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Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by sage2(m): 6:47pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
Well, I am a nice and shy guy. But one thing my mom never did is raised a fool. I am one of the few nice and shy guys who always finish first. I have had tonnes of girls say this to me, "so you are like this? I can't believe that you will ever do this to me". And trust me, I did nothing wrong. My only fault is that based on their own reading of me, I was expected to act my way into a particular character they had imagined me to be. It turns out I always act true to my real element. The good thing is, they always learn to love and respect the true me - a no nonsense nice, shy and sharp bad guy with too much swag. 16 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by tyconcepts(f): 6:48pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
So much bitterness against the women folk on here.... 4 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Nobody: 6:49pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
I think I agree with this. . . Lordabas: And this. . . . Tallesty1: Sums it up nicely. |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Nobody: 6:51pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
Tallesty1: well not all women. |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Nobody: 6:52pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
Ethereal0110: Unfortunately, they will stay. Yes...they will stay with the intention of trying to "change him for the better". The OP is right. I have had the experience before. |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by holatin(m): 6:53pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
some reason y some guys turn gay 3 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Mavor: 6:55pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
If only God could swap all 9ja girls out and bring Ethiopian women in their place. ![]() 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by jahbiz: 6:56pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
englishmart:why ago wait for karma when afit helep myself. Karma too dey waste time abeg. 2 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Wisegeek01(m): 6:57pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
You shouldn't be a total nice guy, you should b a little cocky, fun, indifferent, . .. Also be a gentleman* Every lady definitely likes the wild side at least to an extent, spiced with some suspense thrilling experience. .. a nice guy can't deliver that tho* If a lady dubs you a nice guy, you're done for "Don't start smiling and feeling good about yourself" Ladies like confident guys who can say NO to them at times, not nice guys who don't know their ryt from left. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by lafuria1(m): 6:57pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
tyconcepts:Hahahha, goes to show what men don't say to women, just to hide it in order to be 'man'. |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by blakky97(m): 6:57pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
sammy042: Nairaland is gradually turning into a male chauvinist play ground. All topics that show women as negative creatures make front page, and get too much attention. Why should there be a topic like: disadvantage of being nice to women. We re in a modern world now, some women are far above men socially, mentally, financially and what have you. It takes a proud man to think he's superior to somebody on account that she's female. A woman in an oil company for instance is far above those men with dried bier bier and big dirty long sleeve shirts in faded trousers and filed shoes still telling themselves " I won't marry her if... I won't be nice to women because,.." Its time to open our minds and see life as real as it is rather than as we wish or imagine it to be. 4 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Tallesty1(m): 7:04pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
Elantracey:I know, just looking for someone's trouble. |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Wisegeek01(m): 7:04pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
A lady may want a nice guy, because he's "nice" but in reality or wired in her subconscious mind, she doesn’t. Because she thinks Nice is weak – it’s boring. She wants excitement. She wants mystery, surprise, drama. She needs a bad boy. So don't blame. .. It's how they are wired* 5 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Nobody: 7:05pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
blakky97:Metrosexual alert 2 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by chukist: 7:07pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
Bein nice to ladies is good bt always stand on ur words 2 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by PontiusPilate: 7:11pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
am guilty of all of the above but i have learnt my lesson. Nigerian women does not worth being nice to. NB am not a broke assss nigga o 1 Like |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Marlicque: 7:12pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
hahahhaa, nice one.... but no forget to give us the concluding part of the story oooooooo ... we will be waiting ![]() ![]() ![]() PAINGAIN: |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by monex(m): 7:12pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
when you are nice. i mean nice. you cannot be taken for granted because it is on your terms. like andromida said, it is the fake nice so she would notice you that gets taken advantage of. you niceness is your personality not something u do to please women. and yes, nice guys can be enigmatic. she hates the fact that it is not about her but about you. she realises that you would still be nice to her if she wasnt beautiful, sexy, intelligent (and the other desirable values). those features cannot be a bargaining chip. you are nice to her because you are a nice person. you expect nothing from her hence you cannot be taken advantage of. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Drenix(m): 7:16pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
[b][/b]U R RYT BRO.... BEEN 2 NICE 2 LADIES AINT COOL AT ALL. IF U ARE 2 NICE 2 LADIES DEY TAG A MUMU.AM A VICTIM OF DAT. I HAD A GALFWEND BACK DEN, SHE WAS A VIRGIN, DUE 2 MA NICE GUY ATTITUDE I PROMISED NOT 2 DISVIRGIN HER UNTIL SHE WAS READY 4 IT. I NEVER KNEW 1 SHARP BADT GUY WAS AROUND D CORNER WATCHING HER.. D MOST ANNOYING PART OF IT WAS DAT SHE SAVED MA NAME WITH ''''MR NICE GUY'''' D REST NA STORY NOW... CUZ I DON BADT PASS MESSI NOW... XO MA GUYS MAKE UNA USE UNA HEAD 4 GALS OOOOOO ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by dollyparton(m): 7:20pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
sammy042:And you successfully murdered English language. R.I.P English. 5 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Mobyloaded(m): 7:24pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
dollyparton:Please when is the english funeral? |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Ethereal0110(f): 7:31pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
Mumu ![]() |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by dollyparton(m): 7:34pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
Mobyloaded:To be announced on the NTA network news tomorrow. 2 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by StarCj(m): 7:34pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
guy u are on point. ride on |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Mobyloaded(m): 7:35pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
When you are saying why you shouldn't be nice to ladies. I think you all also need to read Ten Facts About Ladies https://www.nairaland.com/2014998/10-facts-woman Real funny facts tho |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by dein77(m): 7:38pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
Very true. I no go share my experience ooo |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Nobody: 7:40pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
I stopped being a nice guy when my Ex's friends told me I over pampered her when she started misbehaving. Now my current gf is complaining that I'm too harsh on her 2 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by coccinella1888: 7:42pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
All ladies r nt d same joor |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Ethereal0110(f): 7:42pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
There is a thick line btwn NICE and MUMU-nity i think you guys are confused and mixing things up, u go out and act foolish in front of a girl then when u dont get what u want or u feel used, (well u allowed urself 2 be used) u feel contempt and react like SOD's #no offence, + my fiance is a nice guy and i dont take him for granted, # IF A GIRL DOESN'T WANT U SHE WILL TREAT U LIKE SH*T. 1 Like |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Mobyloaded(m): 7:42pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
dollyparton:Lmao... Let us attend and bury english in grand style. Na pidgin we go use finish him spirit 1 Like |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Ethereal0110(f): 7:45pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
U have 2 use wisdom, apply wisdom-balm where theirs pain. Atimes public opinions dont work |
Re: Disadvantages Of Being Nice To Women.. by Nobody: 7:52pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
andromida: Thats not true my dear...you girls always have a way of turning nice guys into "weyrey" except the ones dat dont wanna learn...I once decided to take pity on a girl I met @d car park who said her money remained only #200 to be paid...I & another lady decided to pay #100 each to balance her money...then we got chatting and allowed her even use my tablet to make a phone call to the man she was going to meet...in her mind she thought she had seen a maga...she never knew I was just catching my fun...when we dropped she didnt know where she was going so I decided to help her call the guy for direction again den I described the direction to the place for her...all these while I sensed she was just studying me thinking she had caught a big fool...she got the shocker when I didnt even ask for her digits & waved her goodbye...d@s how she quickly requested for my number..I gave her nonchalantly. The fool started flashing me since then...me too was just playing along & forming maga..until today she said she's stranded financially....I just yearn am straight say I dey broke & get plenty responsibility..she say she thought doctors always have money & d@ she even thought I'm a senator the day she saw me...me just laugh throway...girls always want us to believe they are mysterious...thats a pure fallacy...how can someone with a fish brain be...she has started jelljng for me sef cos I just turn her down in a way she has never seen b4...I rarely call her sef & I cut her calls most times cos I no really send am...as from now I no go even call am again sef...she must burn credit small too abeg...enough of the fun...lets get down to business. 12 Likes |
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