Timmytimmy:


You want to start forming feminist here ba

Total Feminism will never have a strong footing in Africa without a total disconnection from our culture I'm saying so, go write it down.

Not that I'm anti-feminist, I just hate young unmarried women blowing the whole idea of feminism out of proportion.

U ar d one blowing it out of proportion, u seem to b under d impression dat feminists ar out to belittle male gender or something.

Chiamaka01:


I can't be diplomatic, it's just me.

*in Chris Brown's voice* I didn't wanna go there

Anyway,

"A gentle answer defuses anger while a sharp tongue kindles a temper fire"

Forget the issue on ground, but sometimes, diplomacy is synonymous to wisdom. I've seen that re-inforced over and over again.

And stop saying you aren't capable of possessing a virtue. We might be products of our environments or have fixed temperamental traits biologically. It never stops us from learning and becoming what God expects us to be.

Will you marry me?

babysmart:

U ar d one blowing it out of proportion, u seem to b under d impression dat feminists ar out to belittle male gender or something.

Aunty mi the Barrister, temper justice with mercy now.
I haven't said very much about feminism on this thread. What fueled your presumption?

Btw, do you know the minds of all the "so-called feminists". How can you be so sure that's not what they want to do? I haven't made any statements here yet. I'm still asking questions.

haydot95:
but when u wanna "operate" u can touch it,right?

lmao ...my brother pls help me ask dem o...or u will disinfect it b4 operation abi? lol

Timmytimmy:


Aunty mi the Barrister, temper justice with mercy now.
I haven't said very much about feminism on this thread. What fueled your presumption?

Btw, do you know the minds of all the "so-called feminists". How can you be so sure that's not what they want to do? haven't made any statements here yet. I'm still asking questions.

lol...we've had dis kinda conversation b4.
wat makes u so sure dat dats wat dey intend to do
besides, y do u keep referring to chimamanda, pls free dat woman o

babysmart:

U ar d one blowing it out of proportion, u seem to b under d impression dat feminists ar out to belittle male gender or something.

Don't mind the dude jawe, only God knows why men don't think like me. 50:50 is what men should be thinking of exploiting now. It gives men the chance to save their money while doing some over hyped home chores, out of which they can hire a temporary house help till the kids mature enough. I still wonder why men still think its their job to provide for a dull, passive element. Mthcheew

Timmytimmy:

We might be products of our environments or have fixed temperamental traits biologically. It never stops us from learning and becoming what God expects us to be.

Will you marry me?

@bolded, that's the case, and no offence, but you're not God, so you don't know what he wants me to be.

No, i won't.

babysmart:

lol...we've had dis kinda conversation b4.
wat makes u so sure dat dats wat dey intend to do
besides, y do u keep referring to chimamanda, pls free dat woman o

ALL THE ABLE AUNTY! !!!

Na you oh. All this accusations you're dispensing as if you're father Christmas. Diariz God oh

I haven't accused Chimmamnda of anything on this thread yet.

Anyway,that our conversation was about her person and not really about feminism.

You can't change the fact that I don't really care much for her. I'm prejudiced and I'm admitting it

babysmart:

U ar d one blowing it out of proportion, u seem to b under d impression dat feminists ar out to belittle male gender or something.

Seems like i'm not the only one who observed this. The bible says,'God's strength is made perfect in our weakness'. It seems like their strength is made perfect in subjugation of women.

Misogynist2014:
Don't mind the dude jawe, only God knows why men don't think like me. 50:50 is what men should be thinking of exploiting now. It gives men the chance to save their money while doing some over hyped home chores, out of which they can hire a temporary house help till the kids mature enough. I still wonder why men still think its their job to provide for a dull, passive element. Mthcheew

lol

Timmytimmy:


ALL THE ABLE AUNTY! !!!

Na you oh. All this accusations you're dispensing as if you're father Christmas. Diariz God oh

I haven't accused Chimmamnda of anything on this thread yet.

Anyway,that our conversation was about her person and not really about feminism.

You can't change the fact that I don't really care much for her. I'm prejudiced and I'm admitting it

thank God u knw u ar prejudiced

Chiamaka01:


@bolded, that's the case, and no offence, but you're not God, so you don't know what he wants me to be.

No, i won't.

I like it when you go all feisty and aggressive.

I am definitely not God and I am only too glad to agree with this your poignant and important observation but do you think God wants us handling things with force everytime?

Btw, maybe I have a fairly good idea of what God wants. Maybe

Marry me na

Chiamaka01:


Seems like i'm not the only one who observed this. The bible says,'God's strength is made perfect in our weakness'. It seems like their strength is made perfect in subjugation of women.

my sister, chop knuckle jare.
yea exactly, nd dey like to brag to deir fellow men aw much dey subjugate deir women

Chiamaka01:


Seems like i'm not the only one who observed this. The bible says,'God's strength is made perfect in our weakness'. It seems like their strength is made perfect in subjugation of women.

Nooooooooooooooooo

Chai.....I don't even know where to start from. It's not a competition now. I'm feminist in a lot of ways self.
Ayaf tire jare

Timmytimmy:


I like it when you go all feisty and aggressive.

I am definitely not God and I am only too glad to agree with this your poignant and important observation but do you think God wants us handling things with force everytime?

Btw, maybe I have a fairly good idea of what God wants. Maybe

Marry me na

I'm not playing this game with you.

uumm:
OAU 2014/2015 FRESHERS
(newly Admitted Students) Meet
Here

been a long tym bro...aw u doin nd did u go to Moro?

Timmytimmy:


Nooooooooooooooooo

Chai.....I don't even know where to start from. It's not a competition now. I'm feminist in a lot of ways self.
Ayaf tire jare

It's my turn to say, "guilty conscience!". I knew you'd catch the bait. You're not a sexist or a misogynist, you're more of a 'traditionalist'. Your interest is the preservation of your culture, which is

Timmytimmy:


Nooooooooooooooooo

Chai.....I don't even know where to start from. It's not a competition now. I'm feminist in a lot of ways self.
Ayaf tire jare

uuuuu? feminist? chai!!!
u knw wat...I comment my reserve.

babysmart:

my sister, chop knuckle jare.
yea exactly, nd dey like to brag to deir fellow men aw much dey subjugate deir women

As in, ehn. Thank God more women are opening their eyes.

But when you see a female truly in love, she's constantly ruled by her emotions which makes her succumb to the will of her man

Feel free to correct me.

babysmart:

my sister, chop knuckle jare.
yea exactly, nd dey like to brag to deir fellow men aw much dey subjugate deir women

Are you kidding me? Who is "they"? When I have important things to do, it's to brag about how I subdue my wife? Are you serious? Who are the married men you know?

See why I said you unmarried women blow this thing out of proportion?

Lemme even say something self. The reason why I don't like some feminism crusaders is this thing you're doing; you're goading and encouraging yourself with so much generalisation of the men folk that there will no longer be a middle ground for what you're fighting for. The danger isn't very conspicuous; your feminism simply slips unnoticed into sexism. That's one of the psychological issues I talked about. You'll build a sub-conscious need to compete with men to prove your point.

I know many a lady who only want to be successful to put men in their places. The biggest problem is that they will not admit it to save their lives; second psychological problem.

You girls should chant on your war songs but please tread carefully.

dejii01:
But when you see a female truly in love, she's constantly ruled by her emotions which makes her succumb to the will of her man

Feel free to correct me.

Humans are either majorly thinkers or feelers. It just so happens that most thinkers are males and most feelers are females. There are some female thinkers and some male feelers. I'm a thinker.

Chiamaka01:


As in, ehn. Thank God more women are opening their eyes.

Don't mind those silly men that still think that its their job to care for and protect women in this 21st century. Skunks!

dejii01:
But when you see a female truly in love, she's constantly ruled by her emotions which makes her succumb to the will of her man

Feel free to correct me.

Deji.....leave them oh. I didn't even want to go there yet.

we go attend una wedding na, we go see idobale and kneeling down.

Chiamaka01:


Humans are either majorly thinkers or feelers. It just so happens that most thinkers are males and most feelers are females. There are some female thinkers and some male feelers. I'm a thinker.

Women are too emotional and should be kept at home.

Misogynist2014:
Don't mind the dude jawe, only God knows why men don't think like me. 50:50 is what men should be thinking of exploiting now. It gives men the chance to save their money while doing some over hyped home chores, out of which they can hire a temporary house help till the kids mature enough. I still wonder why men still think its their job to provide for a dull, passive element. Mthcheew

Cool, it's a free world. You are free to hold whatever worldview you want as far as it's not against the Law. Goodluck.

Chiamaka01:


Humans are either majorly thinkers or feelers. It just so happens that most thinkers are males and most feelers are females. There are some female thinkers and some male feelers. I'm a thinker.

Why not be a thinker and feeler?

Or you so much don't want to be seen as a feeler that the thought of it appalls you?

Is this how you would behave when we get married?

Misogynist2014:
Don't mind those silly men that still think that its their job to care for and protect women in this 21st century. Skunks!

You have come, again. What do you want me to say, now?

Timmytimmy:

I know many a lady who only want to be successful to put men in their places. The biggest problem is that they will not admit it to save their lives; second psychological problem.

*in Timmy's voice* Timmy, iyaf vex, oh.
Chill, granps, it's not a battle of the sexes.

You know what 'chill' means, right?

dejii01:
But when you see a female truly in love, she's constantly ruled by her emotions which makes her succumb to the will of her man

Feel free to correct me.

lol...it depends on wat d man's will is o

Timmytimmy:


Why not be a thinker and feeler?

Or you so much don't want to be seen as a feeler that the thought of it appalls you?

Is this how you would behave when we get married?

No one is a 100% thinker or feeler. I'm more of a thinker from the psychological tests i've taken.

You and who? You want to marry a married woman?? I don't practice polyandry, oh.

Timmytimmy:


Are you kidding me? Who is "they"? When I have important things to do, it's to brag about how I subdue my wife? Are you serious? Who are the married men you know?

See why I said you unmarried women blow this thing out of proportion?

Lemme even say something self. The reason why I don't like some feminism crusaders is this thing you're doing; you're goading and encouraging yourself with so much generalisation of the men folk that there will no longer be a middle ground for what you're fighting for. The danger isn't very conspicuous; your feminism simply slips unnoticed into sexism. That's one of the psychological issues I talked about. You'll build a sub-conscious need to compete with men to prove your point.

I know many a lady who only want to be successful to put men in their places. The biggest problem is that they will not admit it to save their lives; second psychological problem.

You girls should chant on your war songs but please tread carefully.

they doesn't mean Timmy, or does it?