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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by holluwai(m): 11:03am On Dec 06, 2014
You better join those scientists because you certainly need to determine what drug is good for your deteriorating brain cool


Stelvin101:


Scientists are trying to figure out how long human can live without a brain. You can tell them your age. See the nonsense coming outta ur dirty mouth angry
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Atk1nson(m): 11:05am On Dec 06, 2014
tjskii:
hahaha ha. my dear go and load up on energy drinks and lubricants..I m sure the guy is on smthng dts y he has dis kind of energy. ...u must av realy hurt him for him to plan dis kind of revenge for u...my advise step up to d plate...anystyle he wants give it to him..when he realizes dt his form of revenge isnt working..hel calm down...dont listen to those saying leave him ooo... grin
in other words she should beat him at his own game grin . One ladies meat is another ladies poison

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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by 100Cents: 11:05am On Dec 06, 2014
iamchiddy:


he married you for sex. endure it like person wey enter one chance, after the ordeal they will throw you out. the man married you for the wrong reason. he wants to get as much returns from his investment as quickly as possible.

In my own case, my wife was the one pursuing me around the room for sex.

Picture of you running or idonbilivit... !

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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 11:07am On Dec 06, 2014
holluwai:
You better join those scientists because you certainly need to determine what drug is good for your deteriorating brain cool



Lolz. Senseless idi0t.

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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by noah24(m): 11:07am On Dec 06, 2014
Wen una dey chop d guy money u nor share d experince...my dear,na ur guy nd ur dick enjoy am...meantime,igwe must hear dis!
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by SAMBARRY: 11:10am On Dec 06, 2014
holluwai:
She should continue begging then. Leaving him isn't the best thing she can do, like someone said she should step up her game and give him however he wants it, she should watch more porn.o, learn more styles and fu.c.k the living day out of him, that way she can satisfy him because they're so many ladies out there that wants it exactly the way he's giving it to her. Period! wink she should live her whole life begging him and being treated like an animal in a marriage ok o


op they say you should sit down there and continue begging till they turn you to half normal half abnormal human being




even God that we offend bon a daily basis forgives our sin so I don't understand how a human being will eternally be begging a human being.




Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Janet101(f): 11:14am On Dec 06, 2014
Sorry dear, just try to cope n understand ur man since u made d first mistake, I think u will have to bear it n pray to God, pls don't report him to ur pastor or friends
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Abee79(m): 11:16am On Dec 06, 2014
Op, I look like small pikin abi?

Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by bugativeron: 11:16am On Dec 06, 2014
SAMBARRY! SAMBARRY! SAMBARRY! How many times did I call you. The way you are going about this ordinary f**king that you and some girls here are calling rape will make this girl lose her husband ooo. You OP self you better go home and talk with your husband and stop calling ordinary s*x rape. Learn from oga jona.
if ur hussy face outside you wont like it ooo. Then you will be the one begging him he will tell you to take away your simba bicycle saying he has seen raleigh bicycle outside.

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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by SAMBARRY: 11:17am On Dec 06, 2014
In summary I pity the woman that unfortunately ends up in your house and the wives of other sociopaths on this thread. Men like you make women's lives worse than it was before they met you. I don't envy your philosophy towards life one bit.




To all the wives of cowards and sociopathic men the Lord is your strength. You have 2 optioms continue being a sex slave and let him trample on you any how he likes as others have advised in the name of he dominating you or run for your dear life like cococandy has advised the choice is yours. No one can make it for you
Pyrrho:
I am a good judge of character. And you will be always wrong.
People like you don't change, you hold on to what others have said than what your senses can tell. You believe every bit of testimony. You think life would be perfect only if you believe and act on doctrines. Unfortunately, people are real, doctrines aren't alive. You decide to live your lies. Its your choice, and that is the only way you knw how to get by.

Story summarized. I pity you.
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by kado(m): 11:19am On Dec 06, 2014
when you lied to him and made him believe that you are a virgin for 2years.......pele. For better for worse till death put u 2apart
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 11:22am On Dec 06, 2014
blesie:
I just wish to share my honeymoon bitter and sweet experience for you and also get inspiration.



I said not this, he said ok, seems you are not ready to comply, he came for me and i bit him, fought him, he allowed me beat him after i finish beating him, he raped me and its really hurting me like i want to die.

Now everyday he made me suck him, all the bad things one could dream of is what he likes, if he ask me to do something and i refuse he wont beat me, instead he will come for me and rape me.

I am so tired, i don't know why one man will want to have sex up to countles times in a day, i was just wondering.

UNTILL HE CAME TO REVEAL TO ME TODAY THAT HE IS PUNISHING ME FOR WHAT I DID TO HIM OVER THE YEARS.

He finds joy in doing it and im so pained, is he going to change, should i report him to our pastor or my parent?


Tho. d guy dey ova do am BT u ladies too shud learn from dis cos only a wise lady shud no she is supos to respect a guy nd not abuse him cos he is casing u..... nd honestly if ur hubby ask u to Su*k him in ur marriage I don't see it as bad cos he is legally married to you and afterall u ladies do it to ur bf ...... u don't form for dos guys with tiny trouser... Na ur hubby u go cum dey form for Abeg learn to satisfy ur hubhy nd not bf oooo........ u just av to learn to understand nd satisfy his s3xual nids ......... don't b self centre'd by looking for ur own satisfaction only cos he needs to b satisfied too.... shikena
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Timijo(m): 11:22am On Dec 06, 2014
So u have the gut to report me to nairalanders? We go jam for house.
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by bugativeron: 11:23am On Dec 06, 2014
Moderator pls some people on this particular post have very annoying habit of quoting the op anytime they want to comment. Pls start removing their post I beg you.

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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by deleib(m): 11:28am On Dec 06, 2014
My candid advice is that you should go to a counsellor and tell him about your plight and the psychological effect this has had on you. I believe he'll call him and sit d 2 of u down and counsel you. Also, u shd pray ernestly to God for him to change his mind. With this, i think sth gud wil cme out!

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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Dreyl(m): 11:29am On Dec 06, 2014
SAMBARRY:
shocked

may God not give me relations like you that have no atom of human compassion. Seriously I have never heard and seen men like this and till I diebi pray we don't even jam neither will my daughter shocked



if that woman endure that dungeon she calls marriage for more than one year she will soon run mad.kilode even if she was unpleasant before marriage is there not anything called forgiveness. If God didn't forgive us we all don't deserve to see tomorrow but his forgiveness andlove has kept us how much mmore human beings
abeg leave matter for mathias.
in actuallity i can't see any fault from the man,the lady deprived him from sex and other things which he obliged for couple of years, and she was also nagging around with high shoulder controling the guy like a remote control,she didn't know that now it's payback time she's moaning in high magnitude,looking for help.abeg op obey your husband and do whatever he says,give him all the positions he wants,as far you are genuinely married to him,when the sex you deprived him from fades he won't ask for it often like he use to.
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by 100Cents: 11:30am On Dec 06, 2014
oluikotun:
When you and your colleagues were enjoying the lunch, dinner and going to cinema on his expense, you were enjoying it. Now you are suffering alone, you better start enjoying that one too.
He abide by your rules so you better do the same.
Anyway, I will advise you to talk to a marriage counsellor. Your husband is only teaching how to make love in a hard way. He should be gentle with you sha.

Using this very words as the bolded, a girl described to me how difficult it was for her boyfriend to get her.

At the same time telling me she loves me, I asked her, " how wicked can you be " ?

So you want to dump the guy for me after all you put him through ?
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Ologunjude(m): 11:30am On Dec 06, 2014
Has he ever beating you? If he hasn't. There is a chance he will come back to his senses. Let him know sex is supposed to be enjoyed by two people. He should go gently with you so can enjoy it too. Make him suck you too. Have a phone chat with him if u can't sit to discuss. You can also threating him that you will report him to the pastor or his parent. He will stop.
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by simdam500(m): 11:30am On Dec 06, 2014
he's hurt...


reading the first two paragraphs I think he must have faced some humiliation.

reading all through...
I see it a pay back time. which means he's doing everything he's doing intentionally.

so I suggest u sit him down whenever u see he's not presently in the mood (cos konji sef get brain, no be every minute e dey catch person) talk to him and beg him for what whatever pain you might have caused him during your courtship period...........











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but if he doesn't change, please don't hesitate to tell whoever is the eldest around. before he damage your womb
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Haderayo(f): 11:30am On Dec 06, 2014
blesie:
I just wish to share my honeymoon bitter and sweet experience for you and also get inspiration.

A little Intro to how it all started: So i met this guy during the course of work in my former office and he started chasing me, my colleagues then ask me not to agree that he looks like a player. He looks like one that never get a No for an answer, so me and my colleagues use him to have a good lunch, dinner or whenever we just feel like going to that cinema, he won't ever dissapoint, he'll take us there, a year after i left the company but he kept on chasing, so one day i was passing through some difficult times in my career, i felt like resigning but he came to me and advise me wisely, he told me how to tackle the challenges and when i did, it works perfectly so i started liking him, so i called him that we can date if only he will adhere to my conditions, he asked me to list the conditions and i did as stated below:
1) No Sex
2) No romance
3) No Kissing
Infact no touches.

He agreed with so much pains in his eyes, but after 6 months of dating, we begin to hug anyway and light kisses.

But through out the relationship, i was always walking with shoulders held very high up there, thinking that shebi he's the one begging me, i will scream and always want things done my way.

For a year, i misbehave alot but after i begin to be the girl he would want me to be, i wasnt really shouting or screaming anymore but i was still so full of pride, but i started loving him very well.

On the first week of August he proposed, and we got married over 2 weeks ago, the wedding went well everyone was happy but after all the happiness, dancing, eating and greetings by friends and family, i found out later i was left with him in the car and the driver.

We went into the hotel room that evening and he started answering calls, so i use that opportunity to rush to the bathroom and took my bath, after i finish bathing, lying down on the bed and thinking of how sex will look like, he tapped my leg and said i should come and bath him, i was like, bath you? how na, he said i should not waste his time, i wanted to say something again and he opened his eyes, the way he has not opened it before so i was scared, i jump off bed to the bathroom and started pouring water on him, he ask if i was in my right senses in a very fierce way, i shake my head saying yes, he said he doesnt think so that if i was i will be unclad by now, so i told him i wasnt going to bath him anymore, i left, went to the bed and lie, he completed the bath and came to meet me in the room.

He held me and said, yes i married you, he didnt say anything again he just stared at me, then dragged me closer and started kissing me, then he said i should UnCloth him, what was surprising to me though was that his stuff was now 300% bigger than what i saw while i try to bath him, i thought maybe he had used something on it so i started to shift back, he pulled me back and i never knew how powerful he was until that evening, cos his hands just seem to be pulling me like im an ant, at that point i tried to fight him but he practically raped me, i screamed and shouted my life out but it seems he is enjoying the shout so i started to remain calm and then he said hold me, hold me very tight and i remember my mom telling me, do whatever he says to make him happy, so i grabbed him with two hands very tight to my body and as i did, i also started enjoying the sex so i started calling him baby.

After the first round, it was like i had an accident, i was so tired i couldnt stand up, i couldnt even hold a paper i was breathing fast, it felt like i will die, i ask him to get me lucozade or something to regain my energy, he gave me drink and i just wanted to sleep off, he came waking me up and wanted to start another thing, i screamed at him and he said look at me very well, you see all that up shoulder you use to display while we were dating? you've got to drop it at the wedding reception because if you take it to the wedding, you will just be crying, do you know how many years you make me impotent, should i analyse the insult you gave me and all of that, now respect yourself, stand up and do the needful.

Fear crib me like i have made a mistake, i cried and ran down to the bed to UnCloth he said no way, now i want it standing, i tried to imagine how somebody will stand to have sex but before i could finish thinking, he's dragged me out of bed and there it goes, painful and annoying i was just crying.

After he finished that, i went on my knee to beg him for forgivenness for all the shout and scream i use to shout at him that i was ready to make a new turn, he said fine, that the new turn will mean that i will now respect and do everything he wants me to, i said yes i will do.

Then he said, come on suck this, you won't imagine what he ask me to suck cry, how in the world can a husband be so wicked cry cry

I said not this, he said ok, seems you are not ready to comply, he came for me and i bit him, fought him, he allowed me beat him after i finish beating him, he raped me and its really hurting me like i want to die.

Now everyday he made me suck him, all the bad things one could dream of is what he likes, if he ask me to do something and i refuse he wont beat me, instead he will come for me and rape me.

I am so tired, i don't know why one man will want to have sex up to countles times in a day, i was just wondering.

UNTILL HE CAME TO REVEAL TO ME TODAY THAT HE IS PUNISHING ME FOR WHAT I DID TO HIM OVER THE YEARS.

He finds joy in doing it and im so pained, is he going to change, should i report him to our pastor or my parent?

Calm him down and ask for forgiveness... Ask him as many times as possible
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 11:31am On Dec 06, 2014
ROZZAYY:

Lolz I don't nid rape service o, btw d lady is a novice sha, gimme dat man for 1 week I go teach am lesson, na em go kneel instead.

eewooooooh ...... Neva knew we had some female s*x pro on NL ....... More Oil to your ...?....
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Ologunjude(m): 11:31am On Dec 06, 2014
Has he ever beating you? If he hasn't. There is a chance he will come back to his senses. Let him know sex is supposed to be enjoyed by two people. He should go gently with you so can enjoy it too. Make him suck you too. Have a phone chat with him if you can't sit to discuss. You can also threaten him that you will report him to the pastor or his parent. He will stop.
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by annie93(f): 11:33am On Dec 06, 2014
My dear be the one to attack him first,like when u come bck 4rm work and he is acting up again ..omo start to kiss am like say na u want am pass...like pull of his clothes in a rush..and all dat..

When he want to have his bath in the evening..go to da bath room..bath him..and den suck him ur self with out him telling u,do dis like twice or even more..my dear I tell u he will stop wat ever he is tryna do to u..trust me

Buh if u keep on shouting and begging omo you are on your own oooooooo
Na slavery be dat ooooo,she who has ears let her hear..

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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by M4gunners: 11:34am On Dec 06, 2014
OrangeDream:
An entirely stewpid, pointless and meaningless contribution ever
Ah stop fooling urself bro. Nothing 4 u oh .Woman Rapper.
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Ayoakinkahunsi(m): 11:37am On Dec 06, 2014
Hope he would not see this cos most of the response are enough to multiply the said punishment
But sincerely I see no correlation between your story and the way it was expressed ,you talked as if it was fabricated
I pray for God quick deliverance
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by KingTom(m): 11:41am On Dec 06, 2014
ROZZAYY:

Lols. Honestly I wish d hubby will come here I for like know am. Jes to ask him some q oo make una no thimk anoda thin.
Hmmmmmm lipsrsealed
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by SAMBARRY: 11:41am On Dec 06, 2014
bugativeron:
SAMBARRY! SAMBARRY! SAMBARRY! How many times did I call you. The way you are going about this ordinary f**king that you and some girls here are calling rape will make this girl lose her husband ooo. You OP self yiy better go home and talk witg your husband and stop calling ordinary s*x rape. Learn from oga jona.
is that one husband. If that is what marriage is then I reject it for my children.


Titilayo the sacrificial scapegoat is there to learn from. Because she wanted to save a dead marriage she lost her life. I don't know what that is but that's not marriage o.its better she loses the socio path than her life . Thank you
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by noblelucky(m): 11:53am On Dec 06, 2014
He is now a beast abi when ur eating his moni and making a fool of him did he call pastor my friend just go and beg him and love him d more and stop acting as if u will die.bad girls no sex hahahahhahahahah take d does now
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by bugativeron: 11:58am On Dec 06, 2014
SAMBARRY:
is that one husband. If that is what marriage is then I reject it for my children.


Titilayo the sacrificial scapegoat is there to learn from. Because she wanted to save a dead marriage she lost her life. I don't know what that is but that's not marriage o.its better she loses the socio path than her life . Thank you
this case is different from Titilayo. The op has not even come to terms with reality about sex in marriage. But op be truthful, has he ever beaten you before, if has done that then your case is pathetic and serious then you better run for your dear life. But if not then all he has done is fare in love and sex in marriage. He just needs some twicking here and there. For me I think communication and stereotype about how things should be is the prob with your marriage. You are better of resolving it now before it fester like infested sore and gangrene

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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Equado(m): 12:03pm On Dec 06, 2014
Get a phucking divorce!!!
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by ROZZAYY(f): 12:05pm On Dec 06, 2014
demisig:


eewooooooh ...... Neva knew we had some female s*x pro on NL ....... More Oil to your ...?....
Lekwe num anya, I didn't mean dat o, I meant I will do some oda stuff to punish him. Haba, nlanders wan koba me
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Bensonking: 12:07pm On Dec 06, 2014

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