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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:18pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
WackyJ1: Teasing is fun. Its all about freestyle tho. When teasing, u don't av to over do things. Dts what u need to av in mind. On d limits. U only tease wen necessary. U will know when u r over-doing it. U will obviously know from her reply, body language etc. U can tease with just about anything. Try and check pages 2-5. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 10:32pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Eden007: Pure genius. I give it up to u bro. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 10:34pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ifex370(m): 10:40pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 10:44pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Willy4030: First of all..I must commend ur efforts in putting up dis nice post. Hmmm bad sharp guy. I cudnt av agreed with u more bro. U r 1OO percent correct. Fone nbrs by demselves r nothing. They only represent a means to an end; seeing her again. From experience, most girls will bring up d bf ish wenever dey r getting attracted or falling for ur tight game. No girl wana be considered cheap or easy, so dey always tend to use d boyfriend shield as an excuses. The way u reply will make or mar the whole convo. By not acting like u care abt what she said, Ie...saying ok, and switching convo to sth else, or getting more romantic with her, u indirectly tell her dat u know ur stuff. By giving up wen she says she has a bf, u r acting like d oda ten guys dat gave up before u. So most times, its more like a test. She myt av a bf, she myt not. Jst say " ok..am not the jealous type....so..what do u do for fun babe...apart from spending time in front of d mirror to look dis good"...blah blah. U simply walk round her defence. don't try to start talking about d fact dat she has a bf, how long she has been dating n blah blah. U r automatically shifting attention from ur sef, to her bf, thus making him d centre of attraction. U also get friendzoned easily after dat. 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 4:46pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
Any other question? Post ur dating sticking points. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Kovic08(m): 6:22pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
xxxtedyxxx:bro is it advisable to date two friends especially when the other is showing you green light |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 8:38pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
Kovic08: No..I don't advice u to do such. And even if u do, it might just backfire, and d girls will know about it. If u wana play a fast game..den let it not be on a longterm |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Kovic08(m): 8:51pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
xxxtedyxxx:ah don change my mind ..the reason why i wanna date her friend is because of Hmmmm , and the girl don gimme the Hmmmm today. Its pointless to suffer the girl .. Yawn Am damn weak |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Willy4030(m): 4:49pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
xxxtedyxxx: Hey thanks for the advice Ted, I gotta tell you bro, my game right now is sicker than a sickler, sicker than ebola... So i have another issue... What do you advice is the best move, when the game got messed up already... Yea man, before i met this post, i messed up real bad, and this is a girl that flirt so crazy with me, she even watches porn on my phone... she was just a flirty friend because we used to live in this same yard... Though i wanted to banggg her really bad and i know she wants it too, but bcuz we lived in the same yard i never made any move to bang her... So i recently relocated... she asked for my address and i gave it to her, and she said she will come and i waited for 2 weeks didn't see her... that's where i messed up the game, i texted her that i wanted to have s..e.x with her (to my utmost surprise she got really angry) i even made it worse by even offering to pay her for s.e..x and she just deleted me on whatsapp... so i finally agreed with you teddy, girls don't want to appear cheap nomatter how much is involved unless they are runs girls... So Mr.Teddy, i really wanna get her back as my fu..ckk buddy, am not interested in a relationship with her. what can i do, we are all already good flirty friends, trust me am not in the friendzone at all, cuz am too naughty to be in the friendzone with her... It's messed up already, but there's gotta be a way out of this men, i'm thinking acting like her boyfriend, taking her on a date or as if i wanna get serious with her... but since i already told her i wanna bang her, i don't think that plan will work since she knows my motive already... (We stopped talking, as she's been ignoring my calls and sms, so i just bounced her for some weeks now) I don't quit mind you, am ever persistent and i always get rewarded! I have got other fu..ck buddies, but she's gotta be on that list man... what's ur advice? 2 Likes |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nastydroid(m): 6:46pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
just tell her it was all a joke that you want to see her reaction,then take her on a date later...my 10dollars 2 Likes |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Hibiscuss(m): 10:24pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Hello in-house. Have been following this thread religiously and I must confess, you guys are doing great job. I met a lady online through a mutual friend and we ve been chatting consistently. Whenever she's online, she ll always be the first to say hi. Throughout this time, I fell for her intelligence. Recently, she was encountering a problem and she just told me casually(not expecting me to solve it though), but I picked it up, make contact with so many people and starts solving the Ish. The respect she now has for me has really doubled. She now wants to always talk to me.(mind you on a friendship level). My problem here now is that I like this lady, but I just don't know how to change our discussion and tell her I like her and wants her to be mine without hurting her or making her think I helped her out cos of my ulterior motives. I really like this gal. Plz advice on what to do. . . . PS: looking at her pix, I can see its either we are of the same height or she's little bit taller. And she once told me she likes wearing heels. Is there any hope for me? |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Willy4030(m): 11:18pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
@droid thanks man, dat idea is awesome but its really late cuz its been weeks already. Damn dat would have fixed this! |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Kovic08(m): 7:58am On Dec 01, 2014 |
Willy4030:not it's not too Late To to her house since she is not picking your calls Tell her you are just testing her and she passed.. That she is a good and disciplined girl Then just tease her small and walk away.. Den you can start calling |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Gbaxyll: 12:01am On Dec 02, 2014 |
Hi ted ......kudos to you |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Gbaxyll: 12:02am On Dec 02, 2014 |
Hi ted. .....kudos to you |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Gbaxyll: 11:26pm On Dec 02, 2014 |
Hi ted.......pls advice me on this I went to a bank and saw three cute ladies walk in. I was able to strike a convo with one of them. Chatted brielfy with d other two also. I wasnt with ma phone so i couldnt get her contact, tho i asked for her info ( her dept and level). What would u have done if it were you? ( how else would u get her no there?) i was actually planning to go look for her in her dept when i have the time |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tomsniel(m): 11:39pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
well done guys.. I have this problem o. I have two girls i would love to date. I asked out the first girl and she said we should wait for a while. The second girl, have gotten a good rapport with her but have not asked her out yet. The second girl and I chat alot and it obvious she likes me and we even flirt with one another. I need your advice on how to deal with the first girl and also how to take my relationship with the second girl to the next level so that she can be mine.thanks for the good works so far |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Kovic08(m): 11:41pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Gbaxyll:look for her, but when you see her, just do as if you bump into each other.. Then take it from there |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by hemjaylee(m): 12:49am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Nice 1 guys |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by vizboy(m): 10:17pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
her matter just tire me, i meet the babe for sch we dey the same deprt. i been one use gentle man style for her nai she carry me drop for brotherzone as she fine out say we be same local government but different village. she dey kiss me, dey even romance me join but no they let me reach promise land and they even call me her brother on top. i don warn the babe tire,everybody for my class think say we dey date so because of that other babe dey back down for me. i tell her on sunday say i don tire say i wan move on she dey tell me say no be like that. her matter just scatter my head what should i do |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by EejaNla01(m): 10:15pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
resurrects thread.... guys when you show off your cute girl friends is it a plus in this game? |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Tradesrunner(m): 11:32pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
Am Enjoying This Post |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Kovic08(m): 10:48am On Dec 13, 2014 |
EejaNla01:it is a minus except if you are displaying your pics posing with a girl ( not kissing a girl o, but may be hugging or pecking) then it is a plus |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by hemjaylee(m): 11:01am On Dec 13, 2014 |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Olayinkaji(m): 8:56pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
tedy i appreciate all ur comments...and it helped. How do one reduces his emotional investment in a relationship? or tip the scale where ur babe wud go heads ova u.... |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by bigt2(m): 4:32am On Dec 16, 2014 |
Olayinkaji:i need to know this too, cos i'm sick and tired of limerence. I'm emotional too, but once i'm good, that's it, forever, and guess what pal, i'm Yinka too. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Olayinkaji(m): 4:51am On Dec 16, 2014 |
bigt2:same bro, tired nd its killing me...Woow namesake 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xamiel: 8:24am On Dec 16, 2014 |
Hello! I haven't really been around here but I have a situation and I'd be glad if you guys could chaperon me. I am not well grounded in the dating game and have never really worried about it until now. There's a girl I like but before I had a chance to personally rap with her, I left town. But I got her connect from a friend and then I chatted her up on whatsapp and it wasn't exactly bad. I kept chatting with her for...like two months and then I came back to town. So we met one on one last week and it wasn't what I'd hope for. She was more outspoken and socially oriented than I am. Deep inside I felt a tad intimidated; it wasn't obvious though. But I think amateur me made a terrible fu*k up. I told her "I'm interested in her, more than a friend" and that seemed like the worst move ever busted. She said she doesn't even know me and that she's okay with just friends and I want more than that. I need advise and opinion on what to do, where to go from here and how to handle my situation. Thanks. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 7:36pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
xamiel:Ooops..sorry bro..u just got ur self friendzone. U jumped straight to stage 3 without doing much on stage one and 2. U don't ask a girl out, wen u avent generated attraction stuffs. And doing some more work on rapport.. After dat u can den close her. I don't even advice guys to ask babes out, being dier bfs and all dat shit. Just act like her bf. If she is attracted, she will comply and start acting like ur girl. Its dat easy. If she has a bf already, den she will bring it up @ a point..dat shows u av game. But if a girl just friendzones u..dat means u avent done enuf work on stage 1. I will suggest u lay back..and go back to attraction stuffs, dats teasing, humour, nicknaming her etc, den u can do bit of rapport, knowing her much beta, and letting her know a bit of u too. After dat.u can begin acting like her guy. Don't ask her out again. 2 Likes |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 7:43pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
Olayinkaji: Sorry for d late reply. Nysc go gree me post again. Understanding emotional investment is key. Itz what's makes or mar the attraction u have for a chick. If u wana turn d scale, den u just need to stop acting like oda guys. Also..focus on abundance..game like 5 chicks @ d same time. Don't just date only one girl. It kills ur game. Date like 5-6 girls @ d same time. It makes u better @ d game, and u don't get worked up, wen one bleeps up..or flakes on u. U just need to call d odas...and ur game is back on. Only abundance will tilt the emotional investment scale in ur favour. Also..not replying early wen u receive her message counts, dts if u r chatting, don't rush ur chats, calm down n relax, u av options, she is not the most important tin in ur life. So chill..and don't always reply quickly. On the contrary, if she is telling u sth emotional, or sth dat makes her feel heartbroken or sad, den ur promp reply will be needed. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 7:47pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
EejaNla01: Its a big plus, pics of u aving fun with oda girls..esp cute ones..is a big plus, and it always turn the attraction scale in ur favour. Girls love it wen they know oda cute girls like U. This one doesn't need much explanation |
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