Ezibless:


I don't think i'd have the mind to do sneak outs sha.

The thing is if she doesn't let me,i'l just endure. Because it's traveling out that they mainly don't approve of.

Ezibless:
Something happened last night that really got me thinking.

I know some parents can be very protective of their children,especially female children, by restricting their movements.
Some would just allow them visit few selected friends and others would be limited to just church,market,school,home,that's all. I kinda fall under the latter sha

It didn't really bother me while growing BECAUSE i felt with time,the level of restriction would reduce.



(did i just say it really didn't bother me I been just dey endure o, as per say i be one obedient child )

we're well brought up o,don't get it twisted.




Fast forward>>>

I graduated from school of midwifery early this year and i've been at home waiting for our MSS service.
Apart from a secondary school female friend which i seldomly visit,it's stil been the usual church,market... Stuff.

I got a call from my fellowship in school that they'd be having the sent forth of probably the last christian set in the school (did i tell you i stay in the north and the school stopped admiting christain students?...well,that's a story for another day).

Back to story...

The remaining christain students are just TWO. And they're two of my three very good friends.
So attending the sent forth is not an option for me because;

1. I am not doing anything at the moment,as in, work.
2. They are my very good friends.
3. I bought them jaw dropping gifts with the last cash on me because i felt they deserved it.
4. I have no other means of delivering it, except i go.
5.
6.
7.
8............100000000000

I don't wanna bore you with the reasons.

I hinted the news of the sent forth to my mom few days back,she didn't say anything and her countenance didn't even change.

I come feel say i get hope say i go go ooo.

Last night around 10:30pm or so,my mom and I were gisting and laughing in my room then i remembered that i haven't gotten a definite answer from her about my journery to school(about 2 and half hours journey). Then this conversation ensued between us...

Me: ehen...mom,i'd be going to school on saturday for the sent forth i told you about.
Mom: No!

(no be even question i ask o,na just statement i make )

me: but y?
Mom: nothing. You're through with school nothing should take you there again!

I opened my mouth to talk,but nothing came out.
That was how our sweet discussion turned sour.
My mouth was agape til she got up and left my room without a word.






A soldier walked pass me that moment and i gave him 3 dirty slaps!!!




#it happened in my mind sha.

That was how vexed i was!


Since then til now i've been thinking of how to convince her to let me go to the extent that all my prayers this morning was centered on it.

I just wonder if she didn't realise that i'm no longer 2year old. I'd be turning 22 in 5 days time for crying out loud!

Don't get me wrong,my mom is very sweet and loving,we're like ''5 and 6''. It just this her ''over protective'' attitude that i don't like.

So guys, how did you handle similar situations like this?
All parents are strict,just that some get degree

Those ladies won't forgive me if i don't come. Plus,i don't wanna return the gift i bought.

And please, at what age should parents stop this movement restriction thing

Puleeaaaseee help!!!!!!!!!!!
;( ;(

jahbiz:
watching carnival from balcony ke? Chai!!! Ano fit laugh. Una dey live for 7 storey building? These parents eehh.

Ezibless:


Thanks!

But prayer ponits needed ASAP

fpeter:



Simple, Lord Jesus You see my heart and You know I am of age
Please speak to the hearts of my parents and compel them to
Cut me some slacks even as I remain faithful to You Lord and the
Good upbringing they have instilled in me, let them see that I will
Not stray from their precepts and help me Lord to remain worthy
Of their trust....Amen!

Ezibless:


Ok. But did you read the part where i said we're well brought up?
Some parent would stil restrict even if their children is the pope

kings11ng:

go without their permission n damn the consequences... once you do it like 2 or 3 more times believe me your parents will stop being overprotective

MICOBIN:
u hav been too obedient! dats very good though! but u gats start disobeying safely. but u might pay a lil price like, ur pocket money will be withheld for a long while but mum will later adjust to ur new ,u. take safe n calculated risks.wen u return home n she sees ur safe, she will begin to trust u ,dat ur mature to handle d wild world. she may scold u but she will cope. if u hav a safe accommodation in sch, then go. but getready for d heat! however! after d heat or rain comes sunshine. be safe. will like to know u.call me on 07034930579

Ezibless:
GMAIL :-Hello freind.i went through your profile and saw your post about needing title for love stories on NL. I just wanna know if you finally got coz i need'em too.
Thanks

JESUSchoice:
Read false pretence by repogal,itz very interesting , its actually d one am stuckd on now...d link;. https://www.nairaland.com/1303810/false-pretenses-1st-position-romance.

Ezibless:


I think that was the 1st book i read when joined NL,two years ago i think.

Ezibless:


I think that was the 1st book i read when joined NL,two years ago i think.

Ezibless:

Ok. But did you read the part where i said we're well brought up? Some parent would stil restrict even if their children is the pope

mutter:
Listen to your mum she wants the best for you and herc instinct tells her when it is good or bad for you.