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Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by cococandy(f): 5:31am On Dec 20, 2014 |
Truckpusher:I swear I don't understand where that last bit of your comment came from. I thought it was a light hearted banter. When did I become so serious? You SERIOUSLY need to go and push your truck for today. Bye ![]() 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Truckpusher(m): 5:53am On Dec 20, 2014 |
cococandy: ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by iykedare(m): 7:41am On Dec 20, 2014 |
firstEVA: Your man is worse than the average Nigerian man. Can he even be called a man? He is a weakling. 5 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by kaboninc(m): 8:12am On Dec 20, 2014 |
firstEVA: I wonder where you get your notion about 'women from the West' Everywhere, be it East, North, South, West, in the air or under the water...wherever that place it, a Man will never accept his authority to be challenged. That's his pride. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 9:02am On Dec 20, 2014 |
iykedare:no need insulting someone you don't even know, it makes no sense, stick to the subject. 12 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 9:05am On Dec 20, 2014 |
kaboninc:my point is, since you have your pride, you want to be head, why be uncomfortable when she wants you to play the role of a head when it comes to meeting her needs? 13 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by kaboninc(m): 9:18am On Dec 20, 2014 |
firstEVA: Sometimes I don't understand you guys. Meeting her needs as per boyfriend and girlfriend or married couples? A man marries a woman and assumes complete responsibility over her and her needs. The average man DOES that...whether Nigerian or not. However a man is human and humans are generally selfish including women. So he might be selfish in meeting certain needs and so there might not be a balance. So that's where a responsibility comes in and he knows about it. Besides a woman also should consider her man when meeting her own needs too. I wonder what the women of today are striving for. A man is born, he struggles to survive, earn a living, marries a woman and sets up a family, he continues struggling to keep his family alive and dies while struggling. What else do you ladies want again? 9 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by iykedare(m): 12:00pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
firstEVA: But you just called other people s husbands and boyfriends "hypocrites ". Girl,you are one hell of a hypocrite. 14 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by lilmax(m): 12:09pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
iykedare:her own reach 100 % ![]() ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 12:10pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
iykedare:I'm sure one nut on your head has fallen off. 10 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by crackhaus: 12:15pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
iykedare:It was only a matter of time before someone figured this out... ![]() ![]() 13 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 12:28pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
crackhaus: lilmax: iykedare: So these are the average Nigerian men described above. Instead of changing the subject, answer the question, if you want equality, why not accept take it in all respects, or if you want to be the "man" why not be man in all things? 17 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by LordReed(m): 12:38pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
firstEVA: And what makes you think your man is in the minority? 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by iykedare(m): 12:43pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
firstEVA: So your mumu boyfriend has a nut "on his head ". No wonder he is dating a block head like you. 15 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by iykedare(m): 12:46pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
LordReed: Don't mind the dull girl. Her head is filled with sperm. 6 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 12:48pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Why should you give him a slap? Is that what " western " women do? What has paying bills got to do with being badly behaved, rude and uncultured? Even when I go out with friends we spilt the bill based on what we all ate does that mean I will now start challenging them, slapping them and being rude to them? Young ladies please read and understand the concept and struggle of feminisim before you put yourself in trouble. If you slap a man he has the right to give you a powerful slap back. If a woman in the west slaps a man he can sue her for assault and get paid loads of money in damages. If I pay my own bills, spilt cheques and take care of myself it simply means I respect myself and know my responsibility towards myself and don't see a man as my atm. You marry a man because you love him and respect him. That love and respect shouldn't be based on what he can or can't give you. 30 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 1:00pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
aisha2:who is talking about feminism here? Please comprehend before you comment. 9 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by lilmax(m): 1:02pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
firstEVA:man in all things like? 1 Like |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by crackhaus: 1:04pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
firstEVA:Please ask your father or your boyfriend, either of them must have exhibited behaviour that prompted you to start this topic. I'm not responsible for your anger and frustration with the average Nigerian man, neither does this average Nigerian man care what FirsrEVA thinks about him... ![]() ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by crackhaus: 1:07pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
firstEVA:Buahahahahaha... ![]() ![]() This one is obviously pained. Alright tell us what he did to you, don't be shy...you can tell daddy anything ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 1:13pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
crackhaus:you can't even answer a simple question, ok, move to a corner, you can now un follow the thread, let me hear from other people, thank you. 4 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by crackhaus: 1:52pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
firstEVA:What stvpid simple question do you need me to answer love? About being a man in all things, or about equality? What has being a man in all things have to do with equality? Aren't you ladies the ones advocating for gender equality? It's you who should be answering your question - If you want equality, why won't you do everything a man does in exactly the same way he does it? Things like opening the car doors for him, buying him a car for his birthday, taking him shopping & vacationing in exotic places/islands, doing manual/physical labour, getting down on your knees and proposing to him, providing half the cash to be spent on your fantasy I-want-to-be-driven-on-a-white-horse and wear a Vera Wang wedding dress on my wedding… etc. etc. etc. Should I go on? ![]() ![]() Now do you understand why you're the hypocrite, or is it that you don't even understand what you're trying to talk about on your own thread? 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Mbkite(m): 1:58pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
some ladies sha! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 2:02pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
If this is what the average Nigerian man is, May my children's children never ever, ever I repeat ever, come close to them as wives. Iseeeeee! Make I go find money for Christmas gifts . ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by bamidele029: 2:15pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
I agree with you, most of them are hypocrites who want to have their cake and eat it too. They want Nigerian women to pay bills like the western women yet they don't want to contribute to household chores like western men do in return. It's like Nigerian men think the women have some supernatural powers, she's supposed to go out in the morning just like him to earn money and then come back home in the evening after sitting in the traffic for hours just like him. Yet he expects that when he gets home his dinner should be waiting ![]() Men in the west understand that when a woman works just as hard as you do to help pay bills then you need to pitch in on the home front and not tell us how you are doing her a favour by cleaning the house you contributed to dirtying ![]() ![]() 28 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by crackhaus: 3:39pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
bamidele029:Absolute nonsense... Many Nigerian women since the days of our parents have been going to work and coming back home to fix meals for their husband and kids, they aren't dead but still living their lives and building their homes, they not complaining - even most of the married and working women here on NL family section do the exact same thing in their homes but only come online to preach 'heresy' and lead the naive and highly impressionable folks astray. Now let's do a reality check to see if you don't have your head so far gone up your azz; How many married women with husbands who work and earn well, take care of the bills themselves without any input from him? In fact I can bet you that in situations where both husband and wife work, the husband still bears more of the bills and expenses...do you disagree? 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 4:32pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
bamidele029:my point exactly 10 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Evina(f): 5:25pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
crackhaus: Yes I disagree. Your last paragraph stinks like the crap of a bull. ![]() 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by crackhaus: 5:30pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Evina:Is that all? You should back up your disagreement and make the crap of bull scented…don't you think so? ![]() 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Evina(f): 5:46pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
crackhaus: No, I think not. ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by deeptesting(m): 5:49pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
jumbotron: lol! |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by crackhaus: 5:49pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Evina:Okay I see you just felt like quoting then, you definitely agree with that last paragraph ![]() 2 Likes |
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