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Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Nobody: 9:58pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
sukkot: Read the OP again The man of God is at the center of the marriage and is controlling her every move ,could even be dictating when she can sleep with the husband When a prophet can tell a woman where she can hang her laundry,he is part and parcel of the relationship and in total control Believe me |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by boolet: 9:59pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Heb 1:1-2. |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by IDEApro(m): 10:00pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
You better stop her or else those charlatans will deplete her/your financial resources all in a bid to secure for her deliverance or worse still one of the deliverance expert might convince her into adultery . Both of you should go for medical evaluation then counselling to reset her already tampered inhibitions. Therafter both of you should pray fervently for Gods supplication in the area of marital fruitfulness and finally…. Do your work well and hope for the best. Noto bene: I didn't mean you should stop her going to church, I meant she should stop patronising seers. |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by sukkot: 10:00pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
babyosisi:tis why i said he has to put his foot down. stop seeing the man of God or move out of this house and move in with him. em is the only two options you have. and dont let the door knob hit ya where the good lord split ya |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by oduxology: 10:02pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
God will help you my bro...I believe woman can go any length to get whatever they needed. For won't be good but sweet words and encouraging ones... |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by sonnie10: 10:04pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Bros, the whole issue as you have said is from not being able to conceive. Being in the medical field, I can tell that due the advancement in medicine, some of these condition can be diagnosed and treated. First, you and your wife would need to see some specialist. You never know, it could be you. They will be able to recommend specific tests and procedures that will determine what the issue is. As long as there are underlying conditions, the probability of shooting blank would be high. The good news is availability of specialist hospitals/clinics now unlike before. Again, they are using more modern diagnostic equipment and there have been profound increase in knowledge regarding infertility. But these are not cheap anyway.However, do not give up on prayers. Cheers 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Issues relating to religion are very sensitive. If the center cannot hold, tins wud fall apart. Be prepared for the worse. |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by sukkot: 10:07pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
all these men of god ( notice i use small g ) who go around baptizing women with their holy gbola. animal in human skin |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by delfol: 10:20pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
You need to tell her that more time in the bedroom with you less time with the magic pastors her womb will be unlocked. That's my own prophecy. If that doesn't work do it over again. I'm surprised all these prophets never told her that |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by cold(m): 10:21pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
@op you aint seen nothing yet. Wait until the night vigils start coming in thick & fast. Maybe na that time your eye go open. Better wake up & let her understand these so called prophecies aren't healthy & putting a strain on your marriage |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Nobody: 10:31pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
sukkot: What's gbola 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Boss13: 10:32pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
This is a serious issue and I am afraid that your marriage is heading to the rocks. Your wife has allowed external influence into your home. I wish I could advice you but it seems your wife has gotten so deep with these fraudsters who call themselves MOG. They will make your wife hate everybody in this world including yourself If you can stop her from going to church please do |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by mryusuffga(m): 10:35pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
cal her to order that you can have children when u pray urselves in ur room.and GOD will answer ur prayer |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by sukkot: 10:38pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
sandijey:prick |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by dozymars(m): 10:40pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Davidoff2000: It is written: My people perish for lack of Knowledge. This is what happens if you are ignorant of the word of God. Your wife is being tossed around because of her ignorance on the word. Find and plant yourself and your wife in a church that will teach you about the word of God and how to stand your ground on it. You also need to know God better so you can take the lead spiritually for your family otherwise your wife will be led by wrong people to the wrong hands. Search and you shall find. The internet is available for you and yours to search on what the word of God says about the fruit of the womb and his promises, hold on to the promise and stand on it. Finally, both of you should go to a fertility clinic to run a fertility test. Stop your wife from visiting those prophets now. Take charge. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by jameslucy: 10:42pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Sorry about ur troubles. Note that psychological trauma contributes to infertility. Also, worry is a clear sign of lack of trust in God-God hates it. Faith is what you need! And don't forget it is the "substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen." You also need to be a genuine believer so you can study God & learn how to attract His blessings-there's no short cut to His standard. Please beware of false prophets-we're in the endtime! I'm a called minister & I declare to you that if you will trust God & be obedient to Him you will not only have a child but children in Jesus Name. God Bless you Sir. |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by KanwuliaJara: 10:42pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Sorry. Your wife is very local. No insult intended. . . JUST THE FACT! She is timid and without a mind of her own. Stopping her is not the problem. If she does not see a 'pastor'. . .SHE WILL VISIT A BABALAWO for sure. Some people constantly look for 'validation'. . . from others. Especially when they have LOW SELF-ESTEEM ISSUES. . . OR LIKE TO PARTAKE IN GOSSIP AS THEIR ONLY HOBBY! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by andyanders: 10:42pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Very big problem if not taken care of this time, if not by the time some of them has finished with her if care is not taken and she falls into the wrong ones, they will start bedding her not only telling her about your family and people in the compound. Too bad. Your wife has gone far and call her to order if not, your marriage is bound to crash. |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Nobody: 10:45pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
OP simply married the wrong person or someone incompatible. Men who married the right person never used languages like "stop my Wife from doing this or that". You and your Wife are not on the same page and I have a concern about introducing children into this relationship at this time. |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by synergycom19: 10:48pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Let me remind you about one thing never said that someone cannot go diabolical,and you appear to be very carnal minded prophecy may not come to pass as in the book of Jonah and some may not be intepreted well, that doesn't make it generally fake. However,you said that she is not born again so how will the thing even work. |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by trotsky2: 10:49pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
May Allah curse the christians and the jews |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by sukkot: 10:50pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
on a side note, you cant drink garri three times a day and expect to get pregnant. try eating fresh vegetables |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Hedybee(f): 10:51pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
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Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Nobody: 10:57pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
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Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by Nobody: 10:59pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
What if he finds out the wife even agreed to marry him based on the same prophecies,what will he do It's not today the woman started hearing from yahoo temples 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by donbenie(m): 11:01pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
tspun:What's the f@ck kind of b@llsh#t statement is that?You dey form grammar? Abeg,Park well if you don't have any better thing to say.. |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by sukkot: 11:02pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
sandijey:hey all am saying is when i read about african pastors and their female congregation members, these types of things seem common place. on a sidenote i am loving my phone. i got 6 apps on it already 1-heart rate monitor 2-solar system 3-foreign exchange calculator 4-world clock 5-audio bible 6-fingerprint scan tell me what apps you got and which one you think i would like. no games please. i dont like computer games |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by bnovative(m): 11:06pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
flipboss:So on point!! 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by madgoat(m): 11:09pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
If this continues, ur marriage will soon be in serious trouble bcoz of this mushroom prophets and churches. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by millionboi(m): 11:13pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
gostudyeurope:ENGLISH WEH WE BORROW NEVA DO U dey talk of czeech |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by bnovative(m): 11:16pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Op don't call prayer house "prophet " a pastor. From your story It's safe to say your wife has been patronizing these seers before she married u; probably she believes she got.married through the help of these fake demonic seers. you are on a long thing, because a person who is patronizing these prayer houses is worse than the devil. |
Re: Should I Stop Her From Seeing 'pastors'? by millionboi(m): 11:23pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
sandijey:i tink is hausa meanin manhood |
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