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5 Things To Get Right On Your Wedding Day. by jaymejate: 10:56pm On Nov 30, 2014
1. Show up on time.
Yes, yes, custom dictates that it’s permissible for
a bride to be late to her own wedding, but there’s
a huge difference being delayed for half an hour
and being three hours late.
Disasters and unexpected setbacks are excusable
(in which case you should make sure to get a
message to someone who can then inform the
guests about the delay), but if you have no valid
reason to be late, you may find yourself on the
receiving end of hostile glances.
2. Feed your vendors
Believe it or not, I’ve actually been to weddings
where the photographers, videographers and
caterers were expected to work without a break
and without food.
If you think that people don’t notice how you treat
the people whose services you paid for (and yes,
that includes feeding them), then you’re in for a
rude awakening.
The people that you’ve hired do require
sustenance in order to continue working their
magic, and neglecting to extend one of the most
basic forms of hospitality to them on your big day,
makes you look so very bad.
3. If at all possible, and if within your budget,
provide snacks during those in-between moments
when your guests are waiting.
This would especially be welcome for when you
and the bridal party need to head on off for your
photo shoot.
Finger snacks and cocktail foods, along with some
refreshing beverages will keep your guests
occupied and take the edge of gnawing hunger
while they’re waiting for the reception banquet to
begin! It will also line their stomachs so that they
don’t act like these drunk guests.
4. Arrange the seating in a way that leaves no
room for awkwardness (or all-out brawls)
You know your family and you know your friends.
Which means it would make sense for you to
arrange it in a manner where people who know
one another are grouped together.
No one wants to spend half of the day’s
celebrations in the company of people who leave
you feeling awkward, so while you have the
authority over seating arrangements, consider the
feelings of your family members and friends.
5. Unexpected setback in schedule? Let your
guests know immediately.
Because and let’s face it, there’s always one thing
that is bound to go wrong. Maybe the DJ was
allergic to bees and had to go to the ER, or the
wedding officiator was in an accident - either way,
it will be best to inform your guests as soon as
humanly possible.
That way they will be a lot more understanding
and far less likely to complain about having to
endure any form of discomfiture because of
circumstances out of your control.


http://infochapter..com/2014/11/5-things-to-get-right-on-your-wedding.html?m=1
Re: 5 Things To Get Right On Your Wedding Day. by holatin(m): 11:02pm On Nov 30, 2014
check on the photographer frequently, make e no be say na only flash no pics
Re: 5 Things To Get Right On Your Wedding Day. by jaymejate: 11:04pm On Nov 30, 2014
holatin:
check on the photographer frequently, make e no be say na only flash no pics
hahahasmiley
bros na true tok o.
Re: 5 Things To Get Right On Your Wedding Day. by chimerase2: 11:08pm On Nov 30, 2014
undecided
Re: 5 Things To Get Right On Your Wedding Day. by xpac01(m): 11:08pm On Nov 30, 2014
Great tips. Especially no. 2. Never gave it a thought.
Re: 5 Things To Get Right On Your Wedding Day. by Chiscomax(m): 11:23pm On Nov 30, 2014
FTC first of all before it is too late...




Ehen lemme answer you now*wears wrapper, inserts chewing stick in the mouth and grabs a stool*



I remember those days, just like yesterday. You donot need to bother yourself toomuch neither do you need to Fret nor frown. I used to have same situation. But in a nutshell;

CAUSE: shyness, inability to look into people's eyes. This is why you are confident at night when you can not see the eyes(window to the soul)
Having cold feets can also cause this(from my own observation).


SOLUTION:wear sunglasses in the day so that they will not be able to see your eyes( for astart),
Wear shoes often to prevent air from over flowinginto your feet.
Work on your confidence.

*nkem, bring me that my kolanut quickly before Thunder gbagbuo gi anya!*

I will be back if ihave any other thing to say*coughs*

*chukwudi, bring my palm wine keg and 2 straws*
Re: 5 Things To Get Right On Your Wedding Day. by harbibi: 11:53pm On Nov 30, 2014
Chiscomax:
FTC first of all before it is too late...




Ehen lemme answer you now*wears wrapper, inserts chewing stick in the mouth and grabs a stool*



I remember those days, just like yesterday. You donot need to bother yourself toomuch neither do you need to Fret nor frown. I used to have same situation. But in a nutshell;

CAUSE: shyness, inability to look into people's eyes. This is why you are confident at night when you can not see the eyes(window to the soul)
Having cold feets can also cause this(from my own observation).


SOLUTION:wear sunglasses in the day so that they will not be able to see your eyes( for astart),
Wear shoes often to prevent air from over flowinginto your feet.
Work on your confidence.

*nkem, bring me that my kolanut quickly before Thunder gbagbuo gi anya!*

I will be back if ihave any other thing to say*coughs*

*chukwudi, bring my palm wine keg and 2 straws*
. Old man, you done miss road. Na another man house you enter so.
Re: 5 Things To Get Right On Your Wedding Day. by merit12(f): 10:44am On Jan 05, 2016
Are you getting ready to get marry
Re: 5 Things To Get Right On Your Wedding Day. by jaymejate: 1:21pm On Oct 18, 2016
merit12:
Are you getting ready to get marry

Maybe

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