Its not about looks, cos if it really is about looks then the ugly Bance-looking ones (permit me) have no right to, but it falls flat..both the so-called beautiful ones and the ugly as well both believe there's something special about them and they can hold off a dude at arms length knowing fully well deep down there are feelings running crazy( No time girl! Amma drop your ass) It amuses me tho, what really is the motive for "Hard to get"? Pride?

If they dont w'll call em cheap gurls

It makes us not to appear cheap....
There could be a guy I've been dying for and I wish he could just talk to me....
He could approach me and ask me out and I'll say 'No'....
Saying yes immediately will make the guy think :
"Wow! That was easy"
Most guys wouldn't be impressed if they get straight positive answers...
Which guy wouldn't like to narrate the story of how he suffered to get his wife to his children?

Cheap? There's no such thing as cheap, I mean man..what's d point when u know u have feelings deep down

MarthaK:
It makes us not to appear cheap....
There could be a guy I've been dying for and I wish he could just talk to me....
He could approach me and ask me out and I'll say 'No'....
Saying yes immediately will make the guy think :
"Wow! That was easy"
Most guys wouldn't be impressed if they get straight positive answers...
Which guy wouldn't like to narrate the story of how he suffered to get his wife to his children?

a no u could forever regret if he walks away?

Its all to protect dignity, let's face it we have guys discuss how a cheap a girl is whenever a girl fall for them easily, this we all know this is true. But as guy I love to chase most of the time, it gives me a sense of confidence and fulfillment after she finally agrees to my advances. The only p be say some girls shakara too much

dammyjay93:
a no u could forever regret if he walks away?

If a guy gives up the moment a girl turns him down, then he was never serious with her from the start.... If he really likes her, he'll keep on trying even when she pushes him away....
He should give up if she already has a boyfriend or when she starts seeing someone else...
It's crazy but that's how it works....
Some guys still wouldn't give up even when she has a boyfriend...
They'll be like :
"Date the both of us "
I label those ones 'goats'

how i wan take know i day Derek mind

Lol. I'm hard and never to get if i'm dating.

MarthaK:

If a guy gives up the moment a girl turns him down, then he was never serious with her from the start.... If he really likes her, he'll keep on trying even when she pushes him away....
He should give up if she already has a boyfriend or when she starts seeing someone else...
It's crazy but that's how it works....
Some guys still wouldn't give up even when she has a boyfriend...
They'll be like :
"Date the both of us "
I label those ones 'goats'

we all got different ideals, I'm never for begging n bruising my self esteem all in d name of chyking

dammyjay93:
we all got different ideals, I'm never for begging n bruising my self esteem all in d name of chyking

u neva jam

For stupid naija guys.
The hard to get is necessary