mployer:
Take heart madam.

The Lord will see you through.

Take Madam

May the Lord be your strength.
My condolences to you.

Sorry about your loss madam.

May the Great Shepherd comfort you and the entire family he left behind.

May his soul rest in peace. Amen.

Oh dear, may God comfort you and your family in this trying period. He will continue to be your provider, your protector and your guide.


RIP to him

Sorry to hear that. Pls stay strong. May the lord comfort you.

we feel ur pain
may God give you and ur family d fortitude 2 bear d loss

God will comfort you op

My condolences madam. God will give you the fortitude to bear the loss.

I pray the love of God enfolds you during your difficult times and he helps you heal with the passage of time.

chai!!! so painful Gosh. RIP to the departed

My thoughts are with you and your family in this difficult moment. Take heart and be strong.

It's a pity.

May God comfort you and yours in Jesus name. Pele dear

kennyman20:
Take heart ma. May God be with you and your children and also be there for you at all times.


Accept my sympathy ma.

so sorry madam pls accept my sumathy

Ahhhhh. So sorry madam.R.I.P to the dead.

My condolences to you and your family
May he rest in peace

Amen. May God give u guys d fortitude to bear d loss.
Stay strong sis.
All is well.

May his Soul rest in peace. I pray that the Lord will comfort you ma'am.

Okijajuju1:


Barely 72 hours have passed since the Man passed..

I would expect her to still be in shock or grieving heavily. I would expect her to be under constant supervision by relatives and friends. I don't expect her to even think of Facebook or Twitter right now..

To say I am shocked would be an understatement. Unless she isn't a grieving widow.

This is very unlike you

You should know that people deal with tragedys differently
You dont know what this poor lady is going through by suddenly losing her hubby of 8 years . .a loving one for that matter, we all know that these types of husbands are very hard to find these days.
I am sure you have heard of post traumatic syndrome
For years I didnt cry after my dad died cos I was scared that once I started, I would never stop so I bottled it all inside me, until one day it all came out

She has always spoken very highly of her hubby on this forum, so I am sure its like her heart has been ripped out right now.
She probably hasnt taken a bath or eaten in these 3 days
Would you rather she ran nakedd on the street tearing her hair out or she needed to be admitted to hospital and put under serious sedation before you accept that she is grieiving the "normal" way?
Please let the woman be to greive anyway that she wants to. She has 3 young kids to consider.
No one wants to be in her situaton; so please let her be.

Sorry for your loss. What happened? What killed him

Okijajuju1:


Barely 72 hours have passed since the Man passed..

I would expect her to still be in shock or grieving heavily. I would expect her to be under constant supervision by relatives and friends. I don't expect her to even think of Facebook or Twitter right now..

To say I am shocked would be an understatement. Unless she isn't a grieving widow.

Hmmm bro, lets shut up o, before we get tagged more as heartless. What is weird is weird if one wants to call

a spade a spade.

macklef:


Hmmm bro, lets shut up o, before we get tagged more as heartless. What is weird is weird if one wants to call

a spade a spade.

You dont know why she has done it
Maybe her hubby was a NL'er
Maybe this is her tribute to him
Maybe he/she/they have friends on here
You dont know
We dont know
Thats why you shouldnt speculate
This is a sensitive and saddening issue
Its not everything we see that we understand/need to understand.
The bottom line is that she has lost her soulmate & the father of her children.
Are you easing her pain or making it worse by your statements?
bearing in mind you dont know anything about anything regarding this sad situation, you should just please keep quiet. No offence meant.

chaircover:


You dont know why she has done it
Maybe her hubby was a NL'er
Maybe this is her tribute to him
Maybe he/she/they have friends on here
You dont know
We dont know
Thats why you shouldnt speculate
This is a sensitive and saddening issue
Its not everything we see that we understand/need to understand.
The bottom line is that she has lost her soulmate & the father of her children.
Are you easing her pain or making it worse by your statements?
bearing in mind you dont know anything about anything regarding this sad situation, you should just please keep quiet. No offence meant.

Oh, superman. U saw d part were i said i have shut up my mind on the matter na. So, y d epistles.

I have also said i do no wish to judge her for her actions either, i just find it weird, must u

Hold that against me too? Wen u lost ur who u lost. Just wondering why u didnt open a thread for it.
Weve been in here since january alot of marriages thread we have seen, and other kinda threads like that, but this kinda thread am sure its d first, its just against the norm.

Its not asif such news dosnt saden me, but where i wunt seek consolation, here. maybe she does tho strange to me, but im not in her shoes.

Sorry madam for ur loss. Its life, so unfair.

macklef:


Oh, superman. U saw d part were i said i have shut up my mind on the matter na. So, y d epistles.

I have also said i do no wish to judge her for her actions either, i just find it weird, must u

Hold that against me too? Wen u lost ur who u lost. Just wondering why u didnt open a thread for it.
Weve been in here since january alot of marriages thread we have seen, and other kinda threads like that, but this kinda thread am sure its d first, its just against the norm.

Its not asif such news dosnt saden me, but where i wunt seek consolation, here. maybe she does tho strange to me, but im not in her shoes.

Sorry madam for ur loss. Its life, so unfair.

Be quiet.

jennykadry:


Be quiet.

Aiit mam. Gagged.

May he RIP.

So sorry for the loss..may God comfort you....Please just continue to have faith and trust in God...God be with you.Amen.

egopersonified:
Thank you all for your concern, have being reading thru the thread. Will try to reply the private messages soon. Those requesting burial arrangements, its just a small gathering in his hometown on wednesday. Thanks for all the love.

One day at a time
One day at a time
Tomorrow is a mirage
Today is real
One day at a time
One day at a time

Sorry dear.take heart

egopersonified:
Thank you all for your concern, have being reading thru the thread. Will try to reply the private messages soon. Those requesting burial arrangements, its just a small gathering in his hometown on wednesday. Thanks for all the love.

One day at a time
One day at a time
Tomorrow is a mirage
Today is real
One day at a time
One day at a time

I suggest surubawon thread at this time.
Sure u find a little solace there.
Pele dear

Take heart dear.
let the emotions flow. cry if you want to, but in ur cry, dont cry like there is no hope, cos i know there is hope.
You are not the first to lose her husband. my mum did when she was 34. she had 5kids and her last child was still sucking breast. she just had to wean the child. Being a teacher that was paid peanuts and were owed many months salary did not help. Our relatives abandoned us. We ate all manner of food to survive and we were happy.

Somehow, we got closer to God . We prayed every night with songs and hymns and even our neighbours could see that God is with us. We hardly fell sick. we knew there was no money and studied hard to pass every exam. God miraculously supplied all our needs.

My mum's favorite quote became, " I can do ALL things through christ which strenghtens me. " and " our God will supply ALL our needs"

Today, we are better than all those that abandoned us. We have 4 graduates that are all working and the last one is in his final year. We have achieved what most of them dont have hope of acheiving.

Men will come to you for different reasons. Ppl dt are not supposed to talk to you will talk to you. In all , be wise.

If ur husband has greedy relatives, get ready to do ur letter of administration after burial. consult a lawyer.

I wish you the best and will remember you in my prayers.

macklef:

Aiit mam. Gagged.

Lol .. My man run comot here naa abeg.

I use God beg U

I knkw she's going thru a lot at the mo and it might just confuse more about everything



Maybe it's just me but I don't think it's right putting it here online where we have trolls and all



anyway, I wish her late hubby eternal rest and I wish her happiness too,

egopersonified:
Dear nairaland family, I regret to announce the death of my husband on thursday the 4th of Dec, 2014. May his gentle soul find eternal rest. Amen.

Pity dear, i pray the good Lord comfort you because obviously words wont be enough to give u the needed comfort at this time but with the love of Christ you will overcome.

Remain strong.