Only be Nice to the She who Loves you. DASSAL!

Just don't be a pushover, stand your ground!

tosyne2much:
na on top that palm tree sure oga mi

sha no go break... That was how my grandpa died!!!

Aufck em. They ain't loyal.

mecussey:
Just be urself but don't trim yourself to please a woman. Have it in mind that money is the power of a man. It is better to have money and be searching for love than to have love and be searching for money.

. Whao! i really like this your comment

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Tallesty1:
I know from the beginning that women don't like nice guys, what they want is a gentle man, a gentleman who is stubborn, untamable, controlling, confident and independent. they don't want a man that will be nice to them all the timw (aka nice-guy). they all need a good kick in the as's somtimes and nice guys can't do that cause they pamper-women.

I think its the other way round.ladies shouldnt be too nice to their male friends.some months ago,a church member called me.I mean we've been friends for 2yrs.he said he needed 5k to settle an issue about his car with the VIO.so I told him to come over that same day and gave the money.I didn't even question his integrity for once cuz we were friends.he promised he was going to give me the mony back few days and I was like he shud take his time.after weeks,he stop piking my calls.never responded to my text.I was even worried if sometn had happened to him that I had to call another friend of ours to check on him for me if everytn was alrite.he picked the guy's call and they spoke @ lenght.till today,I haven't seen him.the day he accompanied some church members to my house,by the time I got downstairs,they said he had passed another route.all because of 5k.I just laughed.my fiance just blames me for the incident.he said "I'm always too nice"......#lessonlearnt

Dis thread is goin 2 mislead some ppl frm bein natuaraly nice 2 an aggressive naggin nimkoompuzzyz! Some ppl funny sha, i am a nice guy & gels deeply appreciate me, even if dey dnt i dnt bloody care, because i'm an unbiased christian, tnk u my brethren!

Being Nice & Being Foolish are two different things.. Don't get it twisted.

Being Nice is seeing a girl u know walking by,saying just hello n letting her walk pass.


Being Foolish is seeing a girl u know walking by, saying hello, walking towards her , help her hold her bags, & escort her to wherever she is going to...(& then walk back home ALONE).

waley007:
I have been very nice to my girlfriend kemi and she has really taken me for granted..she even cheated wit a guy abroad which I nabbed her yesterday,saw dia chat..now shes proving sturborn and arrogant to me..at times its good to be nice and its also not good to be nice,if I had been a bad guy,den I would have been bad....dont know if I should continue with her afta she begged me but shes still proving sturborn with it

word of advice bro RUN! (From someone that have been there)

sammy042:
..hahaha..1 girl like dat in my area borrow me money,dat she will pay me in 2 weks tim..2Weks don reach,i dd ask her abt d moni goin to 3 wek..
me.nkechi,have u forgetn u're owin me?

nkechi.sam, i kwn nah.i will still pay u..

me.it has pass the tim u promis to pay me?

nkechi..sam,u are a v NICE GUY dat's y i like u eenh,sam sam..

going to a month and d girl never pay me am jst tryin to main10 my nicenes.6 weeks later she boght a new phone and am broke den..how d i collect my 5k from dis gel ok,lemme me meet her best friend and tell her wot's going on..her frd told me dat she is away of it dat am too nice dat's y she dn't want to pay me back my money..mayb she thinkin i wnt d anytin 2 her..

d nxt day i want 2 her rum witout knokin nd i collectd her new fone from her..
nkechi.sam,wat ar u tryin todo?
me.i want my moni, wheneva u pay me my money i wil giv u ur fone back.
nkechi.ok,i will pay u ur money on sunday,pls .
me.no am going bye
nkechi.i though u're a nice guy have patient wit me nah.sam u hav changd,u re no more d sam i knw before..
me.am no more a nice guy i ve changd,ok.

dat day she gv me my moni back...dis hapnd in my scondry skul time..being too nice to ladies is a taboo

I go buy you beer. You be correct guy.

Una suppose do offline meeting, cos I don't think all these updates on friendzone and nice guy will be enough..............


YeYe de smell

#yimu

I am, have always been, will always be nice to ladies. I am my parents only son and have five sisters. It's just who I am.


Plus there's a difference between being nice and being stupiddd

Mprex:
Op, pls define the word;NICE

like washing ur under wears.

iceberylin:
Magas be like....

that guy comment go make a great meme.

mecussey:
Just be urself but don't trim yourself to please a woman. Have it in mind that money is the power of a man. It is better to have money and be searching for love than to have love and be searching for money.

. WORD!!!!

[size=15pt]Lol, someone said being nice to a lady is a taboo... funny NL guys.

Always be NICE and like someone said the opposite of NICE is RUDE, so be nice and don't be corky but be a gentleman.

One thing you need is know how to say NO and when to say NO.

A girl told me to help her drop her bag to the class, we don't talk or even greet in class, I said NO I can't and this is because of my gentle face she thought I'm that mumu guy , the next class i saw her told her the reason why I can't carry her bag to the class she got the message and now we are good friends.

Being nice doesn't mean you are mumu or mugu, just know when to say NO to a task.[/size]

chimerase2:
I have been frendzoned a lot
That was why I quite chatting be it BBM FB whatsap etc all of them closed down except nairaland wich to me is not a chatting network rada a jonzing network

why won't u be friendzoned? With this ur yeye signature

sammy042:
1.They may take emotional,moral,physical or financial advantages of you in a daily life because you are being nice and do not have the heart to say NO.
2.They will start taking you for granted thinking "oh he's too nice,he won't say anything.Mr nice guy.
3.You may always be the one to bow down out of arguments simply because you habituated to being nice.
4.They will soon start finding you boring.
5.if you are just too nice to your partner all the time,you may find yourself doing all the work..
6.Being too nice may make you the victim of practical jokes because you will not be expected to retaliate.
7.You stop being yourself.
8.you will start living according to their expectation.friend-zone.
9.you rarely say no to request.mugu,maga etc
10.95 percent of nigerian ladies don't date mr nice guy.



Excess of anything is too bad,it's good to be nice but not uber-nice...i don't knw how true this statement is"Nice guy finish last"....be Real

In my own case, this girl decided to take advantage of me having shown her brotherly love just because she was tipsy. Not knowing that she wanted to seduce me. Indeed, women are unpredictable

tintingz:
[size=15pt]Lol, someone said being nice to a lady is a taboo... funny NL guys.

Always be NICE and like someone said the opposite of NICE is RUDE, so be nice and don't be corky but be
a gentleman.

One thing you need is know how to say NO and when to say NO.

A girl told me to help her drop her bag to the class, we don't talk or even greet in class, I said NO I can't , the next class i saw her told her reason why I can't carry her bag to the class she got the message and now we are good friends.

Being nice doesn't mean you are mumu or mugu, just know when to say NO to a task[/size]

bruh wah of seein a preety gal walkin pass u nd u decided to say hello..wah wud u cal dt...nice or wah?

tr3y:

that guy comment go make a great meme.

Big m**u ehhh

kristein:

bruh wah of seein a preety gal walkin pass u nd u decided to say hello..wah wud u cal dt...nice or wah?

wooing

Insult

ebosse:


Of course not every woman (Even those you're romantically interested in) behave like that.. All humans are NOT the same.


But trust me, ppl taking advantage has nothing to do with romance... I'm 1 of those guys who never send Recharge card to a girl I'm interested in( to avoid given her a wrong impression) but I have no problem doing that for a friend... I was sending card to my female COUSIN ( as much as I could afford to).. Then she started demanding for it almost Daily... Doesn't this count as trying to take advantage because I was being too nice

I liked your comments. You are right about taking advantage. I call it exploitation.

I did have an experience when I was serving, out of being nice I decided to contribute to girl's birthday, buy stuffs like drinks just because we've been talking. Well that was a mistake. Since then she will keep asking, giving so many sad stories and me our of pity I will give out. She wasn't afraid or ashamed to ask again. She made me assume full monetary responsibility.

I told myself never again. I still help anyway I can but I try to avoid any wrong impression by giving too much than expected.

I have no apologies or regrets for being nice to women.
You gain more in the end.

mztubsy:
I think its the other way round.ladies shouldnt be too nice to their male friends.some months ago,a church member called me.I mean we've been friends for 2yrs.he said he needed 5k to settle an issue about his car with the VIO.so I told him to come over that same day and gave the money.I didn't even question his integrity for once cuz we were friends.he promised he was going to give me the mony back few days and I was like he shud take his time.after weeks,he stop piking my calls.never responded to my text.I was even worried if sometn had happened to him that I had to call another friend of ours to check on him for me if everytn was alrite.he picked the guy's call and they spoke @ lenght.till today,I haven't seen him.the day he accompanied some church members to my house,by the time I got downstairs,they said he had passed another route.all because of 5k.I just laughed.my fiance just blames me for the incident.he said "I'm always too nice"......#lessonlearnt

He actually doesn't know how to approach you about it , fear catch am! Mummy mummy , u no nice oh

chimerase2:
I have been frendzoned a lot
That was why I quite chatting be it BBM FB whatsap etc all of them closed down except nairaland wich to me is not a chatting network rada a jonzing network

Guy calm down! It's not every girl u chat wit u'll ask out. Just learn how to say NO and stand ur ground. Guys make the mistake of thinking that when they are too nice to ladies, the ladies will trip/fall for them. From my experience, i've learnt that the opposite is the case. When u insist on the right thing, whether the shawtie likes it or not, you'll gain her respect. She might pretend to be angry, but she'll always come back to chat with you and start giving u green lights. Just don't be harsh about it.

PAINGAIN:
Na so I took my coleague to one eatery to buy lunch bcus she asked me (southy girls dey always dey broke). I must say d girl set well well and I been don dey eye am and I know she somehow likes me. After buying take away for her, na so she carry d food wan give me make I carry for her. I say shoo,I buy food for u and u wan make I carry am for u,if I woos u slap now. She carry her food enter office but her behaviour towards me changed after dat incident. Its like I'm d guy she's been waiting for. She knows her boundaries cus she's realized dat I no b moi moi. We don share our first,second,third kisses. She go come my house this weekend, make I tear dat waist,chai!. And believe me,if southy girls dey come ur house na to nack u be dat o, dem no dey for first or second coming like naija babes wey dey too form. I say to my fellow guys,be nice but don't be too nice to dem ladies. Know when to say NO. Ka odikwa nu.

You be the man............... I hail you jare.

Ladies don't like nice Guys they like Badt guys"

englishmart:
I will continue to be nice to ladies. If they mess up, karma is always ready to strike

Stop kidding yourself and get a life. Women (most of them) don't deserve it. I once gave a lady a lift. When I got to where our roads split, she wasn't happy that I wasn't going further her way. She alighted from my car and just said "bye". The next day I got to that place, I asked my driver to slow down so that we may help some people. I asked him to reverse far back cos there were only ladies close to where he stopped. I refused to carry any of them.

And I thought I was nice... This hurts.

wetin concern agbero and overload


*exits thread*