RedBenson:


But your time is fast ticking unlike mine/men who can still do that at the due time. You can combine marriage and career together...no biggy. And me, some yrs are still left b4 i clock 30 (not like that makes me not due for marriage).

Yes i can but everybody with their plans. Clock ticking is the least of my worries. Its my preference.

So you would marry a liability? can you respect your wife being a liability? can you carry all the responsibilities without the help of your wife?

Sophyrocks:


Yes i can but everybody with their plans. Clock ticking is the least of my worries. Its my preference.

So you would marry a liability? can you respect your wife being a liability? can you carry all the responsibilities without the help of your wife?

Women liability has been in existence since when the earth was formed and it conitnues till date, though i am not advocating for more of it esp. in today's world. But then, no matter how these women (including yourself) claim to be hard working, do they really see thier money? So what is the need of thier claiming being hard workers?

However, if i am bouyant enough financially, i would prefer my wife stay a non-worker or into a private biz that will give her the needed time to do things well at home.

RedBenson:


Women liability has been in existence since when the earth was formed and it conitnues till date, though i am not advocating for more of it esp. in today's world. But then, no matter how these women (including yourself) claim to be hard working, do they really see thier money? So what is the need of thier claiming being hard workers?

However, if i am bouyant enough financially, i would prefer my wife stay a non-worker or into a private biz that will give her the needed time to do things well at home.

I see.

Sophyrocks:


I see.

So have you had a serious relationship on ground already? May be tonight is our night.

RedBenson:


So have you had a serious relationship on ground already? May be tonight is our night.

Hahaha@ the bolded. Yes i do.

Chiamaka01:


Is that a curse? Whatever you implied is your female relatives' portion.

he wishes you no evil. at times you ladies do point finger forgetting that the other three is pointing back at you. ...

sandijey:
Men dey. Husband's no dey.......

nope. he's sitting right next to you. ...

lol a mod is having fun tonight, I remember this making the homepage a while back..

Make una no worry, when I fall in naija na single file, I'll do my part by marrying five.
Every woman must provide a bottle of burantashi before I begin 'work' because servicing five women no be yam

If we don't take drastic steps like these to help our women, who go do am?

gneisss:
ladies wen in their youth com up with hilarious standards wen age catches up with dem the start getting desperate and by that time we men set up our own standards too...

They're looking for a captain save an ashewo (csa). After ignoring the good hard working men for the 419 boys with "swag", they're now looking for a good man to settle down with. Let them suffer it's hilarious.

Keep playing hard to get until all your friends get married every saturday......time no dey ooo....hasten up

Sophyrocks:


You are right about the expectations from females but if una dey encourage them to start from scratch with you by you remaining faithful and sticking to your girl/wife when the going gets good, e for better. Many discouraging stories like this dey. How many of una dey do am? Una no dey encourage them.

Anyways, both males and females need to iwork on themselves.

No trust oh. Women sights high...no be every lady go get ready-made husband. Or a husband. Encourage yourself and be real. Know when to run, when to walk away and when to cut ur belt.

ferdimako:

No trust oh. Women sights high...no be every lady go get ready-made husband. Or husband. Encourage yourself and be real. Know when to run, when to walk away and when to cut ur belt.

Lol.

Sophyrocks:


Hahaha@ the bolded. Yes i do.

wetin una dey wait for? plug and play oh jare.

The woman at 37 should stop insulting herself. Which young man in their right mind would purpose to a 37 year old.

Chiamaka01:
That lady who said, "what is happiness without a man in a woman's life?" deserves to have a millstone around her neck and be thrown into sea. Like, what the... ?

Itz eithr ur'e gay... Or sooo brokenhearted u cnt luv a stone

Aftr watchin dt video... I fear gurlz nw biko.

Chiamaka01:
That lady who said, "what is happiness without a man in a woman's life?" deserves to have a millstone around her neck and be thrown into sea. Like, what the... ?

She is right... You may achieve all you want in this life.. But you need a man...

Women were made to be dependent on men.. No matter your status..

We black people with our mind set. No one want to be a nun again. That Era of girls wanting to be a Sister is gone.

Anaskie:
Sorry for taking up the space sir. I don't even think before I type.

All thanks to dis new feature introduced by Seun.

Space booking has now been officially legalised.

what new features bro? pls enlighten me

pxjosh:
Please i'm available

...no man will like to marry problem because that's what the single ladies end up becoming when they are married to.

Chiamaka01:
That lady who said, "what is happiness without a man in a woman's life?" deserves to have a millstone around her neck and be thrown into sea. Like, what the... ?

I guess you are either 18 or below or you are a lesbian/Okpo!!

Rexphobia:
The government is responsible

LoL!! Na so cos in 9ja every na gov't!!

Odikwa very risky oo!!!
I will marry the first girl that likes ma comment***justsaying***

Sophyrocks:


Well news flash, some of una no dey serious. Una go date person for good how many years, leave am for another person wey na just meet how many weeks. If men dey serious, ready to marry and not spend all their youth sleeping around till thy kingdom come, you no go see ladies dey jump up and down with married men. Una no dey focused. As young ladies between 18-20 something dey spend their youthful years jumping around, na so una wey be men around

that age dey do too. abi you think say guys
between 18-20 something dey reason marriage? NO. Una no serious so ladies no go dey serious. Na until when una reach 40 before una go remember marriage. you cant blame the ladies. Only very few relationships lead to marriage.

The signs of unseriousness are always so glaring if a guy doesn't intend to marry a girl he is dating. Why can't you ladies read the handwriting on the wall and quit the relationship before it's too late? No! You would rather stick to that unserious guy for all the wrong reasons, only to get dumped at the end.
Let me narrate a personal experience to you..during my undergrad days, there is this girl I loved so much that if only she was a little serious with me, nothing on earth would have stopped me from marrying her. But no, she was busy following the 'swaggalicious' but unserious campus guys and never wanted anything with a bookworm. To make matters worse, she dated and slept with a guy who happened to be somehow close to me on campus. The guy was in 200 level then and much younger than the girl, while we were in our finals. Now tell me, was she thinking of getting married to the guy when she
opened her legs for him?
Fast forward to this year, the same girl has started calling and giving me all the attention she she couldn't when I was 'dying' for her. But it's too late because I can only relate with her now as just a friend, having slept with that guy.
So you see, when you talk about girls getting dumped after being in a relationship with a guy for long, don't put the blame on the guy alone.

englishmart:
men are not scarce. At my age, I have about 6girlfriends +10crushes and many crushees!

But I have about 8 more years before I start thinking about getting married

.You are still a boy .A man don't need 6girlfriends.

Chiamaka01:
That lady who said, "what is happiness without a man in a woman's life?" deserves to have a millstone around her neck and be thrown into sea. Like, what the... ?

d ladi is rite,or we u do witout a spouse,,,,,,,,

Chiamaka01:
That lady who said, "what is happiness without a man in a woman's life?" deserves to have a millstone around her neck and be thrown into sea. Like, what the... ?

Be wise girl, because being an old maid is an emotional burden. A word is enuf 4 d wise

firstEVA:
keep talking, keep deceiving yourself mtschewwww

and what's your business with the way I've chosen to live my life?

Men luv clean puzzy....n we can't do wtout puzzy,same goes to u bitchez. (¬_¬) Make sure you keep it xtra clean.... Extreme hot weather can damage ur puzzy.... Combine it wt goot character （⌒▽⌒） my 10cent ajvice ⊙︿⊙

Chiamaka01:
That lady who said, "what is happiness without a man in a woman's life?" deserves to have a millstone around her neck and be thrown into sea. Like, what the... ?

Something is missing in yo life (╯︵╰,) i think I might help.... U need morning, afternoon & night servic....( ˘ ³˘)♥ then u wud realize the importamkpa of a man in ur life.... Unless u r lezito... (⊙_☉)

Chiamaka01:


Is that a curse? Whatever you implied is your female relatives' portion.

kai truth bitter die