Kachisbarbie:
Disclaimer: This post is a hackneyed one and I respect the fact that we all can't be in consensus ad idem, that's why I have to state -it isn't entirely based on generalisation__ there are definitely some exceptions.

__ The term beauty/attractive in this context, I{We} would be looking @the physical beauty........now, I don't want that "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" saying {hehehe}_____ I am talking of that beauty, that transcends in the eyes of every beholder.

___ Mr Right {as opined by my humble self} is that man who communicates well, gives his lady that reassurance of self-worth and emotionally available.
If we have all assented to this...lets move on

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She gets a lot of advances from "predators": Predators here are those men who are naturally attracted to beautiful ladies for all the wrong reasons in the world. Those kinda men that hunt women like, it's some game. Their ostensible aim is to love her, but their real aim is actually- "hit and run". When she falls prey twice/more, it is only normal that she becomes reticent about her feelings___ thereby shutting the good guy(s) out.

She Friend-zones a lot: The average beautiful girl can friend-zone even her ancestor. She has lots of men who are ever willing to be in that "zone" or hoping for her eyes/heart to open to what they feel for her. She doesn't hesitate to put them there. The truth 'bout FZ{Friend-zone} is, if one person is harbouring romantic thoughts, sooner or later......the relationship would reach that climax where it either metarmophose(s) into a "real relationship" or dissolve.
Ladies please stop calling your future husband "just a friend"___lolz.

Men see her as outta their League: The less attractive a guy is - the less likely the chances of him approaching a very attractive woman.
How many guys are attractive/courageous enough to ask out a beautiful woman? Lolz.
Ok, certainly there are but a handful.
So, basically {predators} see a lady's beauty as an invitation ___ while {Mr-Nice guy} sees it as a deterrent.

She has a turgid ego: I am sure we are all familiar with this. Beautiful women tend to come with this bombastic/bloated and swollen ego. They are very confident of their looks. They believe they can get a man, the very next minute. Thus their "maintenance/control manual" is very voluminous. This could make men avoid them, that's why you hear things like "fine girl-plenty trouble". She has this feeling that she is to you -what a hat-trick is to C.Ronaldo, so it's expected you treat her like a goddess.


Dearest beautiful ladies, swallow your pride more often____ it doesn't contain excess calories.

Ezibless:
Ok. Noted!








I'll swallow my pride from now on

Jetson:
I'll make myself available cos am alLiNoNE

frisby:


Not true. Such men abound.
But real men are scarce. All those things u mentioned don't make a real man and therein lies d problem.
Women have been misguidedly taught that those are the things to look out for in a man.. so they waste their prime dissing real men because they only have their eyes for what the movies and mass media have told them are "the real deal". In d end, the same "real deal" waste their time, ruin their lives and dump their broken asses for the next shiny object.

dancok:
I don tell u make we marry since u no reply. am available o

Ezibless:


No, i won't.




He would find me




And you also protrayed your ''good'' attitude with that
''...fish brain...yarning trash...'' statement.
Thanks!

jmoore:
Are you qualified to be Mrs right in your search for Mr right? Mr right is looking for other things beyond beauty.

Andyempowered:
I'm sorry...I really am

DebbieSean:
I actuallY spent most of my teen years concealing myself, I became a tomboy and friendzoned all the guys I knew, reason was, I started getting advances very early and having seen and known the product of giving in, I decided remove anything that would attract the opposite sex. Loolz, it didn't really work all the time but I was able get out of trouble. @OP, everything listed above is absolutely true! Getting predators can be so easythat one hardly knows who to trust.

Ezibless:


wow!
This was the last thing i was expecting though.

Apology warmly accepted.

creepsyme:
How? but there beautiful ladies married all around!

Did you read the disclaimer Ma'am?

Ezibless:


Last time i checked...







You hadn't collected your medicated glasses. And pls,advice your doctor to super magnify the lenses

abdullkabar:

Lolz....oti binu...
Ma binu dakun arewa,I was just joking
Dakun iya oko mi

chibwike:
Finding the Mr right

Ezibless:



Oya na


Bring all the cows,tuber of yams,houses and cars make we go meet my papa o

dancok:
am not afraid to do that,let just start the dating proper.

labakeJ:
Some beautiful girls FZ for their pride or so but others do it cos we wanna av a real n firm r/ship with d guy cos most guys tend to pretend yl they date girls. So many reasons sha, but at times they lose their soulmates to other girls. *sighs this life sha.

jemype:
Bt its painful tho cuz not all guys want sex. Some guys wa somtin serious but dey end up in d friendzone. Wat even pisses me off somtyms is dat dey frendzone guys for sugar daddys dey know dat dey can't b number 2 wife to. u

jemype:
Bt its painful tho cuz not all guys want sex. Some guys wa somtin serious but dey end up in d friendzone. Wat even pisses me off somtyms is dat dey frendzone guys for sugar daddys dey know dat dey can't b number 2 wife to. u

Ezibless:



Oya start to translate o

Ezibless:


Aiit na.



Y'knw,i don't know how to fix dates well o







Would it be 1st of April or 25th December?

Oya na, which date o?:p

Kachisbarbie:
Disclaimer: This post is a hackneyed one and I respect the fact that we all can't be in consensus ad idem, that's why I have to state -it isn't entirely based on generalisation__ there are definitely some exceptions.

__ The term beauty/attractive in this context, I{We} would be looking @the physical beauty........now, I don't want that "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" saying {hehehe}_____ I am talking of that beauty, that transcends in the eyes of every beholder.

___ Mr Right {as opined by my humble self} is that man who communicates well, gives his lady that reassurance of self-worth and emotionally available.
If we have all assented to this...lets move on

---

She gets a lot of advances from "predators": Predators here are those men who are naturally attracted to beautiful ladies for all the wrong reasons in the world. Those kinda men that hunt women like, it's some game. Their ostensible aim is to love her, but their real aim is actually- "hit and run". When she falls prey twice/more, it is only normal that she becomes reticent about her feelings___ thereby shutting the good guy(s) out.

She Friend-zones a lot: The average beautiful girl can friend-zone even her ancestor. She has lots of men who are ever willing to be in that "zone" or hoping for her eyes/heart to open to what they feel for her. She doesn't hesitate to put them there. The truth 'bout FZ{Friend-zone} is, if one person is harbouring romantic thoughts, sooner or later......the relationship would reach that climax where it either metarmophose(s) into a "real relationship" or dissolve.
Ladies please stop calling your future husband "just a friend"___lolz.

Men see her as outta their League: The less attractive a guy is - the less likely the chances of him approaching a very attractive woman.
How many guys are attractive/courageous enough to ask out a beautiful woman? Lolz.
Ok, certainly there are but a handful.
So, basically {predators} see a lady's beauty as an invitation ___ while {Mr-Nice guy} sees it as a deterrent.

She has a turgid ego: I am sure we are all familiar with this. Beautiful women tend to come with this bombastic/bloated and swollen ego. They are very confident of their looks. They believe they can get a man, the very next minute. Thus their "maintenance/control manual" is very voluminous. This could make men avoid them, that's why you hear things like "fine girl-plenty trouble". She has this feeling that she is to you -what a hat-trick is to C.Ronaldo, so it's expected you treat her like a goddess.


Dearest beautiful ladies, swallow your pride more often____ it doesn't contain excess calories.

JoeCutie:
So true, Kachisbarbie.

One of my cours emates - a tall, fair, slim, sexy & jazzy-looking model - once came crying to me (because she was & still is my friend). She complained to me how her girlfriends had boyfriends but she didn't. She was almost crying in one corner of the classroom where she took me. I at length, talked to her to the best of my ability. She has too many wahala. Her ego alone fit pursue Boko Haram comot for Naija. She carries herself in such a manner that even the most Doggy-lecturer in the department fears to approach her. She was at that time, 24. She's 25 now, although she looks far younger than her age. But when you closely look at this babe, na that time you go know say because the world is a small place no mean say you fit trek from Mile2 to Benin Republic.
My guy once told me that I'm the only guy in our class that the babe can just relax & talk with. And you know guys na, be began to ask me how I do it. Do gini? Nawao. My guy told me that she was always talking to me about her problems cos she wanted me (I had a gf oh). I said no; she talked to me cos maybe, she knew or believed I could talk to her or even help her. But then I quickly reminded the babe that I had a gf whom I loved so much. Mek she no go dey think am.

OK, I finally tried to connect this babe to another fine looking guy. At least they could be friends - "just friends". Now, just the first chat they had, this babe treated the guy with disdane. Very contemptuous! Na then I know say her problems don reach National level. Na David Mark & his distinguished Senators go solve that one.

Just a few days back, she chatted me still lamenting. For my mind I was like, "You never see anything. Madonna is 52 & her boiffy abi husband is 22. Maybe dem never even born your own come out self".

Lmao. I no talk am come out oh, b4 person go go commit suicide for this Xmas period oh.

Summarily, a good number of fine girls got very ugly ego. Unless they kowtow, we no send. We go dey date & marry the ugly ones. After all, na wetin dem get these ones still get. Nothing more, nothing less. E complete die.

labakeJ:
This guy u funny die!!! Fine girls shouldn't let people call them beautiful or pretty till they get married cos it boosts their egos n they'll try by all means to stay at d top meanwhile intimidating potential lovers Me sef av stopped allowing plp call me that cos my prince charming can be anywhere

labakeJ:
Some beautiful girls FZ for their pride or so but others do it cos we wanna av a real n firm r/ship with d guy cos most guys tend to pretend yl they date girls. So many reasons sha, but at times they lose their soulmates to other girls. *sighs this life sha.