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When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by drake99: 12:40am On Dec 20, 2014 |
Someone got born again and then deleted all his girlfriend's contacts because he knows with them in his life the journey of knowing God won't work out Now the sex hormone is against him for keeping away for a long time,he still doesn't need a girlfriend because he needs no distraction Now he is contemplating on taking a runs girl for a night to quench this urge and move on with his spiritual life,its wrong but how wrong is it? Don't say he should pray for the urge to disappear,no not all,nature is different from spirituality Mature comments pls 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by kaima1984(f): 12:46am On Dec 20, 2014 |
How is d sex hormone against him?for him t be contemplating abt fucking a runs girl,he is NT yet a born again#my charity comment# 111 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by drake99: 12:52am On Dec 20, 2014 |
kaima1984:so don't you know its natural to have a sexual urge? Lol.. Some people thinks once you are a born again then you are no longer human 121 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Nobody: 12:53am On Dec 20, 2014 |
kaima1984:Babe, Konji is a respecter of no individual... 108 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by dguy4: 12:53am On Dec 20, 2014 |
So because he is now born again, he is not an human being anymore? Shior.. He is just being tempted 12 Likes |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Nobody: 12:55am On Dec 20, 2014 |
drake99: Very wrong. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Chaleeee: 12:56am On Dec 20, 2014 |
Will you satisfy the physical body at the detriment of the soul? Fornication is a sin against God!!! No mind me o. No amount of Psalms can quench konji o. Abeg bro carry ur runs girl and keep quiet abt it. Thanks. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by drake99: 12:59am On Dec 20, 2014 |
Chiadanin:so what will he do? Mastu&bate? This topic should be in religion section,mode please take it there 3 Likes |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Nobody: 1:00am On Dec 20, 2014 |
If he does that it will be a total waste of time driving all his girlfriends away because once he sleeps with one he knows definitely it won't stop there and that's mere hypocrisy . Salvation only renews your spirit which is the real you but you have a role to play to renew your mind and your body. What are his thoughts because out of the heart flows the issues of life , if he sincerely wants to change he should change his thinking and continuously meditate on the word of God because that alone can renew his mind which will be able to make him kill his fleshy desires and all these can be achieved only through the help of the holy spirit . 186 Likes 19 Shares |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Harmthe(m): 1:00am On Dec 20, 2014 |
those above me na clowns 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by ReVizz(m): 1:05am On Dec 20, 2014 |
Make E take Valium 5 and sleep for like 5hrs! e go gt wet dream nd datz all! wet dream sha no b sin! lol 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Nobody: 1:07am On Dec 20, 2014 |
drake99: Nor that either. But it might be lesser of 2 evils. Biblically tho, self pleasuring is somewhat a form of lust in your mind which is just as well like 4nicating Fix your mind on heavenly thoughts? Good luck. It is a struggle 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Nobody: 1:15am On Dec 20, 2014 |
Chiadanin: I plead to disagree with the bolded , its not a struggle because no matter how we try to struggle on our own we're gonna keep falling back till we finally give up and that's why grace came to remove all struggles and give us a very easy way out which is love . In this case now if he loves that prostitute instead of desiring to sleep with her he would help her in one way or the other out of her situation ,the moment he sees her and remember how much God loves her believe it or not that lust will die . 28 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Emodeee: 1:17am On Dec 20, 2014 |
Elantracey: ride on pastor 3 Likes |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Afrok(m): 2:42am On Dec 20, 2014 |
Op I dey come, make I first go ask My Pastors wey don divorce how dem dey manage to cope with the spirit of konji now wey dem no get wife again ![]() 1 Like |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by arabbunkum: 3:48am On Dec 20, 2014 |
He should try and get married asap 13 Likes |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by itstpia8: 3:49am On Dec 20, 2014 |
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Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by itstpia8: 3:50am On Dec 20, 2014 |
arabbunkum: i guess that's not considered an option. 4 Likes |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by roymary: 3:57am On Dec 20, 2014 |
drake99: OP is a bad guy. Shalams never comot for your eyes- Just slap your prick to behave or go online- watch ongoing Syria War videos- your mood go change. Or watch this BH video - http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=115_1418995992 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by drake99: 4:00am On Dec 20, 2014 |
arabbunkum:what if he's not financial stable for that? |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by itstpia8: 4:05am On Dec 20, 2014 |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by balaclava: 4:13am On Dec 20, 2014 |
A spiritual rebirth doesn't means d death of sexual urges, in fact any individual who doesn't av sexual urges needs special prayers Sexual urges is very gd, Infact sexual urges was created by God who made d human body. I did nt c d Bible speaking against it. Sexual urge though need 2 b controlled to avoid it's excesses leading to "allowed" sexual/immoral thoughts, Lust, Fornication, Adultery etc But I kip under my body, n bring it into Subjection 1Cor 9:27a He that hath no control over his own spirit is like a city dt is broken down and without a wall. Prov 25:28 A "Redeemed" should not visit a Runs gal 4 d following major reasons: 1 It's a Sin against God. Gen 39:9 2 it's a Sin againt his body. 1Cor 6:18 3 A miserable future life: Prov 6:26 4 Such will miss Eternity in heaven. 1Cor 6:9 Minor reasons may include guilt, STD/STI, emotional distress, low self esteem, depression, Divorce, Wasteful Spending etc With personal experience, i'v got 2 knw dt days or weeks when my PERSONAL prayer n bible study life are below optimum, MY SEXUAL URGES BECOMES OPTIMUM, the flesh have more control, and once I power up these 2 aspects d sexual urges dies away. I DNT DO ANYTHING 2 CONTROL THE URGE ON MY OWN. It's Jst giving in to more of God thru Prayer n Study. 4 me excess Sexual urges is a result of my deficient prayer n study life. Ur friend could aslo check or experiment with this. He will succeed IJN 93 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by 100Cents: 4:53am On Dec 20, 2014 |
drake99: MARRY ! That's what the Bible says about people burning with lust. There is no correct time for marriage. You make the time correct by deciding to Marry. You will say what of money ? N50,000 can do you a court marriage and an evening get together..Stop caring about what people will say.. 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by tracybee(f): 4:59am On Dec 20, 2014 |
Have a cold shower 5 Likes |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by iamrealdeji(m): 5:19am On Dec 20, 2014 |
drake99:Tell him to go and marry if he's a born again 1 Like |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by cococandy(f): 5:29am On Dec 20, 2014 |
drake99:and what will he do if the urge comes again? Get a different runs girl? Hmmm 6 Likes |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Nobody: 5:34am On Dec 20, 2014 |
this one is strong oh! @ op, it is really strong! I used work to pummel mine but guess what? it became stronger, there is actually no gain in denying your sexuality....those hormones just know how to mess with one's head. For many people they fall back to self help frequently, even though thy'll hate to admit it....... combine all the recommendations you will get here ,they'll prolly be useful 3 Likes |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Sunkyphil(m): 5:44am On Dec 20, 2014 |
am not sure dat individual is born again in the first place |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by itstpia8: 5:45am On Dec 20, 2014 |
Probably not. |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Nobody: 6:07am On Dec 20, 2014 |
First of all,if he sleeps with a runs gal today,whatz d probability that he wl not continue the trend. Secondly,marriage is a very good option for him at this stage. Lastly,if hez not ready to get married yet,he shld try to control himself,do away with things that aroused that feeling. 1 Like |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by jmoore(m): 6:16am On Dec 20, 2014 |
He is born against. Sexual urge ain't a sin. It is when you allow the urge to make you commit fornication, that's when it is a sin. Just like anger which is natural, if you can't control your anger then you may end up hurting someone with it. Selfcontrol is the key. He should stop focusing on sexual thoughts. And should get rid of every p0rn if he got any. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Tallesty1(m): 6:19am On Dec 20, 2014 |
He should stop thinking about sex and women. He will control himself if he can control his thoughts. 5 Likes |
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