chimerase2:
I have been frendzoned a lot
That was why I quite chatting be it BBM FB whatsap etc all of them closed down except nairaland wich to me is not a chatting network rada a jonzing network

englishmart:
lol. See as all of una dey copy that young man's signature......

iceberylin:
Magas be like....

tintingz:
[size=15pt]Lol, someone said being nice to a lady is a taboo... funny NL guys.

Always be NICE and like someone said the opposite of NICE is RUDE, so be nice and don't be corky but be a gentleman.

One thing you need is know how to say NO and when to say NO.

A girl told me to help her drop her bag to the class, we don't talk or even greet in class, I said NO I can't and this is because of my gentle face she thought I'm that mumu guy , the next class i saw her told her the reason why I can't carry her bag to the class she got the message and now we are good friends.

Being nice doesn't mean you are mumu or mugu, just know when to say NO to a task.[/size]

Ethereal0110:
There is a thick line btwn NICE and MUMU-nity i think you guys are confused and mixing things up, u go out and act foolish in front of a girl then when u dont get what u want or u feel used, (well u allowed urself 2 be used) u feel contempt and react like SOD's #no offence, + my fiance is a nice guy and i dont take him for granted,
# IF A GIRL DOESN'T WANT U SHE WILL TREAT U LIKE SH*T.

waley007:


Thats d problem,dis girl loves me and I love her too,we av been so addicted to each other and now I find it hard to trust her...it cant get off my mind and am so confused

vizboy:
make una leave us friendzoned guys alone now wetin we do.

blakky97:


Nairaland is gradually turning into a male chauvinist play ground. All topics that show women as negative creatures make front page, and get too much attention. Why should there be a topic like: disadvantage of being nice to women. We re in a modern world now, some women are far above men socially, mentally, financially and what have you. It takes a proud man to think he's superior to somebody on account that she's female. A woman in an oil company for instance is far above those men with dried bier bier and big dirty long sleeve shirts in faded trousers and filed shoes still telling themselves " I won't marry her if... I won't be nice to women because,.." Its time to open our minds and see life as real as it is rather than as we wish or imagine it to be.

venivedivici:
Na when I see the number of people wey dey view this thread I realise say we plenty wey don fall. . .




NO MORE MR NICE GUY

Mavor:
If only God could swap all 9ja girls out and bring Ethiopian women in their place.

vizboy:
make una leave us friendzoned guys alone now wetin we do.

sammy042:
1.They may take emotional,moral,physical or financial advantages of you in a daily life because you are being nice and do not have the heart to say NO.
2.They will start taking you for granted thinking "oh he's too nice,he won't say anything.Mr nice guy.
3.You may always be the one to bow down out of arguments simply because you habituated to being nice.
4.They will soon start finding you boring.
5.if you are just too nice to your partner all the time,you may find yourself doing all the work..
6.Being too nice may make you the victim of practical jokes because you will not be expected to retaliate.
7.You stop being yourself.
8.you will start living according to their expectation.friend-zone.
9.you rarely say no to request.mugu,maga etc
10.95 percent of nigerian ladies don't date mr nice guy.



Excess of anything is too bad,it's good to be nice but not uber-nice...i don't knw how true this statement is"Nice guy finish last"....be Real

ChiSun27:


You know one thing my friend...

Ur head dey dia jare...jst pasted ur comment on my FB wall. It is one of the most sensible comment I av eva read on dis land kald Naira.


I gave credit to u though....I cut am cus I don't wanna shw my full dtails

sammy042:
1.They may take emotional,moral,physical or financial advantages of you in a daily life because you are being nice and do not have the heart to say NO.
2.They will start taking you for granted thinking "oh he's too nice,he won't say anything.Mr nice guy.
3.You may always be the one to bow down out of arguments simply because you habituated to being nice.
4.They will soon start finding you boring.
5.if you are just too nice to your partner all the time,you may find yourself doing all the work..
6.Being too nice may make you the victim of practical jokes because you will not be expected to retaliate.
7.You stop being yourself.
8.you will start living according to their expectation.friend-zone.
9.you rarely say no to request.mugu,maga etc
10.95 percent of nigerian ladies don't date mr nice guy.



Excess of anything is too bad,it's good to be nice but not uber-nice...i don't knw how true this statement is"Nice guy finish last"....be Real

iceberylin:
Magas be like....

sammy042:
..hahaha..1 girl like dat in my area borrow me money,dat she will pay me in 2 weks tim..2Weks don reach,i dd ask her abt d moni goin to 3 wek..
me.nkechi,have u forgetn u're owin me?

nkechi.sam, i kwn nah.i will still pay u..

me.it has pass the tim u promis to pay me?

nkechi..sam,u are a v NICE GUY dat's y i like u eenh,sam sam..

going to a month and d girl never pay me am jst tryin to main10 my nicenes.6 weeks later she boght a new phone and am broke den..how d i collect my 5k from dis gel ok,lemme me meet her best friend and tell her wot's going on..her frd told me dat she is away of it dat am too nice dat's y she dn't want to pay me back my money..mayb she thinkin i wnt d anytin 2 her..

d nxt day i want 2 her rum witout knokin nd i collectd her new fone from her..
nkechi.sam,wat ar u tryin todo?
me.i want my moni, wheneva u pay me my money i wil giv u ur fone back.
nkechi.ok,i will pay u ur money on sunday,pls .
me.no am going bye
nkechi.i though u're a nice guy have patient wit me nah.sam u hav changd,u re no more d sam i knw before..
me.am no more a nice guy i ve changd,ok.

dat day she gv me my moni back...dis hapnd in my scondry skul time..being too nice to ladies is a taboo

Whizzdom:

OP you are rite .... Dem ladies too dey form if man don dey pamper dem too much

I trust maself .... As a sharp Ibadan boy dah i am .... I go show dem say firewood and stick no be d same tin

I dey borne dem like madh

9jaforlife:


Don't mind their bragging! Most of the guys fumbling here don't have nerves in real life . That's why they're so endless about their bravery on NL.

One important thing they've forgotten is that they are responsible for the nasty attitudes of most of these ladies. When a woman goes all out and gives them everything they want, they call her desperate, turn her to a door mat and start behaving like a prize to win; whereas they run after the so called nasty girls like a puppy running after a piece of bone!

dasparrow:


Listen, if you are naturally pleasant - which you should be to ALL people irrespective of gender - then you really have nothing to worry about. If you pretend to be nice to a lady because she is someone that you would like to date, then there is a possibility that she might see right through your fake antagonizing self and dismiss you, lol. When she does, you then come on Nairaland and open a thread such as this one and begin to make stereotypical statements and generalizations like the BOY that you are - because REAL MEN don't act that way - and your fellow boys will come and applaud your childishness. If you don't like women, go and become a homosexual/gay and date your fellow men. Lastly, don't expect to have peace, joy and happiness in any relationship of yours involving a woman because you already think negatively about women and as a man thinketh, so are his ways says the bible. No woman who knows are true worth will stick around with a man who has a nasty character. It is a complete turn off.

By the way, your MOTHER is a woman too. You can start by being very nasty to her. It should be your mum's early Christmas present from her female-hating son whom she made a mistake to carry 9 months in her womb.

mecussey:
Just be urself but don't trim yourself to please a woman. Have it in mind that money is the power of a man. It is better to have money and be searching for love than to have love and be searching for money.

blakky97:


Nairaland is gradually turning into a male chauvinist play ground. All topics that show women as negative creatures make front page, and get too much attention. Why should there be a topic like: disadvantage of being nice to women. We re in a modern world now, some women are far above men socially, mentally, financially and what have you. It takes a proud man to think he's superior to somebody on account that she's female. A woman in an oil company for instance is far above those men with dried bier bier and big dirty long sleeve shirts in faded trousers and filed shoes still telling themselves " I won't marry her if... I won't be nice to women because,.." Its time to open our minds and see life as real as it is rather than as we wish or imagine it to be.

andromida:
The problem with "nice" in this context is that most times its fake. If you are actually nice its you living your life so you cannot be bothered as against being "nice' to get a a woman and when she does not respond to your fake niceness you start screaming of the evil of being friendzoned. So yes be real some one will take you as you are.

The Authentic nice guys don't finish last because it is who they are.

beengils:
For heavens' sake did u type all these to appease the female folk or what? I probably think you one of those few guys who give ladies the worst impression about us... OP is absolute sh*it being nice