Jessyj616:

i have no problem with you asking , but why?

Anwasia:
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Because a mature lady will not post this kind of rubbish

And come to think of it are you indirectly telling people how to toast you?

Jessyj616:

ouch! what the hell?!
Just post what part of this post is rubbish--if you dont appreciate it someone else does
indirectly saying how to toast me?
Where is dat coming from? People are diff. Hence no foolproof 'formula'
this works on many but obviously not all

hotwax:
All these toasting steps are for novies and secondary school guys.

Me: Excuse me lady
Me: How r u doing? Today is really a lucky for me.
Girl: why?
Me: Meeting a gorgeous lady at this hour of the day. Its a sign of gud things to come.
Girl:.....
Me: Where r u heading to?
Girl: ......
Me: Can we go have a drink together
Girl: No
Me: What about some other time?
Girl.....
Me: Let me have your pin or phone number
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Me: Lets fck


Go straight to the point.

Niaja babes no dey get time these days. So just go straight to the point.

Na only LOCAL girl will expect you to toast as if you are reciting poem.

I go straight to the point, and it WORKS for me

olami100:
I lafta some guys, and some guys will learn dis toasting strategy to woo a gal! Honestly if ur wordings to a gal doesn't come naturally, forget it, she won't get connected even d guy will find it difficult to get connected... If u are moved towards a gal, be sincere wif ur feelings and IF YOU AINT MOVED, then let it go joor! U don't have ave to be a toasting guru before u woo a gal! JUST BE URSELF and be CONFIDENT in ur approach!

Jessyj616:


yeah i agree with the be yourself and confident. But most tend to become speechless in the presence of the girl or while talking, run out of things to say it doesnt hurt to have a backup plan.

The conversation may not flow according to book but at least you ve started
any twist that occurs you'd flow naturally

jswaggzo:
nice one jessy and i like your tolerance the way u reply some extreme comments.thumb's up

ERCROSS:




Alakori...

jeflexy:
Jessyj616, thank o jare, this ur format really helped me, there's this girl that when ever am with her, I easily run out of what to say and I end up makin her bored, not until I stumbled on this ur thread, and I met with her again just 2days ago, before I went to meet her, I kept sayin to myself, 'u musnt make her bored', and when I met with her, I followed ur guidelines, and "voooom!!" The conversation between me and her flowed, it was like a magic, she was giggling and smillin all tru, she even went ahead to ask me how she looked, I ansad the affirmative and added some more compliment,,, thanks a lot op,,, more updates plsss and more brain to ur head!

Jessyj616:


congrats on bucking up the courage to approach her.... and succeeding!
I am sure the event didnt happen word for word as i posted on the topic..
YOU flowed despite the twist and turns that surely occured

hence kudos to you not me (tanks anyway)

mikolo80:
you're still in your early 20s ba. don't worry by 29 -37 na you go de share your no. to guys wen no wan aassociate with old cargo

Jessyj616:


whats your point?

mikolo80:
stop misleading girls by saying THEY SHOULD SNUB guys advances cos they don't fit your mills and boon STEP BY STEP playbook. WHAT IF the bus does.mt break down whats the guy to say.if a guy comes to ask for your number and you're INTERESTED,STOP FORMING and GIVE HIM cos you sound retarded when you ask where the good men are in your thirties when you blew them off cos them no sabi toast like in the movies(there's a reason for that,its called a script and only use dump guys have it memorised

Jessyj616:


they should snub guys advances? What in my post suggests that?
What in my post suggests that?




I didnt advice the girls to form btw . Just advised guys to try make her feel comfortable with you .


If she aint comfortable with you, she wont know if shez interested . Not to talk of giving you number,
mtchew, number ko





Step by step.....hmmm tank goodness you realised that.
Just wanted to give an example of a real live scenario btw
you are not expected to learn these Steps by rote.
Twists are sure to happen such as the bus not breaking down.
That iz a simple issue so i didnt deal with dat.

Jessyj616:


they should snub guys advances? What in my post suggests that?
What in my post suggests that?




I didnt advice the girls to form btw . Just advised guys to try make her feel comfortable with you .


If she aint comfortable with you, she wont know if shez interested . Not to talk of giving you number,
mtchew, number ko





Step by step.....hmmm tank goodness you realised that.
Just wanted to give an example of a real live scenario btw
you are not expected to learn these Steps by rote.
Twists are sure to happen such as the bus not breaking down.
That iz a simple issue so i didnt deal with dat.

mikolo80:
bet you would'nt form all this one hif the guy "heyssed" you from inside a benz or a range

Jessyj616:


money might make meeting a girl seem easier it might even boost your confidence it approaching the girl.

But money/ Benz / Range with no personality is a nono.
It attracts ' chop my money girls'

if you use money to attract girls what happens when their is no more money? She dumps you them you lament you have your all.

Common, change your thinking that money is all it is making genuine girls feel cheap and attracting hoes = making you bitter that all girls are the same


seems you havent met girls who take no shiv frm nobody
#respects#

Jessyj616:


money might make meeting a girl seem easier it might even boost your confidence it approaching the girl.

But money/ Benz / Range with no personality is a nono.
It attracts ' chop my money girls'

if you use money to attract girls what happens when their is no more money? She dumps you them you lament you have your all.

Common, change your thinking that money is all it is making genuine girls feel cheap and attracting hoes = making you bitter that all girls are the same


seems you havent met girls who take no shiv frm nobody
#respects#

mikolo80:
all girls take shiiit from "somebody"
money attracts girls
guys who don't have it have to rely on the good ol''i think your face sounds familiar' ish just to brek the ice
girls pride themslves on being unbreakable
then stupidly complain that nobody is approaching them for arriage as if it falls from heaven
it doesn't cost you anything to acknowledge a guy making an effort instead of feeling like a diva
anyway you do you an' we will do we,us ,whatever

mikolo80:
all girls take shiiit from "somebody"
money attracts girls
guys who don't have it have to rely on the good ol''i think your face sounds familiar' ish just to brek the ice
girls pride themslves on being unbreakable
then stupidly complain that nobody is approaching them for marriage as if it falls from heaven
it doesn't cost you anything to acknowledge a guy making an effort instead of feeling like a diva
anyway you do you an' we will do we,us ,whatever