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| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Nobody: 9:20pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
tellwisdom: Na so dem go dey anoint her vagin.a and other bodily parts with groundnut oil( anointing oil) to make her conceive Let him stay there and allow crooks to be fing'ering his wife |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by tonte(m): 9:21pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Also insist on a DNA test after the birth of your first child...take this one very seriously 6 Likes |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by adexsimply(m): 9:21pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Religion: breaking relationships and destroying homes since 1600. Yes, I'm talking from experience |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by lastpage: 9:23pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Everyone is telling the @Poster to "be a man, wear your trouser, ban her, stop her, ... e.t.c" but dont we remember and agree that "she is an adult" and "you can only take a horse to the river, you cant force it to drink"? A woman in her "state of mind" does not listen to the husband..... she takes her instructions from her "man of Gawd"! This Op is fighting a  Its sad but true. Lastpage! 3 Likes |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by socrateez(m): 9:27pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
The first thing you have to do is to become born again yourself and make both of you attend the church of your choice. It would be difficult to stop your wife from seeing these charlatans if you don't provide an alternative. Your lackadaisical attitude to God is a factor in your experience; it has robbed you of the spiritual authority you're expected to exercise in your family so, fake prophets are running your family. You cannot ignore God and expect the devil not to interfere in your affairs. Its not going to be easy because the prophets won't release her since she has become a meas of livelihood for them so be prepared for a long battle. Weaning a person from the clutches of dupes and fake prophets is never easy. Please don't complicate the problem by threat of divorce, the prophets would just tell her she was not supposed to marry you in the first instance. I sense that you desire a godly, lovely, peaceful and enjoyable family but I must tell you, you can only have these when both of you are committed to the Lord and serve Him from your heart. You could try to go on vacation to another town where both of you can have time for heart to heart discussion. God is always available to solve any problem brought to Him because He is the originator of the home. You are blessed. 4 Likes |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by decode55(m): 9:29pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
pweetixandy: your brain must be very little  1 Like |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by donsufia: 9:30pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
My brother this is a very complex situation. Am very sure the pastor had already prophesied to her that they have turned you against her and If you try to stop her now,it means the prophesy of the pastor has come true. And she may do what the pastor had given to her as the solution...who knows if packing out of your house. What I will like to tell you now is to resort to prayers only. This is why is good to marry a spiritually sound wife or husband and not those spiritual slaves. Mind you, being spiritually stupid has nothing to do with being religious. I wonder why people still fall prey to these herbalists and authors of confusions calling themselves prophets!!! 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by pweetixandy: 9:30pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
texazzpete:then he shld leave her to go to d pastors. If he can't go with her,he shld leave her |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by idu1(m): 9:31pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Tallesty1:o boy this ur comment can send ebola fever inside the OP stomach right now..... Lol 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by recentelder(m): 9:33pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Let me tell you this fact,no one can make your marriage inferior without your permission. It all depends on your ability to manage your home.how can the so called prophets be tossing your wife to and fro yet no concrete decision to ber taken by you. My fear is that if care is not taken, the prophet may start sleeping wt your wife saying it is only his sperm that can Produce. |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by GodMode: 9:33pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
lastpage: Been an adult is not by age.. The wife gullible, naïve and must never be trusted she doesn't even trust her husband.. The op should threaten her by sending her packing..this bulls:hit has gone far already so the davidoff2000 should take it to the next level by sending her parking... For nigerian women, Been married is like a gold medal once he sends her out she'll know how serious the guy is. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by pweetixandy: 9:35pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
decode55:ur dyeek must be tiny  |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Nobody: 9:37pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
lastpage: You are so correct One woman that got into this man of God prophet mess was so convinced her husband's last effort to kill her will happen with his sperm as the man of God said and she stopped any sexual contact with him and will scream when he touched her, till she eventually filed for divorce I hope the MOG is now her man |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by vodacom: 9:37pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Well stoping her from seeing pastors wouldn't help the matter. My candid advice is that you discuss things together and try to persuade not worry moreover you are not first couple in this planet that got married and hasn't produce an offspring.You need to see families that have being try hard for over 30 years yet they are not bothered. Let her go for medical checks including you because no matter the number of prayer houses she visits,if God says no there is nothing she can do. Try to persuade her to limit the prayer houses she visit because of "sheep is wolfs clothing" |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by kroosx: 9:39pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
invite ha to read through dis thread nd dats all |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Nobody: 9:40pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Shoo!! See gbege!! I hope those Prophets wey no get joy never begin give her "Ogede" chop? |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by justmenoni: 9:45pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Honestly i don't comment much on nairaland,just view the topic and leave  but to be candid i think this is a problem affecting many homes and still going to affect many,i believe prayer is answered at any location..i was asking my dad one day if we can visit 50 pastors,50 muslim clerics and 50 baba alawos and see if they won't all have different problems and prophecies to give someone lets assume that at least one will get 20 to 30 different messages so does it mean one has really those kind of problem in their lives...but at the other hand i am a catholic and i like my faith u know why ? they don't give prophecies in yoruba we call it shadura nshami...but wait ooo true true some pastors are blessed sha and they can really give good prophecies but then what you don't know sometime is better than knowing it.. |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Nobody: 9:47pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
babyosisi: Abobi! This ur comment fit give Op instant fever...lol Infact e fit e the neuro-actuator wey go make Op tear in wife one hot slap this night especially if e notice oil on her skin 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by gostudyeurope: 9:47pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
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| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Nobody: 9:47pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
How do people get so gullible?? It just baffles me. Why did God give us brains if we can't use them? Why let another human being control your life when you can directly hear from God? It's just plain irritating and I never associate with those kind of gullible people. I'm much more comfortable with Atheists. I'm sorry OP, but it's going to be very difficult to make your wife see reasons. She's neck deep into this act and has been brainwashed to no end. Try stopping her and you become an enemy. |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by gostudyeurope: 9:48pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
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| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by darlenese(f): 9:50pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
First of all, u have to start being the head of ur home, because from the way u sound it seems ur wife is the one in control, n she seems to always have her way, I am a woman but I must tell the truth, u hv given her so much room. Make ur decisions and let it stand! For heaven sake it's Only God that gives children, nt some insane so-called man of God,if u dnt stop her now, who know whe might be hypnotized and impregnated under ur roof |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by sukkot: 9:50pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
the pastor dey anoint am with holy gbola. man you better put your wife in check. who wears the trousas ? you or her ? if you say she aint going to no pastors then she aint going and she just going to have to deal with it. put your foot down |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Tallesty1(m): 9:52pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
idu1:That's the truth nah |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Nobody: 9:53pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
sukkot: If you think it's a matter of trousers you should also know that there is a man of God with bigger trousers here Is it easy to hear directly from God |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Project400: 9:54pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Interesting |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by sukkot: 9:56pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
babyosisi:the man of God is irrelevant. this here issue is between husband and wife. this here issue is an A and B issue and the pastor should C his way out of it  |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by akoaki(m): 9:56pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
You've got a big job to do in order to stop her because seeing pastors is an addiction for nigerian women. One of the ways is to discredit the pastors by making her read news of atrocities committed by this group of criminals. You may print out such stories/news online for her to read. There are hundreds of such stories that may eventually heal her of that dangerous addiction. If she must attend a church, convince her to go to any of the orthodox churches - catholic, anglican, methodist etc. |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Nobody: 9:57pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Phema: The worst part is that these women know exactly what they want and who they want to listen to yet bypassed these prophets when they were looking for husbands If the fake prophetic thing was fascinating to me,what better thing but than marry one |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by tellwisdom: 9:58pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
babyosisi: Chai....abeg no give the man hypertension oo |
| Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Kimoni: 9:58pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Tallesty1: Hehehehhehe  bitter truth my guy. |
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