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Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by holatin(m): 6:10pm On Dec 06, 2014
are d parent mad
sorry for d statement
na dem help me born d pikin.
dem wan destroy her sexual libido for life.
circumcise koo psycosam ni

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Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by crackhaus: 6:13pm On Dec 06, 2014
kandiikane:

Yeah, I am happy with the way my vag looks. I was lucky because my cutting wasn't like major. I.e sewing and such. I don't want to go into too much details about what they exactly cut off but yeah, I use to be embarrassed about it but I don't see the point of that anymore.
I asked if it's pretty, not if you like it tongue

But anyhow, you done enough exposition on the subject...thanks for obliging.
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by crackhaus: 6:21pm On Dec 06, 2014
Chillisauce:


Sister babe nko. your one and true love.

Coogar when is the wedding? abeg fast oh, so you will leave the baton to pickabeau and crackhouse. But we still have to get them ready on how to treat a lady.

STubborn children
Mummy, are you willing to teach me how to treat a lady...private tutoring of course?

I hear you like red pant and bra, I can bring that along as payment.

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Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by DesChyko: 6:28pm On Dec 06, 2014
Girls should be spared circumcision but it is alright to circumcise the boys, this some ladies will totally agree with.
Girls should be taught the kitchen job while the boys should be spared the bother, this same ladies will argue against.
Get your ideas sorted out, you cannot have your cake and eat it!
Where's the 'gender equality' banner you wave over your heads, is it now irrelevant?

https://www.nairaland.com/2009241/opinion-boy-child-should-not-primarily
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by MrWhoKnows(m): 6:29pm On Dec 06, 2014
kandiikane
I have a very high sex drive, I can have multiple orga.sms within seconds of eachother but I easily get bruised and sore If care is not taken. Sometimes I get cuts on the scars(no scars per se, but where I have been cut), it gets painful especially when I need to wee. I may be less sensitive than other women but I still achieve every thing else when I put my mind to it. Hope this answers your question. The only pro about it is if done right, makes your vag pretty. I won't recommend it.

You just nailed it
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by Nobody: 6:32pm On Dec 06, 2014
Teebest82:
A friend of mine had a twin baby last week,a boy and a girl,his parents want him to also circumcise the girl twin and he refused,they said it's in their culture to circumcise a girl child,just want to seek your opinion about this because i can't allow that to happen to my girl child,and those that support it,what's its purpose.Also heard some countries don't circumcise their male children,that looks akward to me.What's your opinion about all this.

Well, there is a lot of evidence that male circumcision is good for the health....it prevents pen""e cancer, it also reduces the chances of the newborn getting Urinary tract infection, it may even (with a condom!) reduce men's risk of getting HIV, and it is a good vaccine against a rather nasty condition called phimosis. It also makes it easier to keep the male organ clean.

Female circumcision has no added heath benefit....and is even bad for boudoir activities (because the clitoris is removed, there is lack of enjoyment in the act of making love....as a very important bit of the woman's erogenous architecture is gone.). And then there are the complications that require surgery.....

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Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by Rhozabeth(m): 6:33pm On Dec 06, 2014
Female circumcision is called female genital mutillation! It is absolutely unnecessary for female while the only genuine reason why male is circumcised is for hygiene reasons!
Moreover males chinese don't circumcise their males and their piopulation is exploding!
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by Nobody: 6:33pm On Dec 06, 2014
na wa oo...na puss!e mata una carry for head like gala like this?
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by Nobody: 6:35pm On Dec 06, 2014
Laafuuuuuu
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by lastround(m): 6:46pm On Dec 06, 2014
coogar:


uncircumcised males definitely enjoy sėx more but the verdict is circümcision for boys have health benefits. the hypocritical western society did not even bother to check whether cïrcumcision for girls have health benefits. no organisation wants to have any part of such - cos it must be evil.

where research money is put or which research is done depends solely on cultural values. stallings went to africa in 2005 to do a research to propagate the myth that HIV is more common in circümcised women - the results turned out to be the opposite! to their biggest surprise, they found that circumcised women had half the rate of HIV infections compared to uncircumcised women. grin

the research was quickly swept under the carpet & no further research was made to find other health benefits of FGM. grin CNN & BBC refused to talk about the research cos it's against their cultural values. this is why i tell the rats on this section to grab a book instead of relying on the western media.
You have said all. How many of us are aware that the west do not circumcise their male?
Just like you said, have many organisation has researched on the effects of both male and female uncircumcision?
We have to br careful with what we accept or reject. Have many of us had carried out an independent research to find out the rate of disease between the two groups?
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by Ishilove: 6:49pm On Dec 06, 2014
braintext:
Of what use is circumcision of a female child?
'They' said it is for aesthetic purposes

To curb promiscuity in women

To reduce odour (seriously)





The thought of a clitless punnani fills me with chilling horror... sad cry
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by LordReed(m): 6:50pm On Dec 06, 2014
crackhaus:

Lol @oozing vaginal odour, this will have to do more with personal hygiene.



At the end of the day, there are pros and cons to it but it seems the massive influence of western opinions which preach discrimination against females at the expense of males, has taking a grip on the general attitude towards female circumcision.
I'm having a hard time referring to it as Female Genital Mutilation since it's the same cutting and clipping that goes on in males, yet that one isn't called Male Genital Mutilation.



I'm sure you've seen her response already, straight from the horses' mouth. grin

It is not the same cutting and clipping. Having the clitoris lopped off is the equivalent of chopping off the glans on the male organ. Can he function without it? Certainly but does it provide any reasonable benefit? Doubtful. FGM/Female circumcision may not be harmful but neither is not doing it all with the added benefit of not introducing any complications to the woman. So it boils down to small discomfort (at the very very least) post FGM versus no bother. I know which I'd pick every time.

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Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 6:50pm On Dec 06, 2014
Tell u friend not to agree. Why do tradition want to punish the little gal?
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by Davidson267(m): 7:00pm On Dec 06, 2014
coogar:


if the twin boy is getting circümcised according to his culture then why should the twin girl get any special treatment? the same argument exists for both genders. just as FGM reduces pleasure in women, it does the same to men.

just like baby girls are at risk of getting infected through crude tools, baby boys are at risk too. both genders go through days of pain as well. so don't argue for one gender & neglect the other. we either agree circumcision is bad for all humans or good for all humans.
ar u sure you are from earth planet?

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Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by lilmax(m): 7:04pm On Dec 06, 2014
This thread no just make sense
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by viczing(m): 7:12pm On Dec 06, 2014
braintext:
Of what use is circumcision of a female child?

This is the use below for female and male

Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by Nobody: 7:17pm On Dec 06, 2014
My ex back then in Uni, she was circumcised as well. She is also into some shii (codein, Indian hemp, refnol, thamadol etc), anything highness. I can't pleasure or satisfy except I also take some hard stuffs.

I got tired of the whole stuff, had no other option than to throw in the towel.
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by kandiikane(m): 7:43pm On Dec 06, 2014
crackhaus:

I asked if it's pretty, not if you like it tongue

But anyhow, you done enough exposition on the subject...thanks for obliging.
it is. wink
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by coogar: 7:46pm On Dec 06, 2014
kandiikane:

it is. wink

pictures or we(crackhaus & i) don't believe you. cheesy grin
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by kandiikane(m): 7:48pm On Dec 06, 2014
coogar:


pictures or we(crackhaus & i) don't believe you. cheesy grin
before I click on the mention button, I knew it would be you asking for such. You don't have to believe me. smiley
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by coogar: 7:50pm On Dec 06, 2014
kandiikane:

before I click on the mention button, I knew it would be you asking for such. You don't have to believe me. smiley

it begs the question - why make a claim that other people would find unbelievable? grin
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by kandiikane(m): 7:53pm On Dec 06, 2014
coogar:


it begs the question - why make a claim that other people would find unbelievable? grin
a question was asked and I answered, if someone doesn't believe it, that has nothing to do with me. tongue
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by naijafresh: 7:55pm On Dec 06, 2014
coogar:


if the twin boy is getting circumcised according to his culture then why should the twin girl get any special treatment? the same argument exists for both genders. just as FGM reduces pleasure in women, it does the same to men.

just like baby girls are at risk of getting infected through crude tools, baby boys are at risk too. both genders go through days of pain as well. so don't argue for one gender & neglect the other. we either agree circumcision is bad for all humans or good for all humans.

Sorry but your argument is flawed, and your deductions are dangerous and misleading.
Males and females are anatomically different. Circumcision may be deemed unnecessary and dangerous to both males and females but there are proven benefits to males ie HIV transmission reduction and no proven health benefits to the female though the risks are worse to the female.

In extreme cases, The female is at risk of obstructed labour, vesico-vaginal fistula, pelvic floor problems etc which are long term and dangerous complications that lead to a reduced to a poor quality of life and even death.
Female circumcision is rightly called Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) is unnecessary and dangerous and that is a well documented fact.

http://3.bp..com/_AamFwkF1y-U/TUh0--bLkDI/AAAAAAAAAW8/S3LpmRLq6AM/s1600/548px-FGC_Types.jpg

Not all traditional practices are beneficial and so we use our modern knowledge and values to to assess useful and what is not rather than blindly follow 'tradition'. For example we would not rub cow dung on the umbilical cord in this day and age would we?

NJF

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Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by kandiikane(m): 8:01pm On Dec 06, 2014
Wait this is on front page? Lol, Crackhus, unquote Me.
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by KoloOyinbo(m): 8:03pm On Dec 06, 2014
In Europe male circumcision is relatively rare unless for medical reasons. In the USA it is quite common, probably more than 50%. I dont really know about middle east and asian cultures.

As for the barbaric and savage practice of female genital mutilation which damages the child for life I thank God that in all developed countries is is illegal and considered the worst form of child abuse. Let us educate parents everywhere about this evil practice origination from a desire to control a woman.

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Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by coogar: 8:04pm On Dec 06, 2014
naijafresh:


Sorry but your argument is flawed, and your deductions are dangerous and misleading.
Males and females are anatomically different. Circumcision may be deemed unnecessary and dangerous to both males and females but the risks are worse to the female. The female is at risk of obstructed labour, vesico-vaginal fistula, pelvic floor problems etc which are long term and dangerous complications that lead to a reduced to a poor quality of life and even death. Female circumcision is rightly called Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) is unnecessary and dangerous and that is a well documented fact.

stop misinforming the public....
the risks attached to female circumcision is the same as that of male circumcision. how can you tell that it's worse for the women? if it's worse for the women, does that necessarily make it ok for the men? should both men & women not get protection from archaic traditional practises?

then you spoke about VVF - that only tells me you are a media sheep. VVF is a poverty disease. where there are adequate health care, VVF is non-existent. UK/USA have the worst teenage pregnancy statistics in the world, none of their girls have a single case of VVF.


Not all traditional practices are beneficial and so we use our modern knowledge and values to to assess useful and what is not rather than blindly follow 'tradition'. For example we would not rub cow dung on the umbilical cord in this day and age would we?

NJF

the exegesis of traditional practises isn't the crux of the matter here, what i highlighted is the hypocrisy that protects the girl child & neglects the boy child. if you are going to argue against FGM, you have to argue against MGM as well. after all said & done, you folks would turn around and demand gender equality. where's the equality in your argument?

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Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by ewizard1: 8:20pm On Dec 06, 2014
Uncircumcised Male?

I can disagree for the FGM... But male? No!!!

If to say na that uncircumcised dick I get... I for vex for my parents ooo.

The dick is best being circumcised! Not that thing that looks like a goat's
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by Nobody: 8:20pm On Dec 06, 2014
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by kuuljay(m): 8:20pm On Dec 06, 2014
I once saw a woman after bathing her Lil daughter pour dusting powder in her vagina and started squeezing and massaging the clitoris I asked her why she was doing that and she said continuous procedure kills the cells around there,instead of cutting it off,however you will discover that some women's breast are more sensitive to them than their vulva so what's the use
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by kuuljay(m): 8:24pm On Dec 06, 2014
kuuljay:
I once saw a woman after bathing her Lil daughter pour dusting powder in her vagina and started squeezing and massaging the clitoris I asked her why she was doing that and she said continuous procedure kills the cells around there,instead of cutting it off,however you will discover that some women's breast are more sensitive to them than their vulva so what's the use
no be exactly Wetin I type I dey see so,why the site they edit my post
Re: Curcumcision Of Female Children by Nobody: 8:28pm On Dec 06, 2014
kuuljay:
no be exactly Wetin I type I dey see so,why the site they edit my post
the rubbish you wanted to post

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