Disclaimer: This post is a hackneyed one and I respect the fact that we all can't be in consensus ad idem, that's why I have to state -it isn't entirely based on generalisation__ there are definitely some exceptions.

__ The term beauty/attractive in this context, I{We} would be looking @the physical beauty........now, I don't want that "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" saying {hehehe}_____ I am talking of that beauty, that transcends in the eyes of every beholder.

___ Mr Right {as opined by my humble self} is that man who communicates well, gives his lady that reassurance of self-worth and emotionally available.
If we have all assented to this...lets move on

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She gets a lot of advances from "predators": Predators here are those men who are naturally attracted to beautiful ladies for all the wrong reasons in the world. Those kinda men that hunt women like, it's some game. Their ostensible aim is to love her, but their real aim is actually- "hit and run". When she falls prey twice/more, it is only normal that she becomes reticent about her feelings___ thereby shutting the good guy(s) out.

She Friend-zones a lot: The average beautiful girl can friend-zone even her ancestor. She has lots of men who are ever willing to be in that "zone" or hoping for her eyes/heart to open to what they feel for her. She doesn't hesitate to put them there. The truth 'bout FZ{Friend-zone} is, if one person is harbouring romantic thoughts, sooner or later......the relationship would reach that climax where it either metarmophose(s) into a "real relationship" or dissolve.
Ladies please stop calling your future husband "just a friend"___lolz.

Men see her as outta their League: The less attractive a guy is - the less likely the chances of him approaching a very attractive woman.
How many guys are attractive/courageous enough to ask out a beautiful woman? Lolz.
Ok, certainly there are but a handful.
So, basically {predators} see a lady's beauty as an invitation ___ while {Mr-Nice guy} sees it as a deterrent.

She has a turgid ego: I am sure we are all familiar with this. Beautiful women tend to come with this bombastic/bloated and swollen ego. They are very confident of their looks. They believe they can get a man, the very next minute. Thus their "maintenance/control manual" is very voluminous. This could make men avoid them, that's why you hear things like "fine girl-plenty trouble". She has this feeling that she is to you -what a hat-trick is to C.Ronaldo, so it's expected you treat her like a goddess.


Dearest beautiful ladies, swallow your pride more often____ it doesn't contain excess calories.

Ok. Noted!








I'll swallow my pride from now on

where r d Nairaland beauties, ? make una come refute or corroborate these points o

*clears throat and and sips zobo*

Ahh shoki ..

I knew we will get here...

dOnLarich:
Ahh shoki ..

Lol.....is that the latest way

Kachisbarbie:


I am speaking as beautiful lady

I knw u r , but I want other beauties to come and corroborate or refute ur points.

chibwike:
Lol.....is that the latest way

yeah bro

Lies. Reason is that the op is beautiful and she's married

As for me , I reserve my comment

dOnLarich:
yeah bro

Lol... I knew it..coz i was wondering what has 'ahh shoki' got to do with the thread

Xo true!

farano:
Lies. Reason is that the op is beautiful and she's married

As for me , I reserve my comment

she did not say they wont get married, she said they would find it difficult in getting married...

Hmmmm...it happening 4real

too much attention from the opposite sex confuses us thereby making us end up with the wrong one and by the time you realised you are already stuck with him



Then if you sum up courage to end the shiit by then the good ones have all gone so you end up single again and the wait for mr right continues but at this point some desperate ones say yes to anything that has two testicles between their legs

lalasticlala:



I knw u r , but I want other beauties to come and corroborate or refute ur points.

#clears throat.


Onbehalf of the Beautiful Ladies Association on Nairaland (B.L.A.N)...


















I'd comment after our next meeting

chibwike:
she did not say they wont get married, she said they would find it difficult in getting married...

Ok @ op was it difficult?

yeah guys are like "a butiful girl like dis is nt engaged? adonbilivit"

Love that your parting word........






[size=14pt]Dearest beautiful ladies, Swallow ur pride more often.....[/size]

Also, most are materialistic and love things that glitters

It is well.

Ezibless:


#clears throat

Onbehalf of the beautiful ladies association of Nairaland (B.L.A.N)...















I'd comment after our next meeting

lol. everything don get association 4 Nairaland abii, association of those that schooled in France , Spacebookers association, and now association of beautiful ladies on Nairaland.

She is too busy chasing mr rich!

lalasticlala:



lol. everything don get association 4 Nairaland abii, association of those that schooled in France , Spacebookers association, and now association of beautiful ladies on Nairaland.

Lol,we no wan carry last na

And as Kachisbarbie be our president,we get correct back bone, se?

Are you qualified to be Mrs right in your search for Mr right? Mr right is looking for other things beyond beauty.

farano:
Ok @ op was it difficult?

Abeg Nah Wetin stain that ur lips self

farano:
Ok @ op was it difficult?

Lol..dont be afraid...yours wont be that difficult..






If you gat the right attitude tho'

chibwike:
Lol..dont be afraid...your wont be that difficult..






If you gat the right attitude tho'

Afraid of what? Haha funny u

"Dearest beautiful ladies, swallow your pride more often____ it doesn't contain excess calories."

Ladies, take note!

dre11:


Abeg Nah Wetin stain that ur lips self

Na lipstick stain nam

farano:
Afraid of what? Haha funny

Finding the Mr right