kossyablaze:
RULE 9...Avoid straffin unnecesarily!!!*modified*If itz not GEJ come 2015-19...I will denounce my citizenship!

delishpot:


Halleluyahhhh!!!!!!
Thank God well well o.
Good luck getting the babe as soon as you toast her bro.

olassy239:
if you are ready for marriage and it seems as if you are not connecting with the right man,you may need to look inwards and make some changes in your life.the only permanenr thing in life is change. Take a look at your lifestyle; there may be an area in which you need to effect some changes if you want to attract the right kind of man for you and make the relationship work.
(1) Change your appearance- people see who you are before they hear what you have to say. The clothes you wear play a major role in attracting poeplae into your life. Men see you before they hear what you have to say. If you are in the habit of wearing skimpy, revealing, tight, glittery or mini clothing on any and every occasion, you need to change your wardrobe. These clothes in themselves may not be a problem if you wear them for the appropriate occasion and in the right environment. Your clothes howeever may become a distraction and undermine your values, conveying the wrong message to people around you. There are clothes designed to be worn in the home environment alone. Such clothes should not be worn out. Dresses that should be worn only for parties should not be worn casually, for school, to the office or for business. O ln the other hand,your dressing may just be too old fashioned for any man to see through to your beauty. Change it. Invest in a new wadrobe. If you don't know which clothes to buy, ask a fashion consultant...

temmy16:


That what?

GoodGirl2:

There are a million threads bashing women, and even more threads bashing single women.
I'm not disappointed that someone has come up with such a thread, but that it's a woman who did.

People are so good at coming up with "strategies" for getting hitched while you forget that people just fall in love with who they fall in love with. There's no particular personality type that stays single while other types get married. There's no particular way to dress to get hitched. People of all dressing types get hitched to someone. You can be Mother Theresa or Jezebel, either way, you'll get hitched to somebody.

I am so sick and tired of all these "formulas" being paraded around by know-it-all fellows telling women what to do to get hitched.

Okay, so after she has changed her wardrobe and no man comes her way, eh he? What next? Oh scratch that....Now is when you tell her to either visit TB Joshua or consult the oracle. Many Nigerians seem to be embarrassingly ignorant and that's why yeye people will keep coming up with silly "methods" to get you hitched and some suckers will fall for it.

"Change your this", "change your that". Arrant nonsense!!
After you change your whole being to be someone else so you can get married, surely the returns must be high. To whom much is given, much is expected. I hope this man you're changing your whole body, soul and spirit for is a Saudi prince who and owns 97% of the world's crude oil, all the oceans in the planet and every creature therein, have the personality of Jesus Christ of Nazareth combined with Tupac Shakur's "bad boy" personality (so he can switch to whichever required personality) and have a special d-ick that can sing, clean your intestines, make your skin acne-free as a teenager and wrinkle-free at 74, play the harmonica and most importantly make you experience an orga.sm just by looking at it. How about you get all that in return for the "change" you must endure to be someone else just to be married?

badoolee:
Dress d way u want to be addressed

RedBenson:
Dont always aim at marrying top politician/businessman/entertainer/oil worker. That vulcanizer might just be the one for u. Accept him the way he's or stay unmarried for life.

oloworulz:
Ladies are not ready to settle down. Don't pity them. My advise for them is, They should stop looking for tall men with good job, with rich family. F****k ur list

GoodGirl2:
Nothing wrong in aiming; it doesn't mean you'll get it.
Same way some men "aim" for Halle Berry look-alikes but end up with average-looking girls.
By all means let the girls aim. Aiming will give one some sort of standard to work with, which in turn gives one a sense of direction that ensures you don't end up picking chaff when you want wheat.

Yomii:
#My Advice: Work on your character, and your character will direct you to right man.

RedBenson:
Stop playing hard to get, you're losing opportunities. Not every guy can stand that shi!t.

GoodGirl2:
Some guys always equate rejecting them to playing hard to get while the reality it's just that- rejection.

RedBenson:
Good one though but when the aim becomes obsession nko? A situation a girl will tell u she'll never settle for anything less if not that tall handsome charming oil worker, when a vulcanizer was just the right person waiting and dying for her?

RedBenson:
And some girls eh, they want to achieve far more than their mums. If their dads weren't handsome enough, tall enough, rich enough etc but yet their mums accepted them as husband and they (today's girls) are the product of the marriage, why then do they want nothing less than that handsome rich dude? Their Papa cant even boast of one car and a good house, but yet they want to get married to a dude who own houses and cars all over the world. Smh?

GoodGirl2:
They probably don't want their children to go through what they've gone through.
Do not blame them for wanting to break the cycle of poverty.

Handsome? Women just ogle at handsome men in magazines. Believe you me, very few women rank it up there when it comes to marriage. Responsibility takes first priority for most. Okay-looking is good enough for most, especially if he's a charmer. You don't need to look like Shemar Moore to be charming.

GoodGirl2:
It's normal to be obsessed at some point in our lives but they fade with time. Me sef I wanted to marry a soldier, but ended up with an entrepreneur.
Yes, she may tell you that she'll never settle for anything less than a tall, handsome, charming, oil worker; but this is just a tool she uses to measure and evaluate her standards, not that she must conform to it. It's just like a reference point. At the end of the day she may end up with a guy with average height (5'9" ) as opposed to tall (6'3" ) and average-looking as opposed to handsome. She may not get an oil worker, but because she had placed a certain standard for herself, she won't go for a vulcanizer either.

Having standards is a good thing as it ensures that she'll probably get a guy with some of the qualities she wants. Even if she does not get all the qualities she desires in a person, she will not stoop as low as the person with no standards.

RedBenson:
Dont always aim at marrying top politician/businessman/entertainer/oil worker. That vulcanizer might just be the one for u. Accept him the way he's or stay unmarried for life.

GoodGirl2:
Men too have lists. Let her keep her list as well.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
she should then change her family

sexymoma:
Upon All This Ones
Person Wey Nor Go Marry, Nor Go Marry.. Forget

dovelike:
I go slap person o. Why do we keep potraying single ladies as desperate? Thereby,making the non-desperate ones desperate? What about single guys?

lafflaff123:


And are you guys not desperate?

When was the last time you saw a guy from outside Nigeria coming home to marry a girl? 98% of girls living outside Nigeria these days are so desperate, they just dont come home to marry. They propose to the man, spend and organize for the wedding, dangle some foreign passports as a bait and pay his ticket abroad, so they can be called MARRIED WOMEN.

Yeah Nigerian Girls are desperate.

GoodGirl2:

There are a million threads on NL bashing women, and even more threads bashing single women.
I'm not disappointed that someone has come up with such a thread, but that it's a woman who did.

People are so good at coming up with "strategies" for getting hitched while you forget that people just fall in love with who they fall in love with. There's no particular personality type that stays single while other types get married. There's no particular way to dress to get hitched. People of all dressing types get hitched to someone. You can be Mother Theresa or Jezebel, either way, you'll get hitched to somebody.

I am so sick and tired of all these "formulas" being paraded around by know-it-all fellows telling women what to do to get hitched.

Okay, so after she has changed her wardrobe and no man comes her way, eh he? What next? Oh scratch that....Now is when you tell her to either visit TB Joshua or consult the oracle. Many Nigerians seem to be embarrassingly ignorant and that's why yeye people will keep coming up with silly "methods" to get you hitched and some of you suckers will fall for it.

"Change your this", "change your that". Arrant nonsense!!
After you change your whole being to be someone else so you can get married, surely the returns must be high. To whom much is given, much is expected. I hope this man you're changing your whole body, soul and spirit for is a Saudi prince who owns 97% of the world's crude oil, all the oceans in the planet and every creature therein, have the personality of Jesus Christ of Nazareth combined with Tupac Shakur's "bad boy" personality (so he can switch to whichever required personality) and have a special d-ick that can sing, clean your intestines, make your skin acne-free as a teenager and wrinkle-free at 74, play the harmonica and most importantly make you experience an orga.sm just by looking at it. How about you get all that in return for the "change" you must endure to be someone else just to be married?

RedBenson:


All still bounds back to "moderation" and those who adopt this principle of moderation get married easily while those with high profile for the kind of man they want keep catching flowers in every wedding of their friends and colleagues. I can authoritatively tell you that most girls in Nigeria today want nothing than a rich guy. For example, i am an undergraduate, though my parent are not super rich, but then we dont beg to eat. I leave home to school everyday with public transport, i tell you simply because i am not mobile (as most Nigerian girls equate a dude with ride to be rich), most girls i approach on road dont normally respond accordingly even when i dress to kill, but each time dad travels and i become the one in charge of his car (Just Honda City Salon Car), 8 out of every 10 girl i approach yield for me with ease. This however shows what they want...a rich dude.