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Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by tosyne2much(m): 3:14pm On Dec 16, 2014
This write-up is not based on mere assumption but my findings and encounter with ladies

It takes the grace of God if you aint guilty of at least one of the listed points

Lemme Keep The Ball Rolling

10 Mentality Of An Average Lady

1. A guy must be the one to start up a chat and he must be the one throwing the questions else he is not ready to chat

2. The society frawns against a lady making her intentions known to a guy, therefore, a guy has to keep pestering you b4 you finally agree in order to show to him that you aint cheap or desperate

3. A lady has to hide her virginity status or pretend to hate sekks in order to portray a descent or an attractive image


4. Sending Pm to a dude will make you lose your self esteem or pride as a lady

5. The mentality of an average lady is that, a guy should settle the bills. When the bill arrives at the table, you pretend it doesn’t exist cos you believe it's less of your worry cos a guy should always settle the bills by default

6. You are doing a guy a great favour by allowing sekks. Some will go as far as stripping unclad raining curses on a dude the moment he fuckks up because they consider it as a favour

7. A guy who loves you will go extra mile. Most ladies are brainwashed by this assertion. That is, a lady believes she can treat a guy the way she wants and expects the guy should be able to withstand any poo at the expense of true love
, not knowing you can pursue a man God has destined 4u out of ignorance and selfish motive

8. Any guy who tries to strike up a convo or pay your transport fare will later ask for your phone number 'cos he wants to woo you


9. You have to give unending busy excuses in order to portray an image of rear commodity

10. majority of our ladies believe our world revolve around sekks and that 90% of guys will never resist sekks. This sounds really funny but it is the real fact. I have spoken to so many ladies and I have come into conclusion that majority of our ladies believe that 90% of guys lack self control and will never resist sekks at any slight given opportunity

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Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by englishmart(m): 3:18pm On Dec 16, 2014
I garrit. No problem

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Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by Evina(f): 3:18pm On Dec 16, 2014
I like this title. It is so refreshing to see a thread about females that doesn't have something about "Nigerian girls" as a title. smiley cool

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Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by Welrez(m): 3:18pm On Dec 16, 2014
Believing they have been betrayed or cheated when a guy leaves them after 'knowing' them.

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Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by Richiy(f): 3:24pm On Dec 16, 2014
Yes. Girls can be that way. Truthfully. But in some cases you wouldn't blame them.

What most actually aim to achieve is to differenciate themselves from just being ordinary not knowing that it is sometimes overdone.

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Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by folawiyoma(m): 3:25pm On Dec 16, 2014
Very true especially the one that when you have sex with them and maybe she have a bad character which she did not want to change and you leave her.


They will start the curse. Afi tio ba gun orin mi lokun. Meaning except you don't have sex with me.

No be say we both enjoy am ni abi na me be the first.

But few girls don't think like this sha but experience have it that does girls are heartless.

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Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by tmanuelle(m): 3:27pm On Dec 16, 2014
I like this, so accurate.
Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by Evina(f): 3:29pm On Dec 16, 2014
Tosin, number 8 is sooo true about men! angry

The other day, I was buying oranges. I said to the seller, "please give me soft ones cos I want to juice them". Next thing I heard a voice that wasn't the seller say, "why only the soft ones"? I no answer. After my selection, the guy paid. I said thank you and was on my way, when he rushed to catch up with me.

I am usually not friendly with guys I don't know, but decided to change since a new year is approaching. LOL. I even gave him my number, an act I regret doing because na so so super story and Ikebe super gist the guy dey disturb me with since then.

All because, I was nice enough to boost his ego by letting him pay for my oranges. undecided

This scenario happens every time. They pay for stuff you did not ask them to pay for and give you lifts because they want to "try their luck" and not because they are angels sent to make your day.

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Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by holatin(m): 3:29pm On Dec 16, 2014
true dats how 90% of Nigeria gurls think.

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Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by Nobody: 3:33pm On Dec 16, 2014
Nice one.
Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by Nobody: 3:34pm On Dec 16, 2014
Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by rittyben(f): 3:40pm On Dec 16, 2014
Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha. U too like list.
Thanks sha, I just realise I have to PM someone sharpenly
Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by tosyne2much(m): 3:41pm On Dec 16, 2014
rittyben:
Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha. U too like list.
Thanks sha, I just realise I have to PM someone sharpenly
who is that person ? wink
Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by rittyben(f): 3:45pm On Dec 16, 2014
Heheheeheehhehehehehhehehhehheheheehehe Nna forget that thing
tosyne2much:
who is that person ? wink

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Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by tobechi20(m): 3:47pm On Dec 16, 2014
Evina:
I like this title. It is so refreshing to see a thread about females that doesn't have something about "Nigerian girls" as a title. smiley cool


mtchew......as if naija ladies are not guilty of this

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Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by Nobody: 3:47pm On Dec 16, 2014
Hmmmm
Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by tobechi20(m): 3:48pm On Dec 16, 2014
folawiyoma:
Very true especially the one that when you have sex with them and maybe she have a bad character which she did not want to change and you leave her.


They will start the curse. Afi tio ba gun orin mi lokun. Meaning except you don't have sex with me.

No be say we both enjoy am ni abi na me be the first.

But few girls don't think like this sha but experience have it that does girls are heartless.



GIRLS ARE MORE HEARTLESS THAN GUYS

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Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by guente02(m): 3:48pm On Dec 16, 2014
I Like number one quite much.
I was chatting with one girl like that. I actually liked her but she was dating my guy so i decided to be very basic with her and not always be available, bcoz b4 u know it she go see me finish.
Before that particular faithful day i had always led the chat and we could start chatting from 5pm up till say 2am. This is one thing my friend (ha guy) can't do (thats what she said). One day i felt like I'm doing another man's work and decided to go blank of which she got angry and all.
Like a fortnight later she wanted attention and i was like today i go dey do d responding. The babe went silent like 45mins and the next message from ha was that she cant. That shez never done it.
The relationship with her is currently sour.
I just dislike girls without content.

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Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by tobechi20(m): 3:51pm On Dec 16, 2014
Evina:
Tosin, number 8 is sooo true about men! angry

The other day, I was buying oranges. I said to the seller, "please give me soft ones cos I want to juice them". Next thing I heard a voice that wasn't the seller say, "why only the soft ones"? I no answer. After my selection, the guy paid. I said thank you and was on my way, when he rushed to catch up with me.

I am usually not friendly with guys I don't know, but decided to change since a new year is approaching. LOL. I even gave him my number, an act I regret doing because na so so super story and Ikebe super gist the guy dey disturb me with since then.

All because, I was nice enough to boost his ego by letting him pay for my oranges. undecided

This scenario happens every time. They pay for stuff you did not ask them to pay for and give you lifts because they want to "try their luck" and not because they are angels sent to make your day.


what prevents a girl ffrom paying a stranger guys tfare

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Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by folawiyoma(m): 3:56pm On Dec 16, 2014
tobechi20:



GIRLS ARE MORE HEARTLESS THAN GUYS







True.

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Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by folawiyoma(m): 3:56pm On Dec 16, 2014
tobechi20:



GIRLS ARE MORE HEARTLESS THAN GUYS








True.
Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by Stephxoblessed(f): 4:53pm On Dec 16, 2014
If this doesnt make frontpage,then the Mods travelled for xmas.
*modified*
i guessed right.

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Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by dechandel(f): 5:32pm On Dec 16, 2014
Not all ladies have this mentality

I strike up convos whenever i am online

I can pm a guy if need be

I buy lunch for male friends at school tongue

A guy who loves you can go extra miles for you. Yes. But becareful. There are so many fishes in river Naija.
If you like do Shakara forget that one

Nigerian guys have a problem with a lady making her intention known tongue
Also the fear of rejection

I call my male friends. And we talk for minutessss.. Yea. Naija girls make calls too tongue grin

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Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by emperorchedda(m): 5:32pm On Dec 16, 2014
I have a few selected contacts on BBM which I regularly interact with. The others are waiting for me to send a message first.
Sometimes I give them a dose of their medicine by not asking questions and waiting for them to ask, this makes them crave for you the more

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Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by emperorchedda(m): 5:40pm On Dec 16, 2014
Evina:
Tosin, number 8 is sooo true about men! angry

The other day, I was buying oranges. I said to the seller, "please give me soft ones cos I want to juice them". Next thing I heard a voice that wasn't the seller say, "why only the soft ones"? I no answer. After my selection, the guy paid. I said thank you and was on my way, when he rushed to catch up with me.

I am usually not friendly with guys I don't know, but decided to change since a new year is approaching. LOL. I even gave him my number, an act I regret doing because na so so super story and Ikebe super gist the guy dey disturb me with since then.

All because, I was nice enough to boost his ego by letting him pay for my oranges. undecided

This scenario happens every time. They pay for stuff you did not ask them to pay for and give you lifts because they want to "try their luck" and not because they are angels sent to make your day.
So the heavens will fall if the girl becomes the angel to make the guy's day?? Must it be the guy?

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Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by sexylogan(m): 5:40pm On Dec 16, 2014
tosyne2much:
This write-up is not based on mere assumption but my findings and encounter with ladies

It takes the grace of God if you aint guilty of at least one of the listed points

Lemme Keep The Ball Rolling

10 Mentality Of An Average Lady

1. A guy must be the one to start up a chat and he must be the one throwing the questions else he is not ready to chat

2. The society frawns against a lady making her intentions known to a guy, therefore, a guy has to keep pestering you b4 you finally agree in order to show to him that you aint cheap or desperate

3. A lady has to hide her virginity status or pretend to hate sekks in order to portray a descent or an attractive image


4. Sending Pm to a dude will make you lose your self esteem or pride as a lady

5. The mentality of an average lady is that, a guy should settle the bills. When the bill arrives at the table, you pretend it doesn’t exist cos you believe it's less of your worry cos a guy should always settle the bills by default

6. You are doing a guy a great favour by allowing sekks. Some will go as far as stripping unclad raining curses on a dude the moment he fuckks up because they consider it as a favour

7. A guy who loves you will go extra mile. Most ladies are brainwashed by this assertion. That is, a lady believes she can treat a guy the way she wants and expects the guy should be able to withstand any poo at the expense of true love
, not knowing you can pursue a man God has destined 4u out of ignorance and selfish motive

8. Any guy who tries to strike up a convo or pay your transport fare will later ask for your phone number 'cos he wants to woo you


9. You have to give unending busy excuses in order to portray an image of rear commodity

10. majority of our ladies believe our world revolve around sekks and that 90% of guys will never resist sekks. This sounds really funny but it is the real fact. I have spoken to so many ladies and I have come into conclusion that majority of our ladies believe that 90% of guys lack self control and will never resist sekks at any slight given opportunity

** Feel Free To Add Yours **

Number 7 is sooo true
Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by lilmax(m): 5:42pm On Dec 16, 2014
Number 8 is so annoying
Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by tosyne2much(m): 5:42pm On Dec 16, 2014
dechandel:
Not all ladies have this mentality


I can pm a guy if need be


Pm me right now or adonbilivit tongue
Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by chimerase2: 5:49pm On Dec 16, 2014
Tosin no 3 vex me eh
One side chick told me she was a virgin and she hate sex die dat she has not even hugged a guy before
while she was not
I was shocked de day I inserted ma sim card on the phone slut
I was like yeeeeh shocked
I leta asked her why she lied and she said she was sorry it was a mistake angry

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Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by Nobody: 5:57pm On Dec 16, 2014
dechandel:
Not all ladies have this mentality

I strike up convos whenever i am online

I can pm a guy if need be

I buy lunch for male friends at school tongue

A guy who loves you can go extra miles for you. Yes. But becareful. There are so many fishes in river Naija.
If you like do Shakara forget that one

Nigerian guys have a problem with a lady making her intention known tongue
Also the fear of rejection

I call my male friends. And we talk for minutessss.. Yea. Naija girls make calls too tongue grin

Can I be your friend? I never chop since morning, my stomach just dey growl sotey I think say our neighbor dey keep Lion for backyard.

Have sent you a P.M, thanks.

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Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by computerboy: 7:59pm On Dec 16, 2014
chimerase2:
Tosin no 3 vex me eh
One side chick told me she was a virgin and she hate sex die dat she has not even hugged a guy before
while she was not
I was shocked de day I inserted ma sim card on the phone slut
I was like yeeeeh shocked
I leta asked her why she lied and she said she was sorry it was a mistake angry

Man of god inserting sim card?? embarassed
Amu disappointed embarassed embarassed
Re: Top 10 Mentality Of An Average Lady by jmoore(m): 8:11pm On Dec 16, 2014
Revealing....

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