RedBenson:


Is that all you could say?

AshantiDimaria:
;DThat's d best punishment he sees to give u after all he is ur housband forever so no need of reporting him to any one.

SAMBARRY:
I know the answer. It's because you are a macho sadist.you feel good in other people's pain.as in other people's pain makes you feel more of a man probably because your family didn't make you feel like one

2scorehigh:
Ha ha ha...

I know this is not funny but the question now is, how can I make myself to stop laughing after reading this?

Baby sorry o, you hear? It's just a honeymoon process, okay?

One of you will soon get tired of it.

Put it in prayer, okay? I'm sorry I don't have any other practical advice for you.

Ha ha ha...

Oh wait, if it would help, you can read Fifty Shades of Grey to get yourself ready because from what I can see now, it will surely get worse before it gets better...

Fifty shades is even vanilla and lovey dovey.. She should go and read "Natural Law" by Joey W Hill.. That will be an eye opener for what is yet to come if the man is really a sadist cause the kinda toys he will use on her body eh.. She might go into coma during their sexx role play .. I think she should submit for nw and try having a heart to heart talk with him.

Beey:
[color=#770077][/color]Iam so sorry to hear about your ordeal. Here is what I have to say.;It sounds like your husband has a problem of sex addiction. Sex addiction is a symptom of an underlying personal disorder. Addicts use sex as a tool to medicate their pain.They use sex to numb their feelings. Like an alcoholic unable to stop drinking, they may not stop without professional help. A sex addict tries tosatisfy inner needs such as love & acceptance by controlling the partner through sex. You must know that just wishing for him to snap out of his bad behavior,doesn't mean it will happen.I don't think divorce is the answer until you've turned every stone.What then should you do? 1.You must recognize the pattern & put a stop to it. Refuse to take part in it.Every time you comply with his demands,it gives him a license to continue in those things. 2.
Prepare your mind for a nasty & ugly battle. 3.Collect all the evidence.If he has this behavior, he probably watches porn or might have extra-marital affairs.Evidence could be call logs,receipts,porn DVDs,Use of drugs, etc.When you've gathered evidence, then it's time for confrontation. 4. If he admits & is remorseful,be supportive & seek professional help. 5.Respect yourself enough to set boundaries with his behavior that feels disrespectful.You could sign a contract,stating what is acceptable & unacceptable as well as consequences. Both of you should sign & each should have a copy.After defining boundaries, then if they are broken, you must be strong enough yo follow through with consequences It's the only way he'll know that you are not playing games.But you must walk away from fear. 6.If he refuses to admit & doesn't show remorse, tell him " it's either me or the addiction". You also need to confide in a professional such as marriage counsellor or a social worker.Most hospitals have social workers on sight. You have to know that change begins with you. As long as you continue to curl up in fear & allow him to violate you,it will continue.Another reason why you must let someone know is incase things move to physical & your life is at risk.By the way if it gets to that point you should run for your life. 7 .Read about emotional abuse & dealing with a sex-addicted spouse.Education is power.Not only will it empower you, but it will give you coping mechanisms & teach you a lot of lessons that you'll need to walk this journey. 8.Prayer changes things. If You are a person of faith,don't forget to pray. WISH YOU STRENGTH!

baralatie:

point of correction.the guy in the write up is not even close to been a sex addict.
in simple terms,imagine dancing to Mozart and dancing to traditional Igbo music.the two operate on different frequencies and rules.so is love and intimacy.both couples are self centered personalities

Beey:
But why does the description seem to point to that direction?He does have the traits of a sex addict.

baralatie:

what description or traits do you think points in that direction.

.the owner of this write up stated no sex,no kissing as a mean of relationship for two years.howcsex addicts ever stick to such policy.lai lai!!!!they would rather become born again to Jesus Christ than stoop so vague!
now study the very words the writer used.the description is about what happened and not an overview of a habit
1,she took her bath,laid on the bed in expectation.man comes in tells her no playing and went locomotive.no affection only rough intimacy to the point of exhaustion.
it clearly shows that the two do not have some form of connection only association.sex addiction is not involved in this write up only two individuals with differences.

kelvinmuffins3:
Punish him by getting another dick..



Wasted kitty-cat ain't allowed in the game.

iceberylin:

ŋo bę şmāll ţђįŋg ooo...
yoų dђ māķę yoųŗ moŋęy..

faithugo64:
Op why do i feel like this story is not true?

Well incase you are telling the truth.please and please you have to report him to your parents and pastor,this is abuse oo,that guy is a beast!

You still have a long way to go in this marriage,starting your marriage this way spells doom!

he is bent on making your life miserable and digging a very wide well down there,if you understand what i mean

Beey:
One of the charecteristics of sex addicts is multiple affairs or/and could be serial masturbators.He uses sex as a tool to take back control or numb his personal isssues She talks of being forced to have sex multiple times & doesn't pay attention to her pain or fatigue.He also has no remorse after.These & more are some of the traits of a sex addict but since he probably had another way of having his sex needs met before he married her,she had no way of knowing that he has the problem.

blesie:
I just wish to share my honeymoon bitter and sweet experience for you and also get inspiration.

A little Intro to how it all started: So i met this guy during the course of work in my former office and he started chasing me, my colleagues then ask me not to agree that he looks like a player. He looks like one that never get a No for an answer, so me and my colleagues use him to have a good lunch, dinner or whenever we just feel like going to that cinema, he won't ever dissapoint, he'll take us there, a year after i left the company but he kept on chasing, so one day i was passing through some difficult times in my career, i felt like resigning but he came to me and advise me wisely, he told me how to tackle the challenges and when i did, it works perfectly so i started liking him, so i called him that we can date if only he will adhere to my conditions, he asked me to list the conditions and i did as stated below:
1) No Sex
2) No romance
3) No Kissing
Infact no touches.

He agreed with so much pains in his eyes, but after 6 months of dating, we begin to hug anyway and light kisses.

But through out the relationship, i was always walking with shoulders held very high up there, thinking that shebi he's the one begging me, i will scream and always want things done my way.

For a year, i misbehave alot but after i begin to be the girl he would want me to be, i wasnt really shouting or screaming anymore but i was still so full of pride, but i started loving him very well.

On the first week of August he proposed, and we got married over 2 weeks ago, the wedding went well everyone was happy but after all the happiness, dancing, eating and greetings by friends and family, i found out later i was left with him in the car and the driver.

We went into the hotel room that evening and he started answering calls, so i use that opportunity to rush to the bathroom and took my bath, after i finish bathing, lying down on the bed and thinking of how sex will look like, he tapped my leg and said i should come and bath him, i was like, bath you? how na, he said i should not waste his time, i wanted to say something again and he opened his eyes, the way he has not opened it before so i was scared, i jump off bed to the bathroom and started pouring water on him, he ask if i was in my right senses in a very fierce way, i shake my head saying yes, he said he doesnt think so that if i was i will be unclad by now, so i told him i wasnt going to bath him anymore, i left, went to the bed and lie, he completed the bath and came to meet me in the room.

He held me and said, yes i married you, he didnt say anything again he just stared at me, then dragged me closer and started kissing me, then he said i should UnCloth him, what was surprising to me though was that his stuff was now 300% bigger than what i saw while i try to bath him, i thought maybe he had used something on it so i started to shift back, he pulled me back and i never knew how powerful he was until that evening, cos his hands just seem to be pulling me like im an ant, at that point i tried to fight him but he practically raped me, i screamed and shouted my life out but it seems he is enjoying the shout so i started to remain calm and then he said hold me, hold me very tight and i remember my mom telling me, do whatever he says to make him happy, so i grabbed him with two hands very tight to my body and as i did, i also started enjoying the sex so i started calling him baby.

After the first round, it was like i had an accident, i was so tired i couldnt stand up, i couldnt even hold a paper i was breathing fast, it felt like i will die, i ask him to get me lucozade or something to regain my energy, he gave me drink and i just wanted to sleep off, he came waking me up and wanted to start another thing, i screamed at him and he said look at me very well, you see all that up shoulder you use to display while we were dating? you've got to drop it at the wedding reception because if you take it to the wedding, you will just be crying, do you know how many years you make me impotent, should i analyse the insult you gave me and all of that, now respect yourself, stand up and do the needful.

Fear crib me like i have made a mistake, i cried and ran down to the bed to UnCloth he said no way, now i want it standing, i tried to imagine how somebody will stand to have sex but before i could finish thinking, he's dragged me out of bed and there it goes, painful and annoying i was just crying.

After he finished that, i went on my knee to beg him for forgivenness for all the shout and scream i use to shout at him that i was ready to make a new turn, he said fine, that the new turn will mean that i will now respect and do everything he wants me to, i said yes i will do.

Then he said, come on suck this, you won't imagine what he ask me to suck , how in the world can a husband be so wicked

I said not this, he said ok, seems you are not ready to comply, he came for me and i bit him, fought him, he allowed me beat him after i finish beating him, he raped me and its really hurting me like i want to die.

Now everyday he made me suck him, all the bad things one could dream of is what he likes, if he ask me to do something and i refuse he wont beat me, instead he will come for me and rape me.

I am so tired, i don't know why one man will want to have sex up to countles times in a day, i was just wondering.

UNTILL HE CAME TO REVEAL TO ME TODAY THAT HE IS PUNISHING ME FOR WHAT I DID TO HIM OVER THE YEARS.

He finds joy in doing it and im so pained, is he going to change, should i report him to our pastor or my parent?

nomabeeee:
kelvin?

blesie:
I just wish to share my honeymoon bitter and sweet experience for you and also get inspiration.

A little Intro to how it all started: So i met this guy during the course of work in my former office and he started chasing me, my colleagues then ask me not to agree that he looks like a player. He looks like one that never get a No for an answer, so me and my colleagues use him to have a good lunch, dinner or whenever we just feel like going to that cinema, he won't ever dissapoint, he'll take us there, a year after i left the company but he kept on chasing, so one day i was passing through some difficult times in my career, i felt like resigning but he came to me and advise me wisely, he told me how to tackle the challenges and when i did, it works perfectly so i started liking him, so i called him that we can date if only he will adhere to my conditions, he asked me to list the conditions and i did as stated below:
1) No Sex
2) No romance
3) No Kissing
Infact no touches.

He agreed with so much pains in his eyes, but after 6 months of dating, we begin to hug anyway and light kisses.

But through out the relationship, i was always walking with shoulders held very high up there, thinking that shebi he's the one begging me, i will scream and always want things done my way.

For a year, i misbehave alot but after i begin to be the girl he would want me to be, i wasnt really shouting or screaming anymore but i was still so full of pride, but i started loving him very well.

On the first week of August he proposed, and we got married over 2 weeks ago, the wedding went well everyone was happy but after all the happiness, dancing, eating and greetings by friends and family, i found out later i was left with him in the car and the driver.

We went into the hotel room that evening and he started answering calls, so i use that opportunity to rush to the bathroom and took my bath, after i finish bathing, lying down on the bed and thinking of how sex will look like, he tapped my leg and said i should come and bath him, i was like, bath you? how na, he said i should not waste his time, i wanted to say something again and he opened his eyes, the way he has not opened it before so i was scared, i jump off bed to the bathroom and started pouring water on him, he ask if i was in my right senses in a very fierce way, i shake my head saying yes, he said he doesnt think so that if i was i will be unclad by now, so i told him i wasnt going to bath him anymore, i left, went to the bed and lie, he completed the bath and came to meet me in the room.

He held me and said, yes i married you, he didnt say anything again he just stared at me, then dragged me closer and started kissing me, then he said i should UnCloth him, what was surprising to me though was that his stuff was now 300% bigger than what i saw while i try to bath him, i thought maybe he had used something on it so i started to shift back, he pulled me back and i never knew how powerful he was until that evening, cos his hands just seem to be pulling me like im an ant, at that point i tried to fight him but he practically raped me, i screamed and shouted my life out but it seems he is enjoying the shout so i started to remain calm and then he said hold me, hold me very tight and i remember my mom telling me, do whatever he says to make him happy, so i grabbed him with two hands very tight to my body and as i did, i also started enjoying the sex so i started calling him baby.

After the first round, it was like i had an accident, i was so tired i couldnt stand up, i couldnt even hold a paper i was breathing fast, it felt like i will die, i ask him to get me lucozade or something to regain my energy, he gave me drink and i just wanted to sleep off, he came waking me up and wanted to start another thing, i screamed at him and he said look at me very well, you see all that up shoulder you use to display while we were dating? you've got to drop it at the wedding reception because if you take it to the wedding, you will just be crying, do you know how many years you make me impotent, should i analyse the insult you gave me and all of that, now respect yourself, stand up and do the needful.

Fear crib me like i have made a mistake, i cried and ran down to the bed to UnCloth he said no way, now i want it standing, i tried to imagine how somebody will stand to have sex but before i could finish thinking, he's dragged me out of bed and there it goes, painful and annoying i was just crying.

After he finished that, i went on my knee to beg him for forgivenness for all the shout and scream i use to shout at him that i was ready to make a new turn, he said fine, that the new turn will mean that i will now respect and do everything he wants me to, i said yes i will do.

Then he said, come on suck this, you won't imagine what he ask me to suck , how in the world can a husband be so wicked

I said not this, he said ok, seems you are not ready to comply, he came for me and i bit him, fought him, he allowed me beat him after i finish beating him, he raped me and its really hurting me like i want to die.

Now everyday he made me suck him, all the bad things one could dream of is what he likes, if he ask me to do something and i refuse he wont beat me, instead he will come for me and rape me.

I am so tired, i don't know why one man will want to have sex up to countles times in a day, i was just wondering.

UNTILL HE CAME TO REVEAL TO ME TODAY THAT HE IS PUNISHING ME FOR WHAT I DID TO HIM OVER THE YEARS.

He finds joy in doing it and im so pained, is he going to change, should i report him to our pastor or my parent?