Someone got born again and then deleted all his girlfriend's contacts because he knows with them in his life the journey of knowing God won't work out

Now the sex hormone is against him for keeping away for a long time,he still doesn't need a girlfriend because he needs no distraction

Now he is contemplating on taking a runs girl for a night to quench this urge and move on with his spiritual life,its wrong but how wrong is it?

Don't say he should pray for the urge to disappear,no not all,nature is different from spirituality


Mature comments pls

How is d sex hormone against him?for him t be contemplating abt fucking a runs girl,he is NT yet a born again#my charity comment#

kaima1984:
How is d sex hormone against him?for him t be contemplating abt fucking a runs girl,he is NT yet a born again#my charity comment#

so don't you know its natural to have a sexual urge?

Lol.. Some people thinks once you are a born again then you are no longer human

kaima1984:
How is d sex hormone against him?for him t be contemplating abt fucking a runs girl,he is NT yet a born again#my charity comment#

Babe, Konji is a respecter of no individual...

So because he is now born again, he is not an human being anymore? Shior.. He is just being tempted

drake99:
Someone got born again

Now he is contemplating on taking a runs girl for a night to quench this urge and move on with his spiritual life,its wrong but how wrong is it

Very wrong.

Will you satisfy the physical body at the detriment of the soul? Fornication is a sin against God!!!












No mind me o. No amount of Psalms can quench konji o. Abeg bro carry ur runs girl and keep quiet abt it. Thanks.

Chiadanin:


Very wrong.

so what will he do? Mastu&bate?




This topic should be in religion section,mode please take it there

If he does that it will be a total waste of time driving all his girlfriends away because once he sleeps with one he knows definitely it won't stop there and that's mere hypocrisy .



Salvation only renews your spirit which is the real you but you have a role to play to renew your mind and your body. What are his thoughts because out of the heart flows the issues of life , if he sincerely wants to change he should change his thinking and continuously meditate on the word of God because that alone can renew his mind which will be able to make him kill his fleshy desires and all these can be achieved only through the help of the holy spirit .

those above me na clowns

Make E take Valium 5 and sleep for like 5hrs! e go gt wet dream nd datz all! wet dream sha no b sin! lol

drake99:
so what will he do? Mastu&bate?
This topic should be in religion section,mode please take it there

Nor that either. But it might be lesser of 2 evils. Biblically tho, self pleasuring is somewhat a form of lust in your mind which is just as well like 4nicating

Fix your mind on heavenly thoughts?

Good luck. It is a struggle

Chiadanin:


Nor that either. But it might be lesser of 2 evils. Biblically tho, self pleasuring is somewhat a form of lust in your mind which is just as well like masturbating.

Fix your mind on heavenly thoughts?

Good luck. It is a struggle

I plead to disagree with the bolded , its not a struggle because no matter how we try to struggle on our own we're gonna keep falling back till we finally give up and that's why grace came to remove all struggles and give us a very easy way out which is love . In this case now if he loves that prostitute instead of desiring to sleep with her he would help her in one way or the other out of her situation ,the moment he sees her and remember how much God loves her believe it or not that lust will die .

Elantracey:
If he does that it will be a totally
waste of time driving all his girlfriends away because once he sleeps
with one he knows definitely it won't stop there .



Salvation only renews your spirit which is the real you but you have a
role to play to renew your mind and your body. What are his thoughts
because out of the heart flows the issues of life , if he sincerely
wants to change he should change his thinking and continuously meditate
on the word of God because that alone can renew his mind which will be
able to make him kill his fleshy desires and all these can be achieved
only through the help of the holy spirit .

ride on pastor

Op I dey come, make I first go ask My Pastors wey don divorce how dem dey manage to cope with the spirit of konji now wey dem no get wife again .

He should try and get married asap

arabbunkum:
He should try and get married asap

i guess that's not considered an option.

drake99:
Someone got born again and then deleted all his girlfriend's contacts because he knows with them in his life the journey of knowing God won't work out
Now the sex hormone is against him for keeping away for a long time,he still doesn't need a girlfriend because he needs no distraction
Now he is contemplating on taking a runs girl for a night to quench this urge and move on with his spiritual life,its wrong but how wrong is it?
Don't say he should pray for the urge to disappear,no not all,nature is different from spirituality
Mature comments pls

OP is a bad guy. Shalams never comot for your eyes- Just slap your prick to behave or go online- watch ongoing Syria War videos- your mood go change. Or watch this BH video -

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arabbunkum:
He should try and get married asap

what if he's not financial stable for that?

drake99:
what if he's not financial stable for that?

bro, na by force?

A spiritual rebirth doesn't means d death of sexual urges, in fact any individual who doesn't av sexual urges needs special prayers

Sexual urges is very gd, Infact sexual urges was created by God who made d human body. I did nt c d Bible speaking against it.

Sexual urge though need 2 b controlled to avoid it's excesses leading to "allowed" sexual/immoral thoughts, Lust, Fornication, Adultery etc

But I kip under my body, n bring it into Subjection 1Cor 9:27a

He that hath no control over his own spirit is like a city dt is broken down and without a wall. Prov 25:28

A "Redeemed" should not visit a Runs gal 4 d following major reasons:
1 It's a Sin against God. Gen 39:9
2 it's a Sin againt his body. 1Cor 6:18
3 A miserable future life: Prov 6:26
4 Such will miss Eternity in heaven. 1Cor 6:9

Minor reasons may include guilt, STD/STI, emotional distress, low self esteem, depression, Divorce, Wasteful Spending etc

With personal experience, i'v got 2 knw dt days or weeks when my PERSONAL prayer n bible study life are below optimum, MY SEXUAL URGES BECOMES OPTIMUM, the flesh have more control, and once I power up these 2 aspects d sexual urges dies away.
I DNT DO ANYTHING 2 CONTROL THE URGE ON MY OWN. It's Jst giving in to more of God thru Prayer n Study. 4 me excess Sexual urges is a result of my deficient prayer n study life. Ur friend could aslo check or experiment with this.

He will succeed IJN

drake99:
Someone got born again and then deleted all his girlfriend's contacts because he knows with them in his life the journey of knowing God won't work out

Now the sex hormone is against him for keeping away for a long time,he still doesn't need a girlfriend because he needs no distraction

Now he is contemplating on taking a runs girl for a night to quench this urge and move on with his spiritual life,its wrong but how wrong is it?

Don't say he should pray for the urge to disappear,no not all,nature is different from spirituality


Mature comments pls

MARRY !

That's what the Bible says about people burning with lust.

There is no correct time for marriage. You make the time correct by deciding to Marry.

You will say what of money ? N50,000 can do you a court marriage and an evening get together..Stop caring about what people will say..

Have a cold shower

drake99:
Someone got born again and then deleted all his girlfriend's contacts because he knows with them in his life the journey of knowing God won't work out

Now the sex hormone is against him for keeping away for a long time,he still doesn't need a girlfriend because he needs no distraction

Now he is contemplating on taking a runs girl for a night to quench this urge and move on with his spiritual life,its wrong but how wrong is it?

Don't say he should pray for the urge to disappear,no not all,nature is different from spirituality


Mature comments pls

Tell him to go and marry if he's a born again

drake99:
Someone got born again and then deleted all his girlfriend's contacts because he knows with them in his life the journey of knowing God won't work out

Now the sex hormone is against him for keeping away for a long time,he still doesn't need a girlfriend because he needs no distraction

Now he is contemplating on taking a runs girl for a night to quench this urge and move on with his spiritual life,its wrong but how wrong is it?

Don't say he should pray for the urge to disappear,no not all,nature is different from spirituality


Mature comments pls

and what will he do if the urge comes again? Get a different runs girl?
Hmmm

this one is strong oh! @ op, it is really strong!

I used work to pummel mine but guess what? it became stronger, there is actually no gain in denying your sexuality....those hormones just know how to mess with one's head.

For many people they fall back to self help frequently, even though thy'll hate to admit it.......

combine all the recommendations you will get here ,they'll prolly be useful

am not sure dat individual is born again in the first place

Probably not.

First of all,if he sleeps with a runs gal today,whatz d probability that he wl not continue the trend.
Secondly,marriage is a very good option for him at this stage.
Lastly,if hez not ready to get married yet,he shld try to control himself,do away with things that aroused that feeling.

He is born against.

Sexual urge ain't a sin. It is when you allow the urge to make you commit fornication, that's when it is a sin. Just like anger which is natural, if you can't control your anger then you may end up hurting someone with it.

Selfcontrol is the key. He should stop focusing on sexual thoughts. And should get rid of every p0rn if he got any.

He should stop thinking about sex and women.

He will control himself if he can control his thoughts.