I'm in love with a guy, we ve been friends for a while now but we beginning to get intimate and my feelings r rapidly developing for him, I really want to share how I feel with him but am scared that this mite freak him out n he may just run away or this cud get awkward between us but I bliv telling som1 how u feel either u a guy or a girl is d right thing to do..
I rily do need to know if I sud tell him how I feel or just keep my feelings till he tells me if he has feelings for me ..I bliv som guys find it awkward wen gurls tell dem how dey feel bou dem... wat will u advice I do pls?

Be expecting ma advice tomorrow ok
Hope the advice is not urgent?

jenniferjon:
I'm in love with a guy, we ve been friends for a while now but we beginning to get intimate and my feelings r rapidly developing for him, I really want to share how I feel with him but am scared that this mite freak him out n he may just run away or this cud get awkward between us but I bliv telling som1 how u feel either u a guy or a girl is d right thing to do..
I rily do need to know if I sud tell him how I feel or just keep my feelings till he tells me if he has feelings for me ..I bliv som guys find it awkward wen gurls tell dem how dey feel bou dem... wat will u advice I do pls?

Most guys freak out but if he feels the same way he won't, I think you should keep it to your self sha cause when us guys know a girl is really into us we either lose interest or take her for granted

hmmm... ladies and emotions..

Well, since you have the courage to come online here and seek our opinion about it,I believe you can call him up and tell him about your feeling ...don't use text message please or any instant messenger. CALL only...
There is nothing to be ashamed of.
Goodluck

And they just wouldn't let a friends with benefits relationship remain that way.

Oya try your luck and tell him, he'd either say yes let's do it or no can we remain friends with benefits.

Either way at least you still get to continue kissing the guy

in d game of love,listen to ur heart dear...... if ur heart says tell d dude hw u feel,then do it.....if he freaks out nd runs away,he wasn't gud enuf for u.......if he feels dsame,congratulations are in order.....do not delay and regret later no telling him hw u feel.......

in d game of love,listen to ur heart dear...... if ur hearts say tell d dude hw u feel,then do it.....if he freaks out nd runs away,he wasn't gud enuf for u.......if he feels dsame,congratulations are in order.....do no delay and regret later not telling him hw u feel.......

sorry I can't help you there cos not all guys are the same

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Abort mission!!! Never ever do dt, cos u'll regret it...A lot of dudes wld go on n on abt hw dey wouldn't mind if a girl does dt buh wen d situation arises,its a diff ball game....On d oda hand, if he happens 2 be among d few(1%) dt do not mind,u myt start 2 2nd guess d r/ship(relate everyfn he does wrong or evry ish u guys hv 2 d fact dt u made d 1st mv) n dts not healthy

Ok. Will advice u when i decide to read it.

Never do that and watch another lady take him

Or be matured and say your mind, if he feels the same way, he will respond,

Give no room to fears and don't worry about what the society says.

Telling a man your feelings doesn't make you cheap

Just make sure the timing is right, use the right words and let him know your views - my advice

if u love somebody walk up to hm and tell hm u love hm eh, it does no crime no crime at all

I'm asking cos aside from d fact that I don't wanna lose him to some soda girl by being silent I also feel me having feelings for som1 n not telking him is keeping me from moving on cos wen oda guys come to u, its difficult to accept cos ur heart is some where else but if n when u know d truth den u will see ders no light at d end of that tunnel n den u can finally move on

The funniest thing is that i don't even know wat we r doing any more..maybe its a rlntnshp or its benefit but intimacy is just involved...I just wanna find out how he feels so I can move on n stop hoping jor

thrizzle:

Most guys freak out but if he feels the same way he won't, I think you should keep it to your self sha cause when us guys know a girl is really into us we either lose interest or take her for granted

this just proves it you're a small boy, a matured will know how to handle the situation without taking her for granted.


Guy if you don't have reasonable advice to give to some one just sharrap



Be waiting for ya mention

jenniferjon:
The funniest thing is that i don't even know wat we r doing any more..maybe its a rlntnshp or its benefit but intimacy is just involved...I just wanna find out how he feels so I can move on n stop hoping jor

If intimacy is already involved then i fear ..............

Lisaflex:
Abort mission!!! Never ever do dt, cos u'll regret it...A lot of dudes wld go on n on abt hw dey wouldn't mind if a girl does dt buh wen d situation arises,its a diff ball game....On d oda hand, if he happens 2 be among d few(1%) dt do not mind,u myt start 2 2nd guess d r/ship(relate everyfn he does wrong or evry ish u guys hv 2 d fact dt u made d 1st mv) n dts not healthy

Who is this one!

All guys are not the same.
Let her watch and be snatched by another girl.

use ur feminine moves na if u feel telling him might spoil d whole thing;there some kind of things u can do

samflexxy:
this just proves it you're a small boy, a matured will know how to handle the situation without taking her for granted.


Guy if you don't have reasonable advice to give to some one just sharrap



Be waiting for ya mention

How are you not sure the guy in question is not going to freak out, guys like you are just hell bent on showing their stupidity, we'll done.

Here my advice to U, d easiest tin in life is wen a woman loves a man is easy for her to turn him around to b her own, pls u don't need to walk to him and tell him, all u need is to exhibit some care and closure to him, show some romantic gesture and while doing all this be sure to study his acts too so as to be able to identify d directions he is heading with u, men hav soft heart wen it come to love,wen a woman love a man and he doesn't love her she can still get him but wen a man loves a woman and she doesn't love him dat is a big blow, so my lady show u love him by caring and b more closer to him, am telling u he will feel U. Good luck.

Be confused until another girl does... *winks*

sabaranky:
Here my advice to U, d easiest tin in life is wen a woman loves a man is easy for her to turn him around to b her own, pls u don't need to walk to him and tell him, all u need is to exhibit some care and closure to him, show some romantic gesture and while doing all this be sure to study his acts too so as to be able to identify d directions he is heading with u, men hav soft heart wen it come to love,wen a woman love a man and he doesn't love her she can still get him but wen a man loves a woman and she doesn't love him dat is a big blow, so my lady show u love him by caring and b more closer to him, am telling u he will feel U. Good luck.

Best advise so far , do what rabbi says and all will be well,, telling him how I feel out rightly is the worst mistake u can ever make !!

thrizzle:

Most guys freak out but if he feels the same way he won't, I think you should keep it to your self sha cause when us guys know a girl is really into us we either lose interest or take her for granted

We don't lose interest or take her for granted, unless she's ugly or not attractive to us.

Don't even think abt doing xo cos he is gonna mess you up once he finds out that you are head over heels in love with him

Babe no point disclosing your feelings to him cause u r in a FWB situation here. I feel u should stop being intimate with him n see his reaction cause for now,your relationship isn't properly defined. He's cool with the FWB tingy while u r developing emotions over nothing. Dude isn't into u,simple.

dyadeleye:
Well, since you have the courage to come online here and seek our opinion about it,I believe you can call him up and tell him about your feeling ...don't use text message please or any instant messenger. CALL only...
There is nothing to be ashamed of.
Goodluck

Taaaaaa! Are u 4rm India? It doesn't work here. Abeg my dear sincerely in love. If u truely care about ur love escapedes lasting with him, just keep ur mute and let him speak up. U might employ green-light tact. Buh dnt u ever blow the lid out of the cattle. U will surely regrete it.

Then she might wait till kingdom comes bro...not all guys have the sense to see the greenlight flashing

BobNeli:
Taaaaaa! Are u 4rm India? It doesn't work here. Abeg my dear sincerely in love. If u truely care about ur love escapedes lasting with him, just keep ur mute and let him speak up. U might employ green-light tact. Buh dnt u ever blow the lid out of the cattle. U will surely regrete it.

Is that why you open a new account?

simple tin...my dear ,,jst tell him u are voting BUHARI/OSIBANJO ...den u av him...holla me it works..