |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by honeric01(m): 1:34pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
freecocoa: These are divine interventions.. They were visited by a force (spiritual) that overpowered their weaknesses which was possible because they themselves wanted to be saved by God himself. Your comparison is not applicable in this issue. Now can you compare this kind of change to that of a man or woman pretending to be mild only to show their true colors when they achieve their aim? Can you become an armed robber? To become an armed robber is an after thought, it didn't happen overnight, it must have been formulated in your mind, debated and discussed in your spirit you before a stand to be a criminal is achieved. Lastly on this.. I repeat, no one changes overnight, what you are today was as a result of multiple things you did, didn't do, acted on or didn't act on yesterday.. You're only manifesting the you of yesterday today. 1 Like |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Samabu07(m): 1:36pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Elxandre: Abobi stop to dey bring words out of my mouth...I am not your conscience. Do what you feel is right and take full responsibility of it afterwards! Guess you weren't interested to hear that a girl I loved and dated cheated on several times...it was when It was clear she wasn't interested I left the rship....up to this very moment she wished we were back. All this while I stayed faithful. I didn't straff any hole not that I didn't have the opportunity. That's just me. Marriage is critical before you divorce think and analyse carefully. You are in the shit not any one else. |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Jeezuzpick(m): 1:36pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
4C2215131: I want to believe what you just said about divorce, but, I just can't! Why do a lot of people nowadays end up twice, thrice or even four times divorced? Cue in some sick excuses for homo sapiens we now call "celebrities" as a case in point. What is glamorous about J.Lo marrying Nick Cannon as hubby no (?) By the way, anyone who calls himself a Christian should live by the Word of God, or he/she quits Christianity. Please remember to look at the topic again. 1 Like |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by FreddywellsNGN(m): 1:36pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by honeric01(m): 1:36pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
boolet: There is nothing like a born again Christian, it's just a word conned out by those who are struggling to stand out as a christian in the midst of other "Christians" and non Christians at large. 1 Like |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Oklans: 1:37pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Divorce came as a result of lack of spiritual consciousness, before gettin married it is very important for one to go the oracle n deities to consult if such person wil b compatible wit him or not, d moment dis is done I don't tink d issues of divorce can come in...pastor has no spiritual eyes to see this, because et they r not spiritually conscious....I wil urge Nigerian, African to go back to our culture because African is more Holy n Potent than religion |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by simplemach(m): 1:38pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Dammyjohn:Well, that is to tell u how 'almost impossible' it is in the Universal church. |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Nobody: 1:40pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Under no condition, a Christian must forgive 77*77 times thus says the Lord. |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Jeezuzpick(m): 1:40pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
honeric01: Sir, you gotta Bible, right? Read John Chapter 3 Verse 3. I may agree with you, though. "Born Again Christian" as a term is what I like to call an "Expedient Anomaly" |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by IBROHIM: 1:41pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
simplemach:wetin be the man evidence? |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Nobody: 1:44pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
kittykat1: Say things you know or what the bible teaches. Can u substantiate this from the bible? Is it not adultery and death that annuls a marriage? So where does the bible teach what u just said? |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Nobody: 1:44pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
synergycom19: Read the whole of Malachi chapter 2 |
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