I hit my girlfriend and i regretted d action. I'm not happy n my heart is heavy...i cant even concentrate on anything.
Im a very reserve person-i don't use abusive words on someone regardless of ur age but dis my gal talks too much "a trait which earned her a blow 2day"...im not proud of it bt she really pushed me to d wall without any option

Lol

She needs to kick u to the curb fukkeen woman beater! Na so e dey start,when a man hits u once,fogerrit,he'll do it again and again. Ur fellow NL woman hitters are coming to justify ur action,dnt worry,maybe they will make u feel less guilty.

ask her for forgiveness or get ready to loss her to another sharp guy.....

pweetixandy:
She needs to kick u to the curb fukkeen woman beater! Na so e dey start,when a man hits u once,fogerrit,he'll do it again and again. Ur fellow NL woman hitters are coming to justify ur action,dnt worry,maybe they will make u feel less guilty.

my dear calm down...
I hadly talk...she s more like d man in d relationship in terms of decison making because i always want her to be happy but she mistook ma gentleness n quietness for weakness lack of confidence...im not goat now...na only goat u go dey do d samething to everytime n e go take am

Chineduorizu:
ask her for forgiveness or get ready to loss her to another sharp guy.....

loose her huh?.....i have taken so many shiit from this girl tbh....woman can actually provoke d animal in a man....

Thanks anyway

Dude..u were wrong honestly..but all d same,never do it again..na sin ,u fit run over a guyman like u when he messes up totally but women..Nah!
Apologise but if u think u can't take her shi nomore,instead of hitting her,let her go..

phemolisti:
I hit my girlfriend and i regretted d action. I'm not happy n my heart is heavy...i cant even concentrate on anything.
Im a very reserve person-i don't use abusive words on someone regardless of ur age but dis my gal talks too much "a trait which earned her a blow 2day"...im not proud of it bt she really pushed me to d wall without any option

First of all u need to be tied down and flogged with a chain...
Secondly, obviously u ain't so remorseful because u just made an excuse as to why u hit a woman...

She's not ur dog, neither is she a slave... She doesn't belong to u and u didn't create her....

Learn to be quiet, no matter what she does... Even if she slaps u.. Learn to walk away.... Is it that hard Geezz... U really should be tied down for a bit.... Hit so u know what it feels like.... Good ur heart is heavy... Hope u won't ever try it again because in case u don't know, only a weak man gets violent with a woman... Learn to turn a blind eye... Or just be quiet... It won't kill u... If it gets overbearing, walk away... And give her space, she'll be the one to apologize...

Hmmmmm...

Yeah, you should be sorry you did that to her. That was a pretty dumb thing to do.

SuperMartins:
Dude..u were wrong honestly..but all d same,never do it again..na sin ,u fit run over a guyman like u when he messes up totally but women..Nah!
Apologise but if u think u can't take her shi nomore,instead of hitting her,let her go..

tank boss...noted

krispycash:


First of all u need to be tied down and flogged with a chain...
Secondly, obviously u ain't so remorseful because u just made an excuse as to why u hit a woman...

She's not ur dog, neither is she a slave... She doesn't belong to u and u didn't create her....

Learn to be quiet, no matter what she does... Even if she slaps u.. Learn to walk away.... Is it that hard Geezz... U really should be tied down for a bit.... Hit so u know what it feels like.... Good ur heart is heavy... Hope u won't ever try it again because in case u don't know, only a weak man gets violent with a woman... Learn to turn a blind eye... Or just be quiet... It won't kill u... If it gets overbearing, walk away... And give her space, she'll be the one to apologize...

lolz at tied down n flogged with a chain....haba i no mad now

im remorseful that was why i created this thread to pour out my mind....i doubt u knw what some women are capable of (FYI, i wanted leavin ma room 4 her she blocked me n locked d door telling me........) i wil apologise n won't do it again as a gentleman i am...tank u

It's bad to be angry, I can imagine how bitter you were that led to the manual reset you gave to her. Apologies to her, make her happy or buy her a gift, I know that she won't want to repeat her mistake again.

striktlymi:
Hmmmmm...

Yeah, you should be sorry you did that to her. That was a pretty dumb thing to do.

noted sir, appropriate correction would be made

just take a look at your life

Read yourself again, 'she EARNED herself a BLOW'. You claim you are not proud of it but defended yourself by saying there was no other means, which is untrue. There are many things you would have done, one of them would be to keep quiet and walk away. Ladies are capable of bringing out the devils in men but still, you would have been wonderful if you simply kept quiet and walked away before being borrowed by the devil. You, sir, are guilty and maybe she got what she wanted but it still doesn't take out the fact that you have showed that you cannot handle dicey situations with a lady yet.

Beg her wit all ur lif

op

to those of you making noise as to why he did the awful thing he did..

you guys didnt even care to ask what happened... so that you can quantify what he did

and maybe tell him what to do if that same situation arises again...

or you guys didnt see the part where he said he was trynna leave the room and she blocked the way?

not that i am saying what he did was right....but always listen to both side of the story before u even judge...

cos everybody...nd i mean...everybody..has dre own breakpoint..

you guys are just pointing fingers... and i am sure some of them pointing the fingers are hypocrites sef..

what if it was the other way round...some gi=uys here would have started shouting "if na me ehn...i for knock her out"

OP...no do am again... oya wetin happen...make we see who dey at fault first...

A gentleman does not lay his hand on a lady,no matter the situation..
btw,you should have walked away.

phemolisti:


lolz at tied down n flogged with a chain....haba i no mad now

im remorseful that was why i created this thread to pour out my mind....i doubt u knw what some women are capable of (FYI, i wanted leavin ma room 4 her she blocked me n locked d door telling me........) i wil apologise n won't do it again as a gentleman i am...tank u

No matter what a woman does to u... U have no right as a man to lay ur hands on her.... Violently.... Irrespectiveof of what she may have done...yeah... I know what women are capable of .... And I know how annoying they can be ..... But u learn to ignore and walk away... If she doesn't want u to leave, u just let her run her mouth and when she's done u walk .... Control....

Video of the blow landing on her face or ADONBILIVIT

If de gal after u dealt with her still remain in the relationship
I swear de gal deserves everi bit of it
If u start by blowing ur gal frend so wat re u going to do to her if u get married to her or any oda gal shey punching bag?
Note: men dat beats up and blow der spouse re not meant to be men dey should be classified as animals
I always pray dat God should always keep me de way I am but gals get bad mouth shaa

All these silly inexperienced kids spamming nairaland with their stu.poid advices.

I am sure they will fare worse should it happen to them.

"A female mantis kills the male after sex. That's cruel right? Well, there is a type of woman you will meet and you will envy the male mantis.."

krispycash:


First of all u need to be tied down and flogged with a chain...
Secondly, obviously u ain't so remorseful because u just made an excuse as to why u hit a woman...

She's not ur dog, neither is she a slave... She doesn't belong to u and u didn't create her....

Learn to be quiet, no matter what she does... Even if she slaps u.. Learn to walk away.... Is it that hard Geezz... U really should be tied down for a bit.... Hit so u know what it feels like.... Good ur heart is heavy... Hope u won't ever try it again because in case u don't know, only a weak man gets violent with a woman... Learn to turn a blind eye... Or just be quiet... It won't kill u... If it gets overbearing, walk away... And give her space, she'll be the one to apologize...

my brother you're right but what did he do that made him deserve flogging?

OP I understand you perfectly well, am also taciturn and find it hard being around people who talk too much, I sometimes just ignore them, cause some just don't know when to stop talking.

@every1...i didnt like what i did and im not tryin to give excuses...like someone pointed out..everyone has his/her breaking point(if rubber material has elastic limit how much more human)

Chai I so pity the lady next time it will be a kick na so e dey start

phemolisti:
@every1...i didnt like what i did and im not tryin to give excuses...like someone pointed out..everyone has his/her breaking point(if rubber material has elastic limit how much more human)

It was bad hitting her, but at d end u have learnt and seen what she can do. Next tym, even if she blocks d door, just sit down but be alert oh cos most times women rant, they tend to do something very bad dat may lead to their guys beating dem so her excuse will be dat you beat her. So the bad things they may do include being the 1st person to heat u, cos they see the silent treatment as an 'insult' and most of them hate it. So while u give her d silent treatment, don't lose guard cos she may decide to come there and slap you or she may throw the flower vase at you.

Missmossy:
Chai I so pity the lady next time it will be a kick na so e dey start

sister calm down...nobody is kicking anybody aiiit
if u know d kind of persson i am u wil probably not blame me..i hate it when someone insult ma personaliy n intelligency via their actions n words

UnknownT:
It was bad hitting her, but at d end u have learnt and seen what she can do. Next tym, even if she blocks d door, just sit down but be alert oh cos most times women rant, they tend to do something very bad dat may lead to their guys beating dem so her excuse will be dat you beat her. So the bad things they may do include being the 1st person to heat u, cos they see the silent treatment as an 'insult' and most of them hate it. So while u give her d silent treatment, don't lose guard cos she may decide to come there and slap you or she may throw the flower vase at you.

......honestly some lady eh...hmm
thank u sir..advice noted

Charles4075:
Any man who beats up a lady is a be*ast for sure. No matter what she says or do, I won't raise a finger on her. But what I'll do to her as her punishment will be worse than death itself.

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smh n smiling