The Average Nigerian man of today expects his wife/girlfriend to not depend on him financially, she should be an independent woman, she should be like the women from the west who would pay the bills when they both go out on a date.

On the other hand, the average Nigerian man of today wants a humble, loyal and submissive woman a woman who MUST NOT behave like women from the west who would challenge his authority as head, argue with him and even give him a slap when the argument becomes intense, no, mba. In other words they want gender equality but do don't want gender equality.
Isn't this the greatest hypocrisy of all times?

No. I think they want a humble, loyal and submissive woman that is independent and does not depend on them financially.

When did you become an advocate for men? @ vivly
They should just know they can't have it all, no one woman can be all.

Vivly:
No. I think they want a humble, loyal and submissive woman that is independent and does not depend on them financially.

Dislike.
Coming from a lady. C'mon. Are you trying to prove any point here?

firstEVA:
When did you become an advocate for men? @ vivly
They should just know they can't have it all, no one woman can be all.

Not an advocate. Just an observer like you.

AlexisM16:

Dislike.
Coming from a lady. C'mon. Are you trying to prove any point here?

No. Trying to prove a line.

firstEVA:
The Average Nigerian man of today expects his wife/girlfriend to not depend on him financially, she should be an independent woman, she should be like the women from the west who would pay the bills when they both go out on a date.

On the other hand, the average Nigerian man of today wants a humble, loyal and submissive woman a woman who MUST NOT behave like women from the west who would challenge his authority as head, argue with him and even give him a slap when the argument becomes intense, no, mba. In other words they want gender equality but do don't want gender equality.
Isn't this the greatest hypocrisy of all times?

Wrong, the average Nigerian man does not want a woman that cannot slap him, he wants the one that won't scream murder if he knocks her teeth out in retaliation

I wouldn't say hypocrites, I'd say confused. Our young people aren't taught what marriage means and the roles they should play in it.

Some men Don't know what they want until they're stuck with someone they can Not change.. just be the kinda woman you want to be.. if they Don't like it..?? they should try creating someone who'd fit in their fantasy

firstEVA:
The Average Nigerian man of today expects his wife/girlfriend to not depend on him financially, she should be an independent woman, she should be like the women from the west who would pay the bills when they both go out on a date.

On the other hand, the average Nigerian man of today wants a humble, loyal and submissive woman a woman who MUST NOT behave like women from the west who would challenge his authority as head, argue with him and even give him a slap when the argument becomes intense, no, mba. In other words they want gender equality but do don't want gender equality.
Isn't this the greatest hypocrisy of all times?

I have often pondered on this. I wouldn't say hypocrisy but more of confusion. They don't really know what they want.

firstEVA:
The Average Nigerian man of today expects his wife/girlfriend to not depend on him financially, she should be an independent woman, she should be like the women from the west who would pay the bills when they both go out on a date.

On the other hand, the average Nigerian man of today wants a humble, loyal and submissive woman a woman who MUST NOT behave like women from the west who would challenge his authority as head, argue with him and even give him a slap when the argument becomes intense, no, mba. In other words they want gender equality but do don't want gender equality.
Isn't this the greatest hypocrisy of all times?

What about the Men that pay the bills, assist in domestic work, yet have disrespectful & ungrateful wives... You women are the greatest hypocrites, stop generalizing issues.

njokusboy:


Wrong, the average Nigerian man does not want a woman that cannot slap him, he wants the one that won't scream murder if he knocks her teeth out in retaliation

you are high I swear

And that is the same reason why I will never depend on my wife's money.....the more guys let women take care of their responsibilities the more the women take them for granted

Men are hypocrytes



women are pretenders

singing fela's Palava "when trouble sleep, yanga go wake am, wetin hin dey find, palava hin dey find, palava hin go get ti o, palava hin go get"

Vivly:
No. I think they want a humble, loyal and submissive woman that is independent and does not depend on them financially.

Thank you, best reply... and to the Op - the smart women are combining these traits and are getting the Nigerian men while you are waiting; trying to choose between being humble and Independent!

Come to US and meet Black African American men then you will thank God for Nigerian men!

firstEVA:
The Average Nigerian man of today expects his wife/girlfriend to not depend on him financially, she should be an independent woman, she should be like the women from the west who would pay the bills when they both go out on a date.

On the other hand, the average Nigerian man of today wants a humble, loyal and submissive woman a woman who MUST NOT behave like women from the west who would challenge his authority as head, argue with him and even give him a slap when the argument becomes intense, no, mba. In other words they want gender equality but do don't want gender equality.
Isn't this the greatest hypocrisy of all times?

The average Nigerian girl has a wierd mindset. I have always held to a belief that any girl who expects financial assitance, commendation, praise, eulogy, or credit from her boyfriend might die a frustrated wretch. If he assit you financially, fine... If he doesn't, fine. Don't base your relationship solely on that.

Its wrong to see your boyfriend as an ATM.

Be that as it may, My only goal in life right now is to be happy. Genuinely, intensely and consistently happy, regardless of what that looks like to others. This should be everyone's goal in life.

Goldenboy007:


Thank you, best reply... and to the Op - the smart women are combining these traits and are getting the Nigerian men while you are waiting; trying to choose between being humble and Independent!

Come to US and meet Black African American men then you will thank God for Nigerian men!

common stop acting like you know me, my post is about my observation on the Average Nigerian man, not all men, you'll be surprised that my man is nothing like the average Nigerian man

donogaga:




The average Nigerian girl has a wierd mindset. I have always held to a belief that any girl who expects financial assitance, commendation, praise, eulogy, or credit from her boyfriend might die a frustrated wretch. If he assit you financially, fine... If he doesn't, fine. Don't base your relationship solely on that.

Its wrong to see your boyfriend as an ATM.

Be that as it may, My only goal in life right now is to be happy. Genuinely, intensely and consistently happy, regardless of what that looks like to others. This should be everyone's goal in life.

and if your intense and consistent happiness causes some else's sadness and depression it doesn't matter right? Right!

firstEVA:
common stop acting like you know me, my post is about my observation on the Average Nigerian man, not all men, you'll be surprised that my man is nothing like the average Nigerian man

With this your idiosyncrasy , just pray your boyfriend don't find out what he is missing ! Man na man, most men are wired same way! Be independent and humble!!!

Goldenboy007:


With this your idiosyncrasy , just pray your boyfriend don't find out what he is missing ! Man na man, most men are wired same way! Be independent and humble!!!

listen to yourself

His / hers...like bathroom towels.

Boring argument(s).

deeptesting:


What about the Men that pay the bills, assist in domestic work, yet have disrespectful & ungrateful wives... You women are the greatest hypocrites, stop generalizing issues.

Most times, that man just did not look well.

lilmax:
And that is the same reason why I will never depend on my wife's money.....the more guys let women take care of their responsibilities the more the women take them for granted

Nowadays men do the same though. Besides, it is too stressful for a grown man/woman to depend on another for his/her absolute upkeep. Unless that person is very financially well off, it will cause friction.

I had this vision of many Nigerian girls remaining single and frustrated.

Truckpusher:
I had this vision of many Nigerian girls remaining single and frustrated.

You might really want to get busy bro ...there are other important things to be having visions about.

jumbotron:


You might really want to get busy bro ...there are other important things to be having visions about.

This vision of mine shouldn't be treated as one of those vision of the dubious Nigerian Pastors.

They sound like this online while offline one not too smart fellow would be controlling them with nothing but just the diick and plenty of lies.

Truckpusher:
I had this vision of many Nigerian girls remaining single and frustrated.

yes . I had that vision too.since many nigerian girls were single and frustrated in that vision, the men were all married to goats and horses .

cococandy:
yes . I had that vision too.since many nigerian girls were single and frustrated in that vision, the men were all married to goats and horses .

See them.

The men simply got foreign wives from neighboring African countries and the ones that couldn't get a foreign wife made all the single and frustrated girls his baby mamas with each of them competing for his love.

Truckpusher:
See them.

The men simply got foreign wives from neighboring African countries and the ones that couldn't get a foreign wife made all the single and frustrated girls his baby mamas with each of them competing for his love.

ok. That was how your vision panned out? Ngwanu

cococandy:
ok. That was how your vision panned out? Ngwanu

I guess I won then?

Truckpusher:
I guess I won then?

what did you win?

cococandy:
what did you win?

You have this natural hatred for guys that talks like this,don't you?
You take life too serious........smh