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Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by olexjay(m): 4:16pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
I was washing some of my clothes one day when a female neighbor was standing near me and we are both talking me. She then ask to tease me, why am doing the washing alone, so I reply her I must do it alone since I'm single and that's the disadvantage for not having a girlfriend. Immediately she heard this she said back to me "so I'm expecting my girlfriend to do the washing if she's even here!" And she took it personal and told me its wrong for a girl to help her boyfriend over his home chore like sweeping his room or helping him to do the washing, I ask what is wrong in doing that helping her boyfriend in doing some house chore and her respond was: - how will she do that for a guy who has not pay for her bride price or given her an engagement ring, and she conclude that doing that is just a waste of time on what is not worth doing. I later said to her "what if the guy was trying to text if she's really wife material?" Her Answer:- doing that doesn't show a sign that I'm a good girl or that will win his heart thinking I'm a wife material but he will only take advantage of me and may even turn me to a working machine. Now My question to the guys is: How will you feel when you're both indoor with your girlfriend and the room is somehow filtered with dirt, then you pick a broom to sweep on seeing your girlfriend raising her legs up for you to sweep the space? To my ladies: Do you think helping your boyfriend in doing his home chore is really a slavery work? |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by chibwike(m): 4:18pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
Is she married to him |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by olexjay(m): 4:25pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
chibwike:not married yet but we are talking about the process of girlfriend/boyfriend stuffs |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by BreezyRita(f): 4:25pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
Again ![]() ![]() |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by Tallesty1(m): 4:28pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
BreezyRita:I tire for them |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by phabulous88(m): 4:29pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
lol 2 Likes |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by pasqal09: 4:33pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
phabulous88:Just as the poster above said. You don't really have to be married to a person to do these kind of things for them, as long as you love and cared from them, the instinct to do this will come naturally. |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by chibwike(m): 4:36pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
olexjay:when you get married....i'd give you my answer. |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by Godfullsam(m): 4:51pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
If a lady is a help mate (wife material ), she will not see anything wrong in doing some domestic works for her male friend. A naturally good lady will not be comfortable seeing her guy doing domestic works. |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by olexjay(m): 5:02pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
chibwike:lol...... Okay o |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by Medunah: 5:02pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
@olexjay, can u wash ur girlfrnd's clothes? I.e when u have one |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by olexjay(m): 5:09pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
Medunah:that question thou..... Ladies will always reply question with a question ![]() |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by Nobody: 5:12pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
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Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by Missmossy(f): 5:14pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
This topic is an over flogged one already ![]() |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by Medunah: 5:16pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
olexjay:answer the question nah, ur own answer will trigger mine |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by olexjay(m): 5:26pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
Medunah:if I pay her a visit and met her fetching water then its not bad helping her in carrying a bucket of water..... Do dat answer ur question? |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by Medunah: 5:36pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
olexjay: in other words, u cant wash her clothes abi but u expect her to wash ur own clothes cos she cares for you and loves you, dont u care for her too or love her?? 1 Like |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by Nobody: 8:24pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
And if a girl should do all the house chores in the name of love, what will d guy do?........ Justasking 1 Like |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by Nobody: 8:30pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
Godfullsam:my brother u goth that right, any girl that can't do that for me, should not expect me do anything significant for her, because it's obvious she doesn't respect or love me that much, Op ill tell u something, I have a female friend, a girl friend, she came to my place, and stayed with me for about a week, through ur the ti, she never saw my house dirty, she always saw the need to wash my dirty cloths even without me asking, my dear, all those acts made me start having attractions for her i never did, she needed help from me, and asked ; I never hesitated to do it (an amount of cash I have never given to any lady in my life )..... A girl that sees that as a big deal, please guys I can only tell u one thing..........Run for your life, she is not wort ur saliva BTW, I see nothing wrong in washing my lady's cloth while washing mine. |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by Medunah: 9:27pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
killerman47oh really? So as a lady, i have to show my respect and love to my bf by washing his clothes and doing his house chores? |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by Adaeze003(f): 12:09am On Nov 29, 2014 |
Smh... not again! Everyone has principles n values... live by yours n let others be... m saying this coz of the numerous "any lady that doesn't" comments. If love is in doing another human's chores then.... ya gbakwoku ![]() ![]() |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by MisterLongman(m): 1:02am On Nov 29, 2014 |
But most ladies don't see anything bad in demanding money for upkeep from their boyfriends when they are not yet married. But they consider trivial issues like house chores a big deal because they want to prove a needless point 1 Like |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by olexjay(m): 6:46am On Nov 29, 2014 |
Medunah:not that I can't help my gf but before I can think of helping my gf over that she must be someone who is dedicated and who always take her time in doing dat for me, I think its a normal thing for girl to help her boyfriend therefore since she is used to this there's nothing bad if a guy also help his gf out. |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by kozaic(f): 7:06am On Nov 29, 2014 |
I can wash my boyfrnd on the one and only basis dat he can wash mine... |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by Nobody: 8:18am On Nov 29, 2014 |
In Nigeria, some questions or reservations die naturally when the guy is really well to do, even when the lady is not doing badly herself. |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by Nobody: 4:15pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Medunah:exactly ma'am , if u re truly homely enough, even without him asking or reminding you, u ll just see ur self doing it, only arrogant saucy, runs girls refuse that, thinking they re knowledgeable, or high handed. Of course, like I wrote, do not expect any meaningful thing 4 him Buh Wat re we even writing Here? If I can do it , for her i see absolutely no reason why she can't. Kabish |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by Evina(f): 4:24pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Nl dudes be like' "if the gal is a good gal she must wash, clean, feed me and never expect me to spend a dime on her, cos that would make her a hoe with good attitude" ![]() |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by Medunah: 5:37pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
killerman47:if you can do it for me, i can do it for you but when you start seeing it as my responsibility and telling me the only way i can show my love and respect is by doing house chores and washing clothes?? thats when the whole thing becomes wrong. if i as a gf has to wash clothes and do house chores before he will know i respect and love him, pls what exactly will my so called bf do?? |
Re: Are Girls Who Help Their Boyfriend On His Home Chore Really Consider As A Slave? by Nobody: 12:20pm On Dec 02, 2014 |
Medunah:what a Question? Is it not same u ladies that compel him to meet to your humongous financial needs and buying different accessories is for You? U still come here to ask such a lame Question? smh |
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