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If Not For The Love I Have For Her by Nobody: 5:15am On Nov 23, 2014
my girl that I was telling y'all about the last time came yesterday,you know as e dey be now as light no dey I come on Gen we were cooking together (like helping out in the kitchen but she usually ask me to let her do the cooking )in the kitchen and after that we just dey dey gist and later started watching a nollywood movie after some hours we started with the romancing and kissing and other things she come ask me make I go off the Gen that it has been long since its been on(it's around 6pm) and my 'local government ' was soooo at attention that it can pierce through or break zuma rock into two and even if they threw bomb that moment I no send ooo. so I called my neighbour to help me and off the gen and we continued as I removed her pant and when touched her,she seemed like she's been swimming in river niger and I was sooo tempted to enter her Babylon without any visa but the thought of getting her into preggie situation and other negative things that might arise So I told her let me get a condom as soon as I moved Baaam! she closed the gate of Babylon and said she won't do again later I asked her to sit down so that we can talk and she started asking me 'how many girls I've been sleeping with? why did I keep the condom? and other questions. well the condom had been there since my ex and I love my baby soooooooo much that I won't cheat on her with anyone even if it's with Beyonce, she's my everything .so my sweet open minded ladies of nl please answer this for me, why would she do that? and why the off Gen thingy too? (btw its our first time of getting that intimate)could it be that she was shy or what?
Re: If Not For The Love I Have For Her by Hazardd(m): 6:08am On Nov 23, 2014
thats girl mentality,maybe she want you to pregnant her,and she is suspecting you for keeping a condom om your house...
Re: If Not For The Love I Have For Her by Nobody: 4:06am On Nov 24, 2014
@hazard, I'm telling you BRO..I don't know her intention of acting that way,i can't give birth to a child now cos right now i'm not ready to take very good care of my love and my baby. I want to be ready to give them the best of everything when the time comes but unwanted pregnancy is a big NO NO for me, I thank God I was able to overcome the temptation.
Re: If Not For The Love I Have For Her by Equado(m): 4:12am On Nov 24, 2014
B4 I advise...lemme ask,z she a calabar girl??na calabar girls custom b dhat
Re: If Not For The Love I Have For Her by mencade6: 4:55am On Nov 24, 2014
icedbeatz:
my girl that I was telling y'all about the last time came yesterday,you know as e dey be now as light no dey I come on Gen we were cooking together (like helping out in the kitchen but she usually ask me to let her do the cooking )in the kitchen and after that we just dey dey gist and later started watching a nollywood movie after some hours we started with the romancing and kissing and other things she come ask me make I go off the Gen that it has been long since its been on(it's around 6pm) and my 'local government ' was soooo at attention that it can pierce through or break zuma rock into two and even if they threw bomb that moment I no send ooo. so I called my neighbour to help me and off the gen and we continued as I removed her pant and when touched her,she seemed like she's been swimming in river niger and I was sooo tempted to enter her Babylon without any visa but the thought of getting her into preggie situation and other negative things that might arise So I told her let me get a condom as soon as I moved Baaam! she closed the gate of Babylon and said she won't do again later I asked her to sit down so that we can talk and she started asking me 'how many girls I've been sleeping with? why did I keep the condom? and other questions. well the condom had been there since my ex and I love my baby soooooooo much that I won't cheat on her with anyone even if it's with Beyonce, she's my everything .so my sweet open minded ladies of nl please answer this for me, why would she do that? and why the off Gen thingy too? (btw its our first time of getting that intimate)could it be that she was shy or what?
ur lady probably has sexually transmitted disease which has surfaced on her va...gi..nal. She doesnt want u to see it that is why ask for the gen to be switched off...bro pls use ur condom oooo.....if not na gonorhea u go get
Re: If Not For The Love I Have For Her by MisterLongman(m): 5:37am On Nov 24, 2014
Sorry to say this but your gf is mentally confused. She doesn't know what she wants. If you had left her when she told you to go off the gen, she would have closed the gate then. She wants to have secs at the same trying to muster a weak strength to resist the temptation. Going for the CD provided the opportunity after the first attempt failed.
I might be wrong tho, maybe she's trying to hide something from you
Re: If Not For The Love I Have For Her by Agybabe(f): 6:17am On Nov 24, 2014
Equado:
B4 I advise...lemme ask,z she a calabar girl??na calabar girls custom b dhat
ah hope say dem no do you? Take time o.


BTW, OP she didn't want to get so intimate, maybe she wanted just romance. The touchy touch scenerio so as to calm down her libido.

The generator part doesn't necessarily mean she has a flaw on her body. You know, some peeps likes dim light or no light atall in the room.

As for the condom part...erm...well, don't mind her and do not blame her. Remember you said you guys haven't gone intimate before, so she'll be like, "how come the condom? Does he do it with other gehs".

Girls who haven't been intimate with you before can't help but think that. But your geh didn't only think it...she said it out. It's a good one, afterall before she kills you, she'll tell you. grin

Thank God you love her. I think you guys just started. It takes lotta patience with a newbie.


~>MaLady<~
Re: If Not For The Love I Have For Her by Equado(m): 6:31am On Nov 24, 2014
Agybabe:

ah hope say dem no do you? Take time o.


BTW, OP she didn't want to get so intimate, maybe she wanted just romance. The touchy touch scenerio so as to calm down her libido.

The generator part doesn't necessarily mean she has a flaw on her body. You know, some peeps likes dim light or no light atall in the room.

As for the condom part...erm...well, don't mind her and do not blame her. Remember you said you guys haven't gone intimate before, so she'll be like, "how come the condom? Does he do it with other gehs".

Girls who haven't been intimate with you before can't help but think that. But your geh didn't only think it...she said it out. It's a good one, afterall before she kills you, she'll tell you. grin

Thank God you love her. I think you guys just started. It takes lotta patience with a newbie.


~>MaLady<~
when I was schooling in cally...all d girls I met had a strict no condom principle...d tin slf fear mi....evn 1 runz gal 1 tym..nd ma guyz testified same...
Re: If Not For The Love I Have For Her by Agybabe(f): 8:54am On Nov 24, 2014
Equado:
when I was schooling in cally...all d girls I met had a strict no condom principle...d tin slf fear mi....evn 1 runz gal 1 tym..nd ma guyz testified same...
na them be that.
Re: If Not For The Love I Have For Her by 100Cents: 10:48am On Nov 24, 2014
icedbeatz:
my girl that I was telling y'all about the last time came yesterday,you know as e dey be now as light no dey I come on Gen we were cooking together (like helping out in the kitchen but she usually ask me to let her do the cooking )in the kitchen and after that we just dey dey gist and later started watching a nollywood movie after some hours we started with the romancing and kissing and other things she come ask me make I go off the Gen that it has been long since its been on(it's around 6pm) and my 'local government ' was soooo at attention that it can pierce through or break zuma rock into two and even if they threw bomb that moment I no send ooo. so I called my neighbour to help me and off the gen and we continued as I removed her pant and when touched her,she seemed like she's been swimming in river niger and I was sooo tempted to enter her Babylon without any visa but the thought of getting her into preggie situation and other negative things that might arise So I told her let me get a condom as soon as I moved Baaam! she closed the gate of Babylon and said she won't do again later I asked her to sit down so that we can talk and she started asking me 'how many girls I've been sleeping with? why did I keep the condom? and other questions. well the condom had been there since my ex and I love my baby soooooooo much that I won't cheat on her with anyone even if it's with Beyonce, she's my everything .so my sweet open minded ladies of nl please answer this for me, why would she do that? and why the off Gen thingy too? (btw its our first time of getting that intimate)could it be that she was shy or what?


Hahaha, you are still a learner.

There is a way to make sure the gate doesn't close.

It is not for a forum like this.
Re: If Not For The Love I Have For Her by 100Cents: 10:50am On Nov 24, 2014
icedbeatz:
@hazard, I'm telling you BRO..I don't know her intention of acting that way,i can't give birth to a child now cos right now i'm not ready to take very good care of my love and my baby. I want to be ready to give them the best of everything when the time comes but unwanted pregnancy is a big NO NO for me, I thank God I was able to overcome the temptation .

It was not a temptation. It is a female psychology thing
.
Re: If Not For The Love I Have For Her by 100Cents: 10:53am On Nov 24, 2014
mencade6:
ur lady probably has sexually transmitted disease which has surfaced on her va...gi..nal. She doesnt want u to see it that is why ask for the gen to be switched off...bro pls use ur condom oooo.....if not na gonorhea u go get

Possibly..
Re: If Not For The Love I Have For Her by Nobody: 12:26pm On Nov 24, 2014
u got it wrong bro, real galz dnt lik the guy they love, having a CD on when having sex with them #fact
Re: If Not For The Love I Have For Her by Nobody: 8:35pm On Nov 24, 2014
@equado, no she's not from calabar so what u got for me bro?
Re: If Not For The Love I Have For Her by Nobody: 8:38pm On Nov 24, 2014
mencade6:
ur lady probably has sexually transmitted disease which has surfaced on her va...gi..nal. She doesnt want u to see it that is why ask for the gen to be switched off...bro pls use ur condom oooo.....if not na gonorhea u go get

@mencade may be bro but I don't think so cos she's kinda shy about being naked or when it comes to intimate stuff
Re: If Not For The Love I Have For Her by Nobody: 8:48pm On Nov 24, 2014
Agybabe:

ah hope say dem no do you? Take time o.


BTW, OP she didn't want to get so intimate, maybe she wanted just romance. The touchy touch scenerio so as to calm down her libido.

The generator part doesn't necessarily mean she has a flaw on her body. You know, some peeps likes dim light or no light atall in the room.

As for the condom part...erm...well, don't mind her and do not blame her. Remember you said you guys haven't gone intimate before, so she'll be like, "how come the condom? Does he do it with other gehs".

Girls who haven't been intimate with you before can't help but think that. But your geh didn't only think it...she said it out. It's a good one, afterall before she kills you, she'll tell you. grin

Thank God you love her. I think you guys just started. It takes lotta patience with a newbie.


~>MaLady<~
Agybabe:

ah hope say dem no do you? Take time o.


BTW, OP she didn't want to get so intimate, maybe she wanted just romance. The touchy touch scenerio so as to calm down her libido.

The generator part doesn't necessarily mean she has a flaw on her body. You know, some peeps likes dim light or no light atall in the room.

As for the condom part...erm...well, don't mind her and do not blame her. Remember you said you guys haven't gone intimate before, so she'll be like, "how come the condom? Does he do it with other gehs".

Girls who haven't been intimate with you before can't help but think that. But your geh didn't only think it...she said it out. It's a good one, afterall before she kills you, she'll tell you. grin

Thank God you love her. I think you guys just started. It takes lotta patience with a newbie.


~>MaLady<~
Agybabe:

ah hope say dem no do you? Take time o.


BTW, OP she didn't want to get so intimate, maybe she wanted just romance. The touchy touch scenerio so as to calm down her libido.

The generator part doesn't necessarily mean she has a flaw on her body. You know, some peeps likes dim light or no light atall in the room.

As for the condom part...erm...well, don't mind her and do not blame her. Remember you said you guys haven't gone intimate before, so she'll be like, "how come the condom? Does he do it with other gehs".

Girls who haven't been intimate with you before can't help but think that. But your geh didn't only think it...she said it out. It's a good one, afterall before she kills you, she'll tell you. grin

Thank God you love her. I think you guys just started. It takes lotta patience with a newbie.


~>MaLady<~


hahahahahshaha I guess so, use to encourage her to be very open with me and tell me what's on her Mind but if she talks about killing, my dear I will relocate to sambisa forest oooo faster than Usain Bolt . hahahahahshaha Lol
Re: If Not For The Love I Have For Her by ronald4lif(m): 8:58pm On Nov 24, 2014
You did the right thing by reaching for the condom, there are so many advantages having sex with a condom. I am not sure what her reasons could be for closing the gate but it has nothing to do with having condom at home ( that's if she understands that). Its always advisable to have condoms at home. For emergencies lol
Re: If Not For The Love I Have For Her by Nobody: 9:05pm On Nov 24, 2014
100Cents:



Hahaha, you are still a learner.

There is a way to make sure the gate doesn't close.

It is not for a forum like this.


100cent hahahahahshaha well there's a difference b/w wanting the gate owner to willingly open and keep the gate open and manipulating the gate owner to open the gate bro.....just don't want to do it cos I want to do it(selfishness) rather I want us to do it cos WE WANT TO DO IT bro,no manipulation ..... I don't have time for games like that anymore. shalom ;-)
Re: If Not For The Love I Have For Her by Nobody: 9:14pm On Nov 24, 2014
eminentme:
u got it wrong bro, real galz dnt lik the guy they love, having a CD on when having sex with them #fact

I suspected that but you the trend of getting a NIGGA by 'I'm pregnant ' style(not saying that's what she wants to do, just generalizing )and sharing an STD ......the ladies should answer this one for us to confirm. so ladies is it true that you peeps don't like it when the one you truly loves wants to go down with u with a rubber?
Re: If Not For The Love I Have For Her by Nobody: 9:16pm On Nov 24, 2014
ronald4lif:
You did the right thing by reaching for the condom, there are so many advantages having sex with a condom. I am not sure what her reasons could be for closing the gate but it has nothing to do with having condom at home ( that's if she understands that). Its always advisable to have condoms at home. For emergencies lol

hahahahahhahahahah hell yeah bro, its an emergency tool and the situation really called for it... lol
Re: If Not For The Love I Have For Her by Agybabe(f): 10:46pm On Nov 24, 2014
icedbeatz:
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hahahahahshaha I guess so, use to encourage her to be very open with me and tell me what's on her Mind but if she talks about killing, my dear I will relocate to sambisa forest oooo faster than Usain Bolt . hahahahahshaha Lol
it's unheard of anywhere in the world (very rare) for a girl to be so open about her personal life to her partner in a new relationship. You need to earn her trust first.

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