Chiamaka01:


Okay, so you see it as a means of enriching one's self or family?

.no I don't.but dey do.have you seen "3 idiots"??

Chiamaka01:


It's my turn to say, "guilty conscience!". I knew you'd catch the bait. You're not a sexist or a misogynist, you're more of a 'traditionalist'. Your interest is the preservation of your culture, which is

Nah. I'm not a traditionalist as such. My argument is for a middle ground. Our African culture too has a lot of barbaric and dehumanising practices.

Feminism however, has more dangerous pits than our culture. The countries that have it in full swing have the highest rates of divorce but then a very large number of our young women are swallowing what they hear without thinking about why our fathers and mothers did it like this or like that. They are practicing an illegitimate revolution.

I am one of the men who still believes my wife should cook 80 percent of the time depending on how free she is. I've been called old fashioned and a lot of names but I don't really care. My mum did it and if only you knew her; she is a choleric person,a natural leader but she is equally a wise woman.

I believe in feeling (love) and thinking (logic). Is that too much to ask?

Chiamaka01:


Humans are either majorly thinkers or feelers. It just so happens that most thinkers are males and most feelers are females. There are some female thinkers and some male feelers. I'm a thinker.

So, you're saying that the majority of females are ruled by their emotions and will succumb to their man when in love
Society 1 - 0 Feminists

I don't disprove that you're a thinker, but I doubt you've loved someone so much that it got to the obsession stage. At that stage, you would become a feeler, trust me, I've seen this happen a lot. Estrogen is a really powerful hormone.

toluwalope1:
.no I don't.but dey do.have you seen "3 idiots"??

I've not really sat down to watch it.

Chiamaka01:


I got the definition from google.

. you can check it up in a dic.

Chiamaka01:


@bolded, that's the case, and no offence, but you're not God, so you don't know what he wants me to be.

No, i won't.

I'll give you a book after stalking you.

dejii01:


So, you're saying that the majority of females are ruled by their emotions and will succumb to their man when in love
Society 1 - 0 Feminists

I don't disprove that you're a thinker, but I doubt you've loved someone so much that it got to the obsession stage. At that stage, you would become a feeler, trust me, I've seen this happen a lot. Estrogen is a really powerful hormone.

I've had serious and not-too-serious ones, i've had all those 'butterflies' and felt jealous at some point, but i was never a lovestruck i d i o t.

dejii01:


So, you're saying that the majority of females are ruled by their emotions and will succumb to their man when in love
Society 1 - 0 Feminists

I don't disprove that you're a thinker, but I doubt you've loved someone so much that it got to the obsession stage. At that stage, you would become a feeler, trust me, I've seen this happen a lot. Estrogen is a really powerful hormone.

Hehehehehe......this Deji is a funny clown

Chiamaka has a lot of "feeling" to do. Experience is the best teacher. You'll understand when "he" comes around.

Chiamaka01:


I've had serious and not-too-serious ones, i've had all those 'butterflies' and felt jealous at some point, but i was never a lovestruck idiot.

Wait naa.....shebi na we dey tell you.
OAU guys will give your heart a run for it's money.

Chiamaka01:


No one is a 100% thinker or feeler. I'm more of a thinker from the psychological tests i've taken.

You and who? You want to marry a married woman?? I don't practice polyandry, oh.

Tell him oh. Meanwhile I'm glad we share the bills equally here, it saves me a lot of money

Timmytimmy:

I am one of the men who still believes my wife should cook 80 percent of the time depending on how free she is. I've been called old fashioned and a lot of names but I don't really care. My mum did it and if only you knew her; she is a choleric person,a natural leader but she is equally a wise woman.

So, you'd object if your wife brought a maid to do some domestic duties?

toluwalope1:
.yes it does and yes its soo 19th century.funny igbos are known to collect quite a fortune,wen u pay DAT much you definitely have to own DAT lady

.hmmm!

Timmytimmy:


Wait naa.....shebi na we dey tell you.
OAU guys will give your heart a run for it's money.

It's a dead end, and you know why.

Chiamaka01:


So, you'd object if your wife brought a maid to do some domestic duties?

Definitely not. If I had my way, my wife won't lift a finger. God willing, i'll super-pamper her.

I'll also have my share of domestic duties. The more energetic duties of course. Marriage should be a matter of love and compromise. That's the way I see it oh.
Kai.....I can't wait.

Timmytimmy:

Chiamaka has a lot of "feeling" to do. Experience is the best teacher. You'll understand when "he" comes around.

Osanobua! Did they send you to me? Did God give you any man for me?? Okay, oh, continue.

Timmytimmy:


Cool, it's a free world. You are free to hold whatever worldview you want as far as it's not against the Law. Goodluck.

You don't understand satire when you see it.

Timmytimmy:


Definitely not. If I had my way, my wife won't lift a finger. God willing, i'll super-pamper her.

I'll also have my share of domestic duties. The more energetic duties of course. Marriage should be a matter of love and compromise. That's the way I see it oh.
Kai.....I can't wait.

I'm impressed. Too bad i'm already married.

Chiamaka01:


It's a dead end, and you know why.

Lol......never say never my dear. They will come in numbers like the locusts in the plague of Egypt, believe me and your heart will curl like a Lizard around your oesophagus

I can bet money on that.

Chiamaka01:


I've had serious and not-too-serious ones, i've had all those 'butterflies' and felt jealous at some point, but i was never a lovestruck i d i o t.

@ the bolded, some can't help it

So you agree with me that once the hormones kick in, the idea of feminism becomes non-existent?

Chiamaka01:


I'm impressed. Too bad i'm already married.

No wahala......Ever heard of coup d'etats ?

Timmytimmy:


Lol......never say never my dear. They will come in numbers like the locusts in the plague of Egypt, believe me and your heart will curl like a Lizard around your oesophagus

I can bet money on that.

Is that a curse? God forbid. They can come in numbers but they'll leave in disappointment, that's a definite.

dejii01:


@ the bolded, some can't help it

So you agree with me that once the hormones kick in, the idea of feminism becomes non-existent?

And African women can love ehn.
They can love for Africa

Chiamaka01:


You have come, again. What do you want me to say, now?

Anything. Following the traditional pattern has its own advantages too. In fact, the stricter the patriarchy, the more the value of women. Do you wasn't the situation of women to be like that of USA? God forbid!

dejii01:

So you agree with me that once the hormones kick in, the idea of feminism becomes non-existent?

I don't know anyone who's acted the way you described. The only woman i know up close and personal is my mom and she wasn't like that, from what she told me.

Chiamaka01:


Is that a curse? God forbid. They can come in numbers but they'll leave in disappointment, that's a definite.

After you find the will to compose yourself, that's sure; they would certainly leave in disappointment.

But there shall be a special one. His name ________

Chiamaka01:


Seems like i'm not the only one who observed this. The bible says,'God's strength is made perfect in our weakness'. It seems like their strength is made perfect in subjugation of women.

.hahaha.Dats not true.

Misogynist2014:
Anything. Following the traditional pattern has its own advantages too. In fact, the stricter the patriarchy, the more the value of women. Do you wasn't the situation of women to be like that of USA? God forbid!

This is the first time i agree with you. As for the other points, let's not do this, we're derailing as it is.

Misogynist2014:
You don't understand satire when you see it.

Oh....my bad sir. That's the first time I've been blinded to such apt use of literary device. It's probably the tense atmosphere around me. These girls are befuddling my reasoning.

I like your moniker, it's part of the irony I presume.

dejii01:


@ the bolded, some can't help it

So you agree with me that once the hormones kick in, the idea of feminism becomes non-existent?

You have actually hit the nail at the centre of its circumference. You see, it is when a woman actually start to battle with her natural feminine instinct(estrogen) which necessitates that she submits to testosterone, that's when she becomes a bïtch! Many a times, the bïtchiness is caused by external influence (s).

babysmart:

lol...it depends on wat d man's will is o

It depends ba? You'll see na. When the 'he' comes by, you'll understand.

Timmytimmy:

Hehehehehe......this Deji is a funny clown
Chiamaka has a lot of "feeling" to do. Experience is the best teacher. You'll understand when "he" comes around.

But seriously, I speak from what I've seen/observed.

babysmart:

uuuuu? feminist? chai!!!
u knw wat...I comment my reserve.

I stand for moderation.

Timmytimmy:


After you find the will to compose yourself, that's sure; they would certainly leave in disappointment.

But there shall be a special one. His name ________

Don't curse me, oh, I take God beg you. Is it your lifetime mission to get on my nerves? Enough derailing, this is an educational thread, not 'Chiamaka's love life' thread.