We often hear guys say that Nigerian girls are always playing hard to get and start by insulting us/them.

Ok...you know that it's not a girl nature to woo a guy. And a guy who's in a committed relationship wouldn't get an attention from any girl.

It's a different ball game for girls. Guys will keep pestering us even when they know we are in a relationship.

Are they expecting us to succumb whenever they knock at the door, and we would still be called whöre, cheat, bítch etc, by them?

I think guys are confused. What do you think ?

VickyyB:
We often hear guys say that Nigerian girls are always playing hard to get and start by insulting us/them.

Ok...you know that it's not a girl nature to woo a guy. And a guy who's in a committed relationship wouldn't get an attention from any girl.

It's a different ball game for girls. Guys will keep pestering us even when they know we are in a relationship.

Are they expecting us to succumb whenever they knock at the door, and we would still be called whöre, cheat, bítch etc, by them?

I think guys are confused. What do you think

I think of the morale of this thread

chimerase2:
I think of the morale of this thread

I presume it's comprehensible enough.

VickyyB:

I presume it's comprehensible enough.

wat is comprehensible der is boriness

I think that you're wrong

samflexxy:
I think that you're wrong

How?

VickyyB:

How?

First, guys in a committed relationship get alooot of attention from girls, more than single guys. #fact#

To your post, girls seemingly play hard to get. In reality, the girl isn't really into you or has some reservations.

Evina:



First, guys in a committed relationship get alooot of attention from girls, more than single guys. #fact#

To your post, girls seemingly play hard to get. In reality, the girl isn't really into you or has some reservations.

Lol. Attention as in? Girls goes around wooing him. Hehee.

Can you succumb for any guy if you're in a relationship?

You have a point, a girl in a relationship shouldn't be seen as one who plays hard to get, I wouldn't keep pressurising a girl who is already in a 'happy' relationship and I wouldn't be happy if a guy keeps stalking her either. But the problem with the shakara which guys complains about is that even the single ones who aren't seeing anyone or the ones in a 'management' relationship - why the play hard to get?

ronald4lif:
You have a point, a girl in a relationship shouldn't be seen as one who plays hard to get, I wouldn't keep pressurising a girl who is already in a 'happy' relationship and I wouldn't be happy if a guy keeps stalking her either. But the problem with the shakara which guys complains about is that even the single ones who aren't seeing anyone or the ones in a 'management' relationship - why the play hard to get?

Lol. Some of us are single and loving it, you know?

A girl can go for a year without seeing a guy after a break-up, unlike guys.

It's men nature to woo and while they're wooing a girl, other guys might be interested. She will only be interested in one but other guys are going to think she's playing hard to get. You dig?

Smh

VickyyB:

Lol. Attention as in? Girls goes around wooing him. Hehee.

You can succumb for any guy if you're in a relationship?

You don't seem to understand my post.

Attention as in: when a guy is in a relationship, especially with a "hot" good girl, it makes him attractive to other girls. Other girls begin to feel there must be something "special" about the guy.

Also, girls generally like to compete with each other and will go as far as attempting to catch the attention of a man they know is taken, even if the person that "took" him, is their home gurl.

To your last question, which I perceive was asked as a result of not comprehending my post, I wouldn't even fall for just any guy if I were single, how much more when I am involved.

Which kain thread be this?

Evina:


You don't seem to understand my post.

Attention as in: when a guy is in a relationship, especially with a "hot" good girl, it makes him attractive to other girls. Other girls begin to feel there must be something "special" about the guy.

Also, girls generally like to compete with each other and will go as far as attempting to catch the attention of a man they know is taken, even if the person that "took" him, is their home gurl.

To your last question, which I perceive was asked as a result of not comprehending my post, I wouldn't even fall for just any guy if I were single, how much more when I am involved.

one bottle for you

VickyyB:

Lol. Some of us are single and loving it, you know?

A girl can go for a year without seeing a guy after a break-up, unlike guys.

It's men nature to woo and while they're wooing a girl, other guys might be interested. She will only be interested in one but other guys are going to think she's playing hard to get. You dig?

Sure its up to her to remain single and/or decide who among her admirers she want. Over the years, its become a norm for girls not to agree to advances of guys without first pushing them to the extreme and fact is guys (or rather myself) don't have a problem with that, we have come to accept it but what we won't accept is taking it steps further beyond the extreme, there's a limit to everything hence why we complain. At the end of the day its up to every girl to decide who to date, however, it's also up to us to decide when to stop the chase. Fair play if you ask me

Lordabas:


one bottle for you

thank you sa, but I prefer yoghurt

Evina:


You don't seem to understand my post.

Attention as in: when a guy is in a relationship, especially with a "hot" good girl, it makes him attractive to other girls. Other girls begin to feel there must be something "special" about the guy.

Also, girls generally like to compete with each other and will go as far as attempting to catch the attention of a man they know is taken, even if the person that "took" him, is their home gurl.

U just said it d way it is

kenex4ever:
U just said it d way it is

Evina:


thank you sa, but I prefer yoghurt

Manage it. No yoghurt over here in Cotonou

Lordabas:


Manage it. No yoghurt over here in Cotonou

Okay, give me flavored water then.

I understand you,but 90% of Nigeria girls are in a relationship while 85%,who are the one d girls are dating,

I trust my Black American girls,u no need to talk if she is gonna date you

Evina:


Okay, give me flavored water then.

Here you go, drink to ur satisfaction. It has the best flavor

Ipledge:
I understand you,but 90% of Nigeria girls are in a relationship while 85%,who are the one d girls are dating,

I trust my Black American girls,u no need to talk if she is gonna date you

lol. How?

Maybe it depends on d manner of approach jst like maybe u've neva talked 2 a gurl u admire bt u guyz have bin seein each oda coincidentally den instead of u to man up and talk 2 her ofcourse possibly ask for her no so u could talk 2 her well, den u went thru d back door and collected d gurlz no frm a close frend of hers hu is a boy and u added her on whatsapp and started wooing her. tell me why won't it not attract insults frm d gurl cuz she will b suprisd like, she's never talked 2 u b4 nd not to talk of sayin hi cuz, she will b like wat do u take her for...sumtymz sum gurlz are ryt

All the ladies are engaged, all he guys are single. Who is fooling who

salientP:
All the ladies are engaged, all he guys are single. Who is fooling who

Guys would always be chasing a girl even when he's dating.

Btw, single girls are not hard to get.

VickyyB:

Guys would always be chasing a girl even when he's dating.

Btw, single girls are not hard to get.

Btw, can I get you?

VickyyB:

Guys would always be chasing a girl even when he's dating.

Btw, single girls are not hard to get.

stopeeet...actually 96% of girls form hard to get.

There is this girl have been E-toasting 4 abt a year nd she is vewi single(na jW oo)...

salientP:


Btw, can I get you?

how?

Elegbede205:

stopeeet...actually 96% of girls form hard to get.

There is this girl have been E-toasting 4 abt a year nd she is vewi single(na jW oo)...

She's not into you.
Do you love every girl? The answer is No.
It's not her fault.