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Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Nobody: 1:45pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
command01: Its the bible and Gods word you are insulting not mine 1 Like |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by honeric01(m): 1:45pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Jeezuzpick: You seems not to understand.. To be a Christian, you must be born again, true or false? Part of the requirements to being a christian is to be born of water and of the holy spirit. The apostles were not called "born of again Christians" there were called "Christians". Become christ-like and you won't need to use born again to qualify yourself. |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Elxandre(m): 1:45pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Samabu07:But that was what you said now bros.. Lol. |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by bukkytroni: 1:50pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
God hates divorce. Read your Bible from Genesis to Revelation. It is high time babies who dont know their left from right stop getting into what they dont understand. Lets rather focus on teaching young people that marriage is for grown ups. How many youth of nowadays are proud of the fact that they came from broken homes? How many people's direction in life today was shapened by the absence of a father figure while they were being brought up? My answer to DIVORCE is NO. If you have put yourself in an unfortunate situation where divorce is looking like the only way out, it is not God's fault, it is because you refused to listen somewhere along the way.... |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Samabu07(m): 1:55pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Elxandre: Brotherly, inside all my post na that context you pull out...you harsh sha... Sup with you? How's your sunday going? I am very much single...I never see the mother of my kids yet...she's still hiding I guess...me don tire to look for her o. Lol. |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by olukayraph(m): 1:56pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
God said I HATE DIVORCE. MALACHI 2 vs 16. |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by peedeeasobie(m): 1:57pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
speakthetruth: this right here is the reason why most women have been abused and killed in their marriages because of the perceived notion of "no acceptable reason" for divorce. if a man abuses a lady, is that still a marriage? where one of the parties lied about a fundamental thing, is that still a marriage? what if the man was gay but didn't tell the woman, after marriage he abandons her for another man? what if one of the parties had HIV but didn't disclose it till the other party found after the marriage? study the context in which God said he hates divorce, it was because men were maltreating their wives by putting them away just to have another woman. God hates divorce not the divorcee. God loves you more than the marriage. if the marriage is hurting you, leave it! 2 Likes |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by gentlelyfe(m): 1:57pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
first..dere s nofing like born again christian...a born again is also a christian n u cant b a christian if ur nt a born again its only death can seperate marriage though adultery can also lead to such if d offended refused to acept d offender bak evn after 4giveness...but if evry1 can 4give at such incidence den death alone will b d reason for divorce |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Nobody: 1:58pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
honeric01: Is ur 'born again' bigger than the bible? The bible says the rule is: death or adultery may end a marriage. U want to give another intepretation? Or was a separate bible written for 'born agains' |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by franugo(m): 2:02pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
[quote author=mencade5 post=28277281] who is talking about piety.....it is message like this that nigerians hate to hear. Am not a pastor mr man. No one is perfect but what stops us from doing the right thing instead of this shameful acts. No wonder corruption continues to cripple this nation due to the fact that people hate to hear you say the truth to them.[/quote yea thats totally true, but ur previous comment was kinda condemnful(if e dey dictionary} of actions that, essentially everyone does, as if u no dey do am. Charity begins at home man. When u don fit dey pure, we go hear u then. |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by honeric01(m): 2:05pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Poznan: Seems you're not getting me, i am not for "born again" eish, i was only telling the person i quoted to understand the OP is asking for the opinion of people based on christian doctrine. |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by franugo(m): 2:05pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
peedeeasobie: though am nt much of a kristain, but may god bless u a thousand fold!! <if he does exist> |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by idoncome: 2:08pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
galaxybabe:this is what tallesty was trying to say. in catholic church it is called annulment( not divorce). the marriage can be annuled and the couples go their way cos the marriage was never valid(cannonically). 1 Like |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by spirit88: 2:10pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
marriage is not for babes. its not a matter of enjoyment. people have painted it as a very lovely thing but not so. though u can make ur marriage an enjoyable one if only u can take along with u these things 1, u must have a common foundation ie, faith, belief, etc 2, tolerance 3, patience 4, love 5, forgiving spirit 6, accommodating 7, wisdom[color=#006600]marriage is not for babes. its not a matter of enjoyment. people have painted it as a very lovely thing but not so. though u can make ur marriage an enjoyable one if only u can take along with u these things 1, u must have a common foundation ie, faith, belief, etc 2, tolerance 3, patience 4, love 5, forgiving spirit 6, accommodating 7, wisdom |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Mhizdimplez(f): 2:11pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
franugo: me no take things other people .... momma no teach me to do that I have my CROWN..... :p and yes.You're right... #missSEXIESTdimples.. |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by franugo(m): 2:13pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Mhizdimplez: pics or adonbilivit |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by bandol(m): 2:20pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
sammieguze:the vow u made on your wedding day says u would love and abide with your spouse till death do u part. Not even adultery has d power to separate you. Think well before u marry. Once u enter it, there's no reverse gear. |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Mhizdimplez(f): 2:22pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by supereagle(m): 2:25pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
What God has joined together let know put assunder. God hates putting away. |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by idoncome: 2:31pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
FreddywellsNGN:bros this is analogy, meaning 'impossible'. |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Nobody: 2:31pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
For we christians who are followers of Christ, divorce is not an option. Till death do us apart was the vow that was made. We are not permitted to renege on our vows. Jesus said Moses because of your hardness of heart said you should divorce but FROM THE BEGINNING IT WAS NOT SO. Someone said, marriage is to be enjoyed and not endured. This is not true as there is need for tolerance and endurance. In fact, our love for our spouse is tested during difficult times. Let's take for example, the first family in the world: Adam and Eve. With the atrocities and problems that Eve caused Adam such that Adam was cursed and sent out of the garden of Eden yet he never divorce his wife. If Adam did not divorce Eve after the great error that brought horror to his destiny then none of us should consider divorce as an option. I speak only to all of us who are desirous of making it to God's kingdom. 1 Like |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by mokset123: 2:38pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Like you said it 'born again Christian' there is no reason except on the grounds of infidelity. But even at that your vows say for better for worse. |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Elxandre(m): 2:43pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Samabu07:My day was okay o. Attended winners chapel instead of my regular CAC..... Proximity issues. Hehehe... Don't worry she will find you very soon. She probably just read your last comment sef 1 Like |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Nobody: 2:45pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
its been stated clearly in the bible that only on grounds of adultery and cases of death u are not to divorce be it bx of she cant cook well he/she is poor in bed he/she smells e.t.c if u do na hell fire sure ooo |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by adeolu17(m): 2:47pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
in a situation someone discovered that ur so call wife has been shitting on u before married and they still continued after marriage and other eventually gave birth to the each other.and she still want to stay in the marriage. So what can some do |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Nobody: 2:52pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
OasisofRefuge: I think Mathew 19:9 is very clear on this. The only biblical reason for divorce is infidelity. Anything short of that is not acceptable. A wife may decide to separate (take note, this is different from a divorce) from her husband if she rightfully determines that her continued stay will pose a direct threat to her life or health. However, from the Bible's standpoint, she has no moral backing for seeking a divorce and subsequent marriage to another man. Doing so will be adultery. Same thing applies the other way round 1 Like |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Nobody: 2:53pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
aisha2:if only we had more studious Christians than superstitious ones. thanks for clearing that up 1 Like |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by Samabu07(m): 2:56pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Elxandre: Okay bruv...she's reading my posts? I hope so too! |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by uzolexis(f): 2:58pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Tallesty1: On what grounds can a marriage be annulled? Adultery, domestic violence, deceit |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by holyboss: 2:58pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
tdayof:epistle |
Re: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by holyboss: 2:59pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
adexsimply:ok |
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