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Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by NaNaYaaah(f): 7:07pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Hey guys ..theres a guy at church thats kinda confusing me right now. In my church; men and women aint allowed to socialise. I had this guy on facebook and we chat der until he asked for my number so i gave him. He phones everyday and i dont pick up coz i honestly dunno what we will talk about. he now chats me on watsap tellin me i make his day and make him smile when i say "whatever". We chat everyday now and i know the policy of the church..and i dont wanna break the rules.. Im just confused..do yall think theres more to it or im just being hyper for nothing? |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by chibwike(m): 7:09pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Make i first iceberylin comment jor dont your church encourage marriage 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by iceberylin(m): 7:09pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
What kind of useless church is that |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by holatin(m): 7:10pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
He likes you but he is shy Do you like him ? what da church policy ? 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by kilokeys(m): 7:11pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
just flow.. what would Jesus do? should the church stiffle your social life? 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by iceberylin(m): 7:11pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
chibwike:Too bad |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by iceberylin(m): 7:11pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Veralaw: |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by chibwike(m): 7:12pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
iceberylin:Now worry..i don modify |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by iceberylin(m): 7:13pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
chibwike:For ya small mind abi 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by NaNaYaaah(f): 7:16pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Awww yall not helping |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by Anwasia(m): 7:19pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Both you and your church are not serious |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by Tallesty1(m): 7:23pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
That moment when a guy who hasn't asked you out is already getting you wet. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by jashar(f): 7:23pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Mbok OP; explain clearly what you mean by,'my church doesn't allow us to socialise' to avoid ambiguity. From there, let's see how it'll roll. |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by MisterLongman(m): 7:23pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
NaNaYaaah:Rules are meant to be broken....... Especially if they are church rules 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by Nobody: 7:35pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
first of all what is the name of your church?? furthermore, are there married people in your church? |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by NaNaYaaah(f): 7:38pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
jashar:theres something called holy distance .. We dont want no fallin in love and lust b4 marriage |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by spiralwedge(m): 7:44pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
what is d name of ur church? simple question |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by micki83(m): 8:02pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Tallesty1:Hahaha! You're badder than bad! |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by IamLEGEND1: 8:08pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
holy distance? d tin get as e be. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by IamLEGEND1: 8:11pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
holy distance? d tin get as e be. and u said u chat with him everyday on whatsapp and yet u won't pick his calls bcoz u wrongly assumed that there was nothing for u guys to talk about ? is something wrong with u i smell cold feet or over the top infatuation 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by Nobody: 8:58pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
He might jux be friendly,let him ask u out first,you can alwaz say no. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by resocorp: 9:16pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
.....the way some people follow some rules to the letter baffles me 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by kennyman20(m): 9:48pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
The name of the church is holy distance before marriage and lust avoidance evangelical mission I knw that church wella.. Op, are u not the gal that interpreted last sunday? 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by kennyman20(m): 9:53pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
op.. U can lie ooo.. Say something else joor.. Abi, u done maga the guy.. Check op picture.. Is that dressing of urs holy enough to be doing holy distance? 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by okabe(m): 10:06pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Op, r u a LEARNER!!!! |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by NaNaYaaah(f): 10:30pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
kennyman20:I find nothing wrong wit wat im wearin...its summer... I dont dress like dat to church...plus at my church..girls are usually seated on da ryt and men at the left cant bliv u judge a person by what they wear...im pretty decent sir |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by NaNaYaaah(f): 10:31pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
okabe:Yea..im a student |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by chimerase2: 11:05pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
*shiiits on thread and zoooooooooom offf* |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by kennyman20(m): 11:09pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
NaNaYaaah: op, am sure they must have also lectured u in church to dress like an old woman so as to avoid men falling in love with u till when u're ready but you refused to give ears to that sermon cos u see how harmful it'll be for you. Op, use that sytle too to ignore the lecture of holy distance and do ur thing with ur guy.. Op, i swear down! Ask ur pastor how he met his wife.. Op, when u go to church.. U'll be taught all manner of things but na u go use ur frnd take d one wey suit u and ignore the one wey no suit u.. Op, imagine ur pastor asking u to bring all ur salary for the next six months say God needs it.. Be honest.. Would u give it to him? What am trying to tell u is to use ur brain 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by okabe(m): 1:07am On Dec 04, 2014 |
NaNaYaaah:in dat case, na only u waka come o |
Re: Am I Overthinking Things: Is He Just Being Friendly? by Harmvirus(f): 1:19am On Dec 04, 2014 |
what is the name of this church 1 Like |
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