Timmytimmy:


Are you kidding me? Who is "they"? When I have important things to do, it's to brag about how I subdue my wife? Are you serious? Who are the married men you know?

See why I said you unmarried women blow this thing out of proportion?

Lemme even say something self. The reason why I don't like some feminism crusaders is this thing you're doing; you're goading and encouraging yourself with so much generalisation of the men folk that there will no longer be a middle ground for what you're fighting for. The danger isn't very conspicuous; your feminism simply slips unnoticed into sexism. That's one of the psychological issues I talked about. You'll build a sub-conscious need to compete with men to prove your point.

I know many a lady who only want to be successful to put men in their places. The biggest problem is that they will not admit it to save their lives; second psychological problem.

You girls should chant on your war songs but please tread carefully.

My feminist aunties, please read this.

Chiamaka01:


This is the first time i agree with you. As for the other points, let's not do this, we're derailing as it is.

want not wasn't, don't mind the prediction thing. As for marriage things, how do you think a good marriage should look like? Is it a man heading his home with love and understanding like the Bible says or there shouldn't be a head at all

babysmart:

been a long tym bro...aw u doin nd did u go to Moro?

yes ma'am I did pay a visit to Egypt [/s] Moro... and i'm doing fine- thanks to all the feminists, masculinists, and everythingists here.

Misogynist2014:
want not wasn't, don't mind the prediction thing. As for marriage things, how do you think a good marriage should look like? Is it a man heading his home with love and understanding like the Bible says or there shouldn't be a head at all

It depends on what you mean by 'head'. I believe in joint decision making or if one person makes the decisions, it has to make sense to me, if not, it's going in the trash can.

Chiamaka01:


Don't curse me, oh, I take God beg you. Is it your lifetime mission to get on my nerves? Enough derailing, this is an educational thread, not 'Chiamaka's love life' thread.

All na education now. We are discussing what plagues the students of OAU.

I'm getting on your nerves again?
Which ones now?

Timmytimmy:


I'll give you a book after stalking you.

I'm always a click away from the 'block' button.

Chiamaka01:


It depends on what you mean by 'head'. I believe in joint decision making or if one person makes the decisions, it has to make sense to me, if not, it's going in the trash can.

Is it a feeler or a thinker that should make the decision or both? Why?

Timmytimmy:


All na education now. We are discussing what plagues the students of OAU.

I'm getting on your nerves again?
Which ones now?

Have you just gotten admission?

Chiamaka01:


Osanobua! Did they send you to me? Did God give you any man for me?? Okay, oh, continue.

Hehehehe......God has a man for you alright. The fact that you're feeling nervous about it suggets you already fear is's true the boy is going to be in OAU.

Timmytimmy:


Hehehehe......God has a man for you alright. The fact that you're feeling nervous about it suggets you already fear is's true the boy is going to be in OAU.

Wait, oh. Must everyone marry? Didn't Paul say not everyone would marry? See the way you're carrying my matter like Gala? Did you see me in your nightmare?

Chiamaka01:


I'm always a click away from the 'block' button.

haba now. Doing that would make me really sad, jokes apart this time.
Do you want to be responsible for the sadness of a fellow human being?

Misogynist2014:
Have you just gotten admission?

Unfortunately,yes. God knows best na.

Chiamaka01:


I don't know anyone who's acted the way you described. The only woman i know up close and personal is my mom and she wasn't like that, from what she told me.

You'll get to be exposed to these thing in the university. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying all females are like that, just speaking for the majority.

Misogynist2014:
Is it a feeler or a thinker that should make the decision or both? Why?

The both of them should because the thinker's decision though rational could use a little moderation. Who do you think should make the decisions? Thinker or feeler?

dejii01:


You'll get to be exposed to these thing in the university. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying all females are like that, just speaking for the majority.

Well, i agree, although, it's based on hearsay.

Timmytimmy:


Unfortunately,yes. God knows best na.

Irony! Me too. When are we resuming?

Timmytimmy:


haba now. Doing that would make me really sad, jokes apart this time.
Do you want to be responsible for the sadness of a fellow human being?

Mr Timmy.. greetings to you. I see your doings

Chiamaka01:


Wait, oh. Must everyone marry? Didn't Paul say not everyone would marry? See the way you're carrying my matter like Gala? Did you see me in your nightmare?

Lmao *rolling to France*

Hawking your matter is very lucrative oh. You didn't know?

You should try it sometime,
Oh! I forgot! you are a fantical lover of comfort zones

Timmytimmy:


haba now. Doing that would make me really sad, jokes apart this time.
Do you want to be responsible for the sadness of a fellow human being?

Cheap blackmail, and yes, i don't mind as far as i did what was right and expedient. So, you'd better behave, we edo women love whipping men back into shape.

Chiamaka01:


The both of them should because the thinker's decision though rational could use a little moderation. Who do you think should make the decisions? Thinker or feeler?

Thinker, with a little mix of that of feeler e.g 20% As the considerate thinker wills.

uumm:

Mr Timmy.. greetings to you. I see your doings

All the able brother. I see you oh. I'll put a call through later.

Misogynist2014:
Irony! Me too. When are we resuming?

Are you serious?
We are resuming May, I hope.

dejii01:


You'll get to be exposed to these thing in the university. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying all females are like that, just speaking for the majority.

Preach on preacher! !!!

uumm:

yes ma'am I did pay a visit to Egypt [/s] Moro... and i'm doing fine- thanks to all the feminists, masculinists, and everythingists here.

welcom back

Chiamaka01:


Well, i agree, although, it's based on hearsay.

Maybe to you, but to me it's not based on hearsay. I've seen quite a number of girls in obsession, it becomes a situation where the boy controls her. It can be annoying because most boys take advantage of this, and the funny thing is when people ask her to stop, she says she can't control the obsession. I have witnessed a lot

Misogynist2014:
Thinker, with a little mix of that of feeler e.g 20% As the considerate thinker wills.

That means, i should be the one making decisions or at least 80% input, right? The thinking or feeling function isn't gender restrictive. I eagerly await your reply.

Chiamaka01:


Cheap blackmail, and yes, i don't mind as far as i did what was right and expedient. So, you'd better behave, we edo women love whipping men back into shape.

Your idea of right and expedient is quite soul lifting

Will you marry me?

dejii01:


Maybe to you, but to me it's not based on hearsay. I've seen quite a number of girls in obsession, it becomes a situation where the boy controls her. It can be annoying because most boys take advantage of this, and the funny thing is when people ask her to stop, she says she can't control the obsession. I have witnessed a lot

Speak the words preacher!!!! Speak it!! Whoooo!!!!

dejii01:


Maybe to you, but to me it's not based on hearsay. I've seen quite a number of girls in obsession, it becomes a situation where the boy controls her. It can be annoying because most boys take advantage of this, and the funny thing is when people ask her to stop, she says she can't control the obsession. I have witnessed a lot

What do you want me to say now? It's your turn to cook, jor.

Misogynist2014:
Thinker, with a little mix of that of feeler e.g 20% As the considerate thinker wills.

in my opinion, the "thinker or feeler" or "thinker and feeler" ideas don't do it quite well.
I think it would be best if one had so much control as to switch between both modes when and if necessary.. there are moments that call for 100% feeler and some otherwise. Now how would a 20% feeler handle such situations?

Timmytimmy:


Your idea of right and expedient is quite soul lifting

Will you marry me?

I'll not marry a choirmaster who'll be eyeing every Tomi, Kike and Harriett.

Timmytimmy:


Are you serious?
We are resuming May, I hope.

Course?