I was washing some of my clothes one day when a female neighbor was standing near me and we are both talking me.
She then ask to tease me, why am doing the washing alone, so I reply her I must do it alone since I'm single and that's the disadvantage for not having a girlfriend.

Immediately she heard this she said back to me "so I'm expecting my girlfriend to do the washing if she's even here!" And she took it personal and told me its wrong for a girl to help her boyfriend over his home chore like sweeping his room or helping him to do the washing, I ask what is wrong in doing that helping her boyfriend in doing some house chore and her respond was:

- how will she do that for a guy who has not pay for her bride price or given her an engagement ring, and she conclude that doing that is just a waste of time on what is not worth doing.

I later said to her "what if the guy was trying to text if she's really wife material?"

Her Answer:- doing that doesn't show a sign that I'm a good girl or that will win his heart thinking I'm a wife material but he will only take advantage of me and may even turn me to a working machine.

Now My question to the guys is: How will you feel when you're both indoor with your girlfriend and the room is somehow filtered with dirt, then you pick a broom to sweep on seeing your girlfriend raising her legs up for you to sweep the space?

To my ladies: Do you think helping your boyfriend in doing his home chore is really a slavery work?

Is she married to him

chibwike:
Is she married to him

not married yet but we are talking about the process of girlfriend/boyfriend stuffs

BreezyRita:
Again

I tire for them

lol

phabulous88:
I've had female friends cook for me, wash my clothes and clean my house; if my female friends can do that for me, I see no reason why my girlfriend won’t These are stuffs you do for the person you care for.

Just as the poster above said. You don't really have to be married to a person to do these kind of things for them, as long as you love and cared from them, the instinct to do this will come naturally.

olexjay:
not married yet but we are talking about the process of girlfriend/boyfriend stuffs

when you get married....i'd give you my answer.

If a lady is a help mate (wife material ), she will not see anything wrong in doing some domestic works for her male friend.
A naturally good lady will not be comfortable seeing her guy doing domestic works.

chibwike:
when you get married....i'd give you my answer.

lol...... Okay o

@olexjay, can u wash ur girlfrnd's clothes? I.e when u have one

Medunah:
@olexjay, can u wash ur girlfrnd's clothes? I.e when u have one

that question thou..... Ladies will always reply question with a question

loading...........

This topic is an over flogged one already

olexjay:
that question thou..... Ladies will always reply question with a question

answer the question nah, ur own answer will trigger mine

Medunah:

answer the question nah, ur own answer will trigger mine

if I pay her a visit and met her fetching water then its not bad helping her in carrying a bucket of water..... Do dat answer ur question?

olexjay:
if I pay her a visit and met her fetching water then its not bad helping her in carrying a bucket of water..... Do dat answer ur question?

in other words, u cant wash her clothes abi but u expect her to wash ur own clothes cos she cares for you and loves you, dont u care for her too or love her??

And if a girl should do all the house chores in the name of love, what will d guy do?........ Justasking

Godfullsam:
If a lady is a help mate (wife material ), she will not see anything wrong in doing some domestic works for her male friend.
A naturally good lady will not be comfortable seeing her guy doing domestic works.

my brother u goth that right, any girl that can't do that for me, should not expect me do anything significant for her, because it's obvious she doesn't respect or love me that much,

Op ill tell u something, I have a female friend, a girl friend, she came to my place, and stayed with me for about a week, through ur the ti, she never saw my house dirty, she always saw the need to wash my dirty cloths even without me asking, my dear, all those acts made me start having attractions for her i never did, she needed help from me, and asked ; I never hesitated to do it (an amount of cash I have never given to any lady in my life ).....
A girl that sees that as a big deal, please guys I can only tell u one thing..........Run for your life, she is not wort ur saliva


BTW, I see nothing wrong in washing my lady's cloth while washing mine.

killerman47

oh really? So as a lady, i have to show my respect and love to my bf by washing his clothes and doing his house chores?

Smh... not again!

Everyone has principles n values... live by yours n let others be... m saying this coz of the numerous "any lady that doesn't" comments.

If love is in doing another human's chores then.... ya gbakwoku

Medunah:

in other words, u cant wash her clothes abi but u expect her to wash ur own clothes cos she cares for you and loves you, dont u care for her too or love her??

not that I can't help my gf but before I can think of helping my gf over that she must be someone who is dedicated and who always take her time in doing dat for me, I think its a normal thing for girl to help her boyfriend therefore since she is used to this there's nothing bad if a guy also help his gf out.

I can wash my boyfrnd on the one and only basis dat he can wash mine...

In Nigeria, some questions or reservations die naturally when the guy is really well to do, even when the lady is not doing badly herself.

Medunah:

oh really? So as a lady, i have to show my respect and love to my bf by washing his clothes and doing his house chores?

exactly ma'am , if u re truly homely enough, even without him asking or reminding you, u ll just see ur self doing it, only arrogant saucy, runs girls refuse that, thinking they re knowledgeable, or high handed.
Of course, like I wrote, do not expect any meaningful thing 4 him


Buh Wat re we even writing Here? If I can do it , for her i see absolutely no reason why she can't. Kabish

Nl dudes be like' "if the gal is a good gal she must wash, clean, feed me and never expect me to spend a dime on her, cos that would make her a hoe with good attitude"

killerman47:
exactly ma'am , if u re truly homely enough, even without him asking or reminding you, u ll just see ur self doing it, only arrogant saucy, runs girls refuse that, thinking they re knowledgeable, or high handed.
Of course, like I wrote, do not expect any meaningful thing 4 him


Buh Wat re we even writing Here? If I can do it , for her i see absolutely no reason why she can't. Kabish

if you can do it for me, i can do it for you but when you start seeing it as my responsibility and telling me the only way i can show my love and respect is by doing house chores and washing clothes?? thats when the whole thing becomes wrong.

if i as a gf has to wash clothes and do house chores before he will know i respect and love him, pls what exactly will my so called bf do??

Medunah:

if you can do it for me, i can do it for you but when you start seeing it as my responsibility and telling me the only way i can show my love and respect is by doing house chores and washing clothes?? thats when the whole thing becomes wrong.

if i as a gf has to wash clothes and do house chores before he will know i respect and love him, pls what exactly will my so called bf do??

what a Question? Is it not same u ladies that compel him to meet to your humongous financial needs and buying different accessories is for You? U still come here to ask such a lame Question? smh