Idowuogbo:

shattap! You the married one,post your achievements may we see na...Nonsense!

achievement like how

what type ?

Allureoftheseas:
you have no respect for a man's ego. so downgrading. giving your man a cheap shirt from a mere ceremony. you coudlnt even say it was a gift instead you just went agead to break it down to him that it was from a mere ceremony. if you wanted to give him something why didnt you go to a boutique and buy a nice shirt and give that to him? Girls so annoying. that is why i play them like football and score as many goals that i am able to.

I don't blame you I blame thee fools that allow you play them like football. Make your point known to the op and stop insulting ladies. That's probably how they are playing your sister.

sleekman:
Shebi I told u ure d smartest woman in the world. Uve just buttressed my point. Thank you.

Forgive me for attempting to engage you. If you're looking to trade subtle jabs, please find another female.

Enjoy your day.

Idowuogbo:

I having been searching for the root course of your problem ..I just discovered that you visit Joke section a lot and believe all your posts here are jokes right? or you among those who do watch #telemodo ..
sister obviously your mental case has escalated beyond measurable you're sick .
I have been reading your post .all senseless mtchewww I pity who will marry your insanity

Livingwalker:

I having been searching for the root course of your problem ..I just discovered that you visit Joke section a lot and believe all your posts here are jokes right? or you among those who do watch #telemodo ..
sister obviously your mental case has escalated beyond measurable you're sick .
I have been reading your post .all senseless mtchewww I pity who will marry your insanity

brother,you look like someone dealing with yellow fever. Go and treat your malnourished azz! EDI0T!

Idowuogbo:

brother,you are look like someone dealing with yellow fever. Go and treat your malnourished azz! EDI0T!

madam e don do na abeg

HARDDON:




He would deliver boys only n pass on d mantle

lol....God wil gv him grls too

ritababe:
He asked me if i bought the shirt for him and i told him no, that its a gift from marriage ceremony.

The next thing, he took them and walked to waste basket and dispose them there.

I asked him why he did that, but without saying anything, he quietly walked out on me and closed the door.

I don't understand. Is it a sin to give your boyfriend something they gave you in a ceremony?

You should know most guys are egoistic, telling him that 'it's a gift from marriage ceremony' might bruise his ego. You should just have told him 'that's a gift for you'. I do that a lot, I wouldn't lie I bought it, but I wouldn't say it didn't cost me anything either, even if it's a pie and can of coke! BTW you should know ur boyfriend enough to ascertain what and what not to detail to him. I consciously decided I won't feel awkward 'talkless' misbehave in such situations
Bottomline: Your boyfriend too no try at all, he is childish and he aint seeing u as himself yet.

Idowuogbo:

U an id/iot!

ur fada

treasuress:
ur fada

bros na u dey talk like this

ritababe:


bros na u dey talk like this

na one crase girl i be dey reply, nor be u,

sleekman:
women like u eh go dey wonder where d problem 4 their relationship come from. This matter is simple. Op ritababe didn't cook b4 leaving and d guy hungry give am dog g y. Na so she carry packet shirt instead of party rice or even takeaway from an eatery. Lesson 4u all, make sure ur man's not hungry, cos demons with unpredictable actions/reactions dey take over.

I don't see anywhere the op said they're married. If he ws hungry the nigga should have cooked his own food. Wtf!!

That's the problem with all these going to man house to cook. The guy was just obeying the law of 'see finish'. Smh

treasuress:
na one crase girl i be dey reply, nor be u,

i knw but u nor suppose talk like that, e don do sha

ritababe:
He asked me if i bought the shirt for him and i told him no, that its a gift from marriage ceremony.

The next thing, he took them and walked to waste basket and dispose them there.

I asked him why he did that, but without saying anything, he quietly walked out on me and closed the door.

I don't understand. Is it a sin to give your boyfriend something they gave you in a ceremony?

the issue is not the fact that it was from a wedding. My opinion.. He walked out simply because he saw it as demeaning and unexpected... Know your man well enough to predict his reactions to certain things.. Its not a crime to do what you did but it depends on what, then again it depends on how.. My experience, there was this customized diary given as a souvenir my partner had, she asked if I liked it, and then gave it to me, maybe because we take issues like that with levity.. But it meant nothing to me as it changed nothing... My point is, understanding a man enough goes a long way.. He definitely didn't expect you to subject him to that kind of gift... Another reason that may cause that reaction, tho probable is if he foresees a 'marriage inclined' conversation following his acceptance of the gift.. Doubtlessly he's not ready for it!.. Though there's a slim chance that's the cause! If he loves you enough, he'll let you know petty soon!

chimerase2:
bia i hope no be marriage take away rice wit no meat u bring 4 amu eh
oops sorri i tot u said rice i no knw say na cloth

Dry Joke! Failed attempt at humor..

Allureoftheseas:
you have no respect for a man's ego. so downgrading. giving your man a cheap shirt from a mere ceremony. you coudlnt even say it was a gift instead you just went agead to break it down to him that it was from a mere ceremony. if you wanted to give him something why didnt you go to a boutique and buy a nice shirt and give that to him? Girls so annoying. that is why i play them like football and score as many goals that i am able to.

SMH!!! U would hv rather had her lie over some shirt? She got sometin 4rm somwia and d first person that comes 2 her mind is her BF not her bro or some oda nigga nd u call that annoying? Really That guy hates her #simple. Girlfrnd run as fast as u can 4rm that relationship he doesn't deserve u. U're 2 good 4 him.

Finestlex:
Am a guy and i'll give you the best advice, break up with him.. he's still a boy, not matured. we should appreciate gifts no matter how small they are cos it's from the heart.. you sound so decent, you deserve a good man with manners

break up with him and then break down with you. Most people are insensitive when it comes pronouncing judgement on things of relationship, people haven't felt love before ie y it sounds easy in their mouth to shout "break up with him"

thorpido:
Even if it was a handkerchief,he should have kept it and even if he wouldn't use it,he could give it out later.
You dldn't tell him you bought it,you told him it was a gift from a marriage ceremony.
I hope it was a one-off thing,if not,I would have told you to keep him out forever just as he walked out on you.

You are dealing with a guy who has an attitude.

Do You even Have sense?

The full gist I pressume is that the OP has been disturbing her bf of getting settling down for a while and only smear him with that wedding sourvenuir. I would av done the same dear.

holatin:
This is Christmas now.
Any small thing na Quit notice.
No money for christmas

Chai!!

MysticZeus:



Do You even Have sense?

I understand there are kids on this forum.

I pray i never find a guy like u. Why would u resort to beatin biko??!

treasuress:
i go throway the shirt eh God go save her if i nor collect the ipad wey i buy for her and beat her join fr her next life she go run from cheapness

freecocoa:
Lmao .
You funny, I appreciate that .

Oga o madam

ritababe:


i dont think you are from edo because edo guys dont talk like this.

oh, please lecture me how they talk?

freecocoa:
Dump that modafucking kid you are dating, like what rubbish? I'm so peeved I could do the break up on your behalf, seriously who behaves that way?

This hediot doesn't love nor respect you.

yet u have no boyfriend or husband.. 40 is near by..that should be ur prayer point

freecocoa:
Grow the feck up niggah, the food at the eatery, was it made by your wife? Your wife was at a function and you called her to say you were hungry, she even try say make you eat food wey dey house still you no happy, what should she have done? Left the occasion and come breastfeed you or what exactly? May I never end up with men like you, mschew.

ur prayer should focus on ur fading hopes of finding any man before 40... u are very close to that mark..

freecocoa:
Thats where you have it so wrong, marriage is not an achievement and some people's lives don't depend on it, so never tell me to go marry first, I never told you I was looking for a husband and no, the man I will marry won't be a toddler.

ur not looking for a husband....u just cant find one... save ur presumed self promoted hotness for the ops ego... no one else is buying it..... ps u will be clocking 40 soon.... jus sayin

you got a point though.. something else might have prompted his actions.. but no matter what it is, he shouldn't have done that. let's be straight, i don't have that kind of time to boo someone.. Got things to fix.. so go play somewhere else

oracle009:
na wa o chai, OP don suffer I see some DISNEY world advises here nd I wonder aw old d posters are. @OP, i'm sure u r nt tellin d real story... Ladies cn b so insensitive at times to guy's mood or wateva he's goin tru... For ur guy to bhave like dat, i tink der r underlying issues nd nairaland shldnt b ur first point of call (it shows d kinda lady u are). Av u cald d guy nd rily demand (respectingly) to knw y he did dat? He might b 'touching' at d moment... Well, na ur issue. U see those guys here telin u to dump his ass, dey will b d one to boo u wen u r stranded (my 1 Cent)

when you get older, we can talk.. only if you're wiser

Movingcoil:
break up with him and then break down with you. Most people are insensitive when it comes pronouncing judgement on things of relationship, people haven't felt love before ie y it sounds easy in their mouth to shout "break up with him"

we men have our probs when we have dem; sometimes i do some crazy shit to my girlfriend and minutes letar ask myself if it was actually me dat did them: our egos na from here to heaven too; so just apologise weda u r wrong or right and find out the source of his anger ; it will help stop it from happenin again

zika1:
SMH!!! U would hv rather had her lie over some shirt? She got sometin 4rm somwia and d first person that comes 2 her mind is her BF not her bro or some oda nigga nd u call that annoying? Really That guy hates her #simple. Girlfrnd run as fast as u can 4rm that relationship he doesn't deserve u. U're 2 good 4 him.

If your relationship is more filled with hate than love do not advice her, so she can get to where you are

ManTiger:
The full gist I pressume is that the OP has been disturbing her bf of getting settling down for a while and only smear him with that wedding sourvenuir. I would av done the same dear.

Now this some1 who has sense. I have been thinking too, there are many variables involved truly if we don't hear the other part of this story, we may neva really understand. Ladies normally provoke their bf into acting then later that talk as if he just acted like that for no reason.