Michelle55:

i don hear sir but u guys shud aleast put a smile on ur gfs faces kwanu by helpn dem small.dats for dos dat actually nids it becos person like me too dey proud to ask sef cos i hâte begn.

Michelle55:

tnx nd remain blessed

kozaic:
I wnt date him.

I dislike stingy men with passion..

As a lady I can help a guy with no strings attached.

#anyway I dnt do broke guyz.

kayciano:
D annoying part is dat,this is ORDINARY DATING ...not even a legally married ..
I can NEVER DATE a visionless and jobless lady.
D worst is that if u hear what these ladies request for...
A lady(24yrs) i once took out to silver bird. cinema..b4 i met my BELOVED FIANCEE...
Immediately, we alighted she went straight for sun glasses costing about #15,400...
I asked her whom she wanted to see with such glasses..(may be ghosts).
Before she could turn around, i had already scampered through d emergency exit...

Jenams:
I noticed d rate they've bn pingin me dis days, includin dose who hardly reply my pings wen I had no job. #owan december tins I guess. But I will giv dem d shock of their life! (Wen I dey look for money to settle my FG housin scheme n become a landlord @28 n start collectin rent frm people) One even had d guts to tell me her undies is due for a change plus money for xmas n new yr hair n wears! The annoyin tin is, d ones u even tink hav brains end up pullin up all manner of suprises @u because of their innate lost for material tins.

MizMyColi:


That happens everyday na

For what it's worth, I'm more a fan of mutual respect among people of all genders.

MizMyColi:


Free her joor

She never said that expressly, did she?

Besides, whoever sets out to date a broke guy or girl

Life just throws it at some of us and we do so in the hope that things'll get better

ChurchillStorm:


But you look like you are from a lineage of brokeness nah. you even look 'broken'
And OP, go and get a job.

kayciano:
I USED to have some confidence in my lady..,until she told me she wanted to have a TATOO...around her waist.
I told her not to go for the waist, in fact let her have it around her genitals...
OF what use is this..., i ask..?
What surprises me is dat she is very intelligent.
Am thinking,of how to recover my stolen car,and here she comes up with nonsense...
Though, i have 4given her ..
But under scrutiny for now..

freecocoa:
Please OP develop some shame and self esteem, I can lend you some as I'm seriously "shaming" on your behalf, kai!
If you can't even afford to make your own hair with your money, how can you care for someone else? I don't even know where to start with you, na wa o.

Michelle55:

i don hear sir but u guys shud aleast put a smile on ur gfs faces kwanu by helpn dem small.dats for dos dat actually nids it becos person like me too dey proud to ask sef cos i hâte begn. i bliv whoeva dat wanna assist u will do so on his own accord not cos u asked. a genuine man will help u in anyway hé can if u truly merit it.dats ma bliv sha

Stelvin101:


Of course, it's mandatory for a guy to support his lady especially when she is hard working. Not just supporting her financially, buh encouragement, positive advice of her not giving up or losing hope of not achieving her goals in life and most of all attention. Lemme share u a funny experience, ma bae doing accounting borrowed course n don't knw a thing I had to travel from Benue state all d way to Edo state to teach her coz it's what I read in skul, that's encouragement. Buh most 9ja babe, it's just money, money, you must give me money, I must make this money, no money no love, fck love, money on my mind. We know dem gals in such categories and we act like don't know

Herrmes:
Mandatory?

Stelvin101:


That's just how ladies use their own hands to spoil their relationship with someone they love. They don't know such things makes a guy feel like "Aaah this my gal is becoming wild and loosing it" and the moment a guy starts loosing trust in a gal, that's it. End of a beautiful relationship that can lead both of them to the aisle. Nor be person go draw the tatoo for the waist?? Can you imagine. No guy wants a loose gal or a gal who will always make him feel unsecured.

Stelvin101:


That's just how ladies use their own hands to spoil their relationship with someone they love. They don't know such things makes a guy feel like "Aaah this my gal is becoming wild and loosing it" and the moment a guy starts loosing trust in a gal, that's it. End of a beautiful relationship that can lead both of them to the aisle. Nor be person go draw the tatoo for the waist?? Can you imagine. No guy wants a loose gal or a gal who will always make him feel unsecured.

Stelvin101:


Yes o. Required by the laws of sexual relationship and not Agape love or friend zone relationship

Stelvin101:

Yes o. Required by the laws of sexual relationship and not Agape love or friend zone relationship

kayciano:

My brother dats d nonsense we see ooo..
She went further telling me it will be done,by a lady...
I told the devil speaking through her dat i can guarantee dat.,if she can MAKE D TATOO AROUND HER GENITALS...because,i wanted to know if she was really the talking about TATOO
..Dat,was wen she recovered from her abstract thinking...
I just lost a new car, barely a month old ride..
She should know dat my brains need ANTI-VIRUS now..

toby4ever:
dating a guy who wudnt wanna knw if u recharge ur fone,make ur hair,change ur wardrobe..even wen u tel him u wanna do dese tins he tells u he has a project...hrd tinz lik he wouldnt b lik dat wen he marries u,he doesnt wanna spend on a gal who wud leave him at d end of the day buh if u r his wife he wudnt b stingy to u..now i ask nairalanders,babes wud u date a guy lik dis? and generally would he change if he eventually marries her?..drop comments,no insults pls

Michelle55:
i dont tink men r stingy..they just dont wanna invest wrongly on women dat aint worth dia resources. men can b sooo loving nd generous to d ladies who truly deserve dem.

jmoore:
If you are judging from his spending habits towards you then you are making a wrong conclusion about him. A stingy guy should be stingy to others too. Does he spend on his siblings? Does he spend on his parents? A man can decide not to spend on you but still spend on his siblings and parents.You call him stingy while his siblings and parents are enjoying.
"What kind of man does that?". A man that is treading with caution is the one doing that, he doesn't want to be the latest mugu in town. This type of man will definitely change after wedding and start spending on you because he now knows you are his wife, you deserve it.

If you think a man that spends on you while dating will not change after wedding, then you are on a 'long thing'. Most men use cash and gifts as bait. After the wedding, their true colours will appear. Their focus will now be on the kids. I watched a report on NTA months ago and it confirmed this statement. 98%(women) of those interviewed said their husbands no longer take care them as they did during their dating days.

Well said. @ OP ignore what everyone has said, take this advice its d real truth.

Who is a stingy man? A man that is unwilling to spend money on others not just on you.
You want your wardrobe to be changed, you want recharge cards, you want brazilian hair. If your parents can't give you these, is it not fair to tag your parents stingy too? They are the ones to do that, it is their duty!!

Btw, look in the mirror. Are you a stingy lady? Judge yourself the same way you judge him.

jmoore:

I think you are talking about laws of prostitution.

I'm good dear.
How ya been?

folameme:
yay!sup honey,its been a while

Herrmes:
A girl with tattoo on her waist is a loose girl? That is pure prejudice

kayciano:
D annoying part is dat,this is ORDINARY DATING ...not even a legally married ..
I can NEVER DATE a visionless and jobless lady.
D worst is that if u hear what these ladies request for...
A lady(24yrs) i once took to silver bed cinema..b4 i met my BELOVED FIANCEE...
Immediately, we alighted she went straight for sun glasses costing about #15,400...
I asked her whom she wanted to see with such glasses..(may be ghosts).
Before she could turn around, i had already scampered through d emergency exit...

Stelvin101:


Lwkmdfh. Well my advice to u bro is don't just tip her off yet. Study her and you might found out the love n loyalty is still intact. Maybe a friend of hers has done it and she feels like doing it too. Buh below the waist, even me sef will feel angry make I nor lie o. Lucky for me, my bae dislike tatoo n even warned me not to try am draw one