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Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by Nobody: 10:00am On Nov 27, 2014 |
Juliann. !!!come to me all ye that are heavily broken and I will give you the best romance of life. behold!! I come in peace. |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by clevvermind(m): 10:01am On Nov 27, 2014 |
MarthaK:and what are children doing here? Is that place nt already opened? |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by idu1(m): 10:06am On Nov 27, 2014 |
MarthaK:longest time..... How are u doing? |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by Nobody: 10:07am On Nov 27, 2014 |
clevvermind: ![]() You don't know the use of ellipses |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by Nobody: 10:11am On Nov 27, 2014 |
idu1:fine o |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by jashar(f): 10:42am On Nov 27, 2014 |
Ok. Lemme share mine.I'll start by saying I'm a Christian. I've been with this guy for 7 months now and we've not even kissed or touched not to talk of having s.ex. Why? Cuz we fear God and we want to do things God's way. Is it easy? No, but thank God for the fruit of Self Control. By God's grace, we should get married next year. ![]() I hope this is celibate enough. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by clevvermind(m): 10:48am On Nov 27, 2014 |
MarthaK:why dnt u tell me? |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by Nobody: 11:07am On Nov 27, 2014 |
Celibacy? ![]() |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by ronald4lif(m): 11:14am On Nov 27, 2014 |
I have been deliberately celibating for the past five months and I must admits its not been easy, with temptation here and there but unlike many who does so for faith or past bitter experience reasons, mine its far from that. I won't encourage it especially for guys for its not easy with loads of these pretty girls out there, in particular the seductive dressed ones |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by clevvermind(m): 11:23am On Nov 27, 2014 |
3cycle:nt to love or nt to have s'ex again? |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by Nobody: 11:25am On Nov 27, 2014 |
celibacy relationship ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by jmoore(m): 11:32am On Nov 27, 2014 |
I will clock 30 next year. I have never been in any relationship all my life. I got my 'v card' too. Got plans to start searching early next year so I can marry by Dec 2015. 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by 1one: 11:42am On Nov 27, 2014 |
My knowledge of celibacy is a bit toned towards abstinence from sex but since the OP has broadened it, then for me- Relationship Celibacy - 5years Sexual celibacy - 28years. The sexual celibacy for me is like a sugar plated blade... On one end I feel really healthy and sane and "fly" knowing that nobody has seen that side of my existence or personality, on the flip side atimes, the sexual drive "peaks" so much that I virtually become red-faced ![]() I think what helps me to especially maintain my sexual celibacy is the thought of getting down with any random girl, I'm a very finicky person and so even if I wanted to have one night stands or cheap brothel sex, I still wouldn't be able to because I'd want the experience to be sincere and worth the time, not just with anybody but someone I have true feelings for. Aside from all that English above though... I'm a Christian and pre-marital sex is not even the faintest, slightest option for me... Not even if a gun were pointed to my fore head. As for relationship celibacy.... I've still not found the lady I have that "click" with... Searching continues... Vision 2020 ![]() 10 Likes |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by Nobody: 11:50am On Nov 27, 2014 |
clevvermind:Not to love. |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by clevvermind(m): 12:12pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
3cycle:but u can have sex as before. |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by Nobody: 12:18pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
clevvermind:Still a virgin |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by clevvermind(m): 12:20pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
3cycle:abeg stop that. That place is already opened for penetration. ![]() |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by Nobody: 12:26pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
SMH.. |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by clevvermind(m): 12:44pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
3cycle:abeg stop that. is that place not already opened for deep penetration? ![]() |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by Evina(f): 12:45pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
1one: Wow, it's sooo refreshing to meet a guy with some real moral standard ![]() But then, you being sexually inactive doesn't rule out the fact that you mast.urbate. I had a very close friend, who was still a virgin in his late 30s, and loved God. But, he watched po.rn a lot and mastur.bated a lot too. In many cases, virgin men turn to masturb.ation, to maintain their celibate status, only to suffer some major psychological issues. 3 Likes |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by Nobody: 12:59pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
Evina:@Bolded Nt all V guys tho just had to chip dt in |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by Evina(f): 1:02pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
AgapeCharis: Smart Alec, where in my post did you catch me insinuate that all V guys masturbate? |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by Baddo101(m): 1:31pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
Na only God fit punish all dis ppl wey don groove life tire. Na now wen d time don dey reach una hide under d pretence of celibacy in order to get Maga. chei. Diaris Goduooooo ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by Baddo101(m): 1:36pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
ireneony:Clap for your self... Den u claim holyholy sis. in church den tell d guy u only did it once because u were raped. den d MuMuni go willingly agree because its God's will.. Man don Suffer ooo. |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by tifany89(m): 1:56pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
Juliaann:sowie o but shit happens! Most times most of u dnt recognise dose dat mean well! Am jst saying coz it's usually said dat u r what u r attract!no oofense |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by 1one: 3:41pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
Evina: Lol.. Thanks for the props though. If I say I've not masturba:ted, it's as good as saying it snows in lagos...and if I say I still masturba:te it would mean Obama is a Nigerian. In my early/mid 20s I used to masturba:te and alternatively watch por:n, but even at that it was not a habit, maybe like twice in six months... But it got to a point I got fed up because the guilt that washes all over my body is always always more intense than the "horniness" I had before that prompted me to do it... So I was like what the heck... No point... So in summary I don't do por:n nor masturba:te anymore. However I don't quite agree that late male virgins experience psychological problems or maybe I just think it's too far a fact to relate with since personally I'm not dealing with any psychological issues... But I may reason it out with the view that a man who has become overly used to masturba:ting may find it difficult to relate to real women in the real world since he is used to ventilating his sexual tension primarily through self stimulation instead of externally fed social stimulation /interaction 3 Likes |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by 1one: 3:50pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
jmoore: Big ups man!!! I hope you find that really super special person. I'm sure it's a no - brainer if I asked if you wanted to marry a virgin. ![]() ![]() I'm even somewhat like you, except for the age difference. I'd be 29 next year, and it's after I clock 29 that I want to really take the "find a wife" thing seriously ![]() Abeg if the girl you finally find also has a virgin sister.... Don't dull ooo... Hook a brother up ![]() |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by Evina(f): 3:51pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
1one: The last sentence in your post was the point I attempted to communicate across. There is no sense in stating that male virgins in their late 30s have psychological issues. In fact, I believe that a single man who is able to discipline himself sexually is actually building his tenacity to resist temptations and is most likely to be faithful when married. ![]() |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by Juliaann(f): 4:11pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
shadowgwalker:Are you really expecting me to answer all that? |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by Nobody: 4:13pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
1one: Wow! ![]() ![]() A good dude. |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by Juliaann(f): 4:14pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
tifany89:actually it wasn't what u were thinking? guys can be deceitful at times |
Re: Share Your Celibacy Relationship Experience Here. by 1one: 4:30pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
Evina: What I'm about to say may reek of impulsive optimism or maybe even make me come across as proud.. But honestly there's nothing that would make me cheat on my spouse...least of them all sex.. you know how some men fall for all those chewing girls that have bouncy butts and boobies, and consequently use these assets to lure married men away... By the grace of God I'm not one of such men.. Ofcourse I'm attracted to those things especially boobies but it won't b enough reason to cheat on my wife either physically or even emotionally I see marriage first of all as a "service" to God... So my decision not to cheat on my wife is not even necessarily because she's a good wife or because I love her, but primarily because I revere God. If a man is faithful to his wife because she ticks all the good boxes what then happens when she slips and/or does something silly. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
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