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Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by bamidele029: 6:11pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
crackhaus: I disagree , in those days our mothers did jobs like teaching or working in the civil service where they close like 4-5 pm so they get home before the husbands and have time to do household things. Now most women are doing jobs where they leave home as early as the man and they get back home around the same time in the night. Yet the lazy Nigerian men want to sit on their bums and do nothing while the same woman who worked the same hours as you at the office is expected to take care of everything at home ![]() The women in the west are able to balance things in the home front because their men contribute on the home front. And yes the women I know that work pay equal bills as their husbands . By the way intelligent people are able to make their points and have a civilized discussion without insults ![]() 28 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by crackhaus: 6:27pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
bamidele029:You're quite funny, what type of jobs do women do these days that keep them out of the house till night-time? The only one I can think of right now is banking, and even some in this sector still get home and do some little chores they can manage...I know one on this very same NL - so what are you saying? What jobs do women do now that is different from the ones our mothers did/do? Yet the lazy Nigerian men want to sit on their bums and do nothing while the same woman who worked the same hours as you at the office is expected to take care of everything at homeI don't know about your lazy man theory because I can't relate with it, but if a married woman feels coming home to prepare a meal for her husband is too much work, I guess she should hire a maid who will be preparing and serving madam's husband his dinner...yes? The women in the west are able to balance things in the home front because their men contribute. And yes the women I know that work pay equal bills as their husbands just like I do.What is your definition of equal bills? Is it that every bill/expense is split equally right down the middle, or is it dependent on whomever is financially buoyant at that particular instant? 6 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Evina(f): 6:28pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
crackhaus: The message communicated by the op is clear, strong and most importantly, one that you should learn from. ![]() You guys are attacking her because she gave y'all the bitter pill which you can't comfortably swallow, so you resort to attacking her. ![]() Very typical. ![]() 22 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by crackhaus: 6:32pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
bamidele029:Okay, I just noticed you added this bit to your earlier submission. I'm pleased to inform you that I am neither intelligent nor civilized, this of course is if I even insulted you to begin with. Now that I have made that clear, you can now move on to reply my comment above... 3 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by adebisicutie: 6:36pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
crackhaus: Abeg be real. Most women these days do jobs where they close like 6pm, they sit in traffic and get home like 8pm. How many of our mothers used to get home at 8pm or leave for the office as early as 6am.The man gets home at the same time but while the woman is sorting out dinner and the kids, the man sits on his ass watching football. If the woman hires a maid it's you same men on nairaland that will say a maid should not serve the husband. When the woman wants to buy gadgets to help out you same guys come and tell us how lazy she must be. Our mothers had a lot of help in the form of younger siblings who lived with them. These days how many families can afford to have a younger sibling live with them when they will be expected to pay her school fees? What exactly is stopping you Nigerian men from helping out in the home if not laziness? ![]() 27 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by crackhaus: 6:43pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Evina:I ain't learning shiit from this OP! Nigerian men are hypocrites but she managed to date one who isn't...this is the person I'm to learn from? Really? The message communicated in the OP is divergent, confused, and totally myopic. First and foremost, it's women who advocate equality...not men. Second, her question should be directed to herself and females... if women want equality in all things, why do y'all still hold to the belief that men should fill certain roles that are more suited to his gender? She didn't think her retort through before clicking submit, very easy to pick apart - there are many women who are independent and still submissive wives, very many in the real world...so her lecture failed totally in its premise. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by soonest(f): 6:50pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Crackhaus call your fellow men to order ![]() ![]() ![]() 13 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by crackhaus: 6:51pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
adebisicutie:And I am telling you that these women who get home at 8pm still find a way to do what they can in their homes, while those who can't have hired maids - you're the one who should get real. A man that deems it fit to help does just that, those who don't still live in their homes peacefully with their wives. Every other point in your post is noted, however you should tell all of it to your husband/boyfriend - I'm fine... 3 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by cococandy(f): 6:59pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
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Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by cococandy(f): 7:02pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
adebisicutie:Talking to the wind you are. Naija dudes are too big to take correction. You want them to be emasculated by doing house work? Even though it doesn't emasculate them to accept financial assistance from their wives. Confused doesn't even begin to cover it ![]() 18 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by crackhaus: 7:03pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
soonest:The ones I know in the real world don't have wives who complain like most of you on here, they have worked out a way to handle their bizniz effectively. 6 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Evina(f): 7:13pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
crackhaus: Sweetie, please stop trying so hard to erode the value imbedded in the message. The message doesn't kick against a combination of submissiveness and independence in women. It only clearly states that men who demand both should be willing to live up to the role they were created to fulfill. ![]() Capich? 16 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by soonest(f): 7:38pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
crackhaus:I will be surprised if you know any 9 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by crackhaus: 7:39pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Evina:The message didn't kick against a combination of both? Didn't I say you just felt like quoting to enter an argument? ![]() Please read the OP again and draw your conclusions, and this time pretend I'm not here: firstEVA:That in bold 'sweetie' is called a contrast, two diverging opinions that are parallel never to meet according to FirsrEVA's assessment of the average Nigerian man. She implied that once a woman is independent, she doesn't need to be submissive - I honestly don't know what else you inferred from that post...focus please! 8 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by crackhaus: 7:40pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
soonest:Yea I guess you would... I'm sure you think everyone else lives an isolated life in a wooden box like you do. 3 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 9:36pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
crackhaus:wow! Your compression skills is questionable. Read it again and stop inferring in error. 7 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by crackhaus: 9:44pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
firstEVA:So you have got your tongue back eh? Now tell us in one sentence what you wanted us to infer from your post, and also point to the part of your post where that inference could be drawn from. I'm waiting! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 9:51pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
crackhaus:I'm not ready to indulge you, enough said. |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by crackhaus: 9:57pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
firstEVA:You are not serious ![]() 1 Like |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 10:16pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
crackhaus:you are too insulting, not ready for that. My message is clear though, you don't have to agree with me. 10 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by soonest(f): 10:29pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
crackhaus:Hmmh ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by bukatyne(f): 11:11pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Marry who suits you Some men help their wives, some don't @OP: Only a foolish lady take what guys say they want seriously. Be found by your man and then study him. 4 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by KanwuliaJara: 11:19pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Make those kain men nor DREEEEEEEEEEESSSS come my gate o! If I can't argue and CHALLENGE. . . Please, move to MBAISE or IJEBU-IGBO quarters! I am used to making a lot of noise in MY OWN HOUSE!!!! We don't do 'JOINT' PROPERTY OR ACCOUNTS IN MY VILLAGE O! ![]() I don't have such women in my family lineage who do NOT ARGUE AND CHALLENGE! ![]() Werily-werily I say unto thee. . . . .You shall SURELY DIE SLOWLY!!!! ![]() Thanks in advance! ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Demystic(m): 7:15am On Dec 21, 2014 |
hasty generalization which is very bad |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 7:15am On Dec 21, 2014 |
firstEVA:Go and change the hole in between your legs and add a stick. Stop crying fowl here. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 7:21am On Dec 21, 2014 |
Evina:There is no bitter pill of any sort here. It's just the usual low self esteem and fight for equality. Simply go marry a man, pay his groom price which is never possible. Save us all the fowl cry. 1 Like |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Vivipop(f): 7:22am On Dec 21, 2014 |
firstEVA:yes,it is. Confusion is their second name. However,I must not depend on any man for my needs,I've got hands,brain and the will to fend for myself ![]() 1 Like |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by deeptesting(m): 7:22am On Dec 21, 2014 |
soonest: Dear i asked the OP a question which she has refused to answer.I am directing it to you if you could be of help.The question is what about those men that foots the entire bill, takes part in the home front even sent the woman to school to be a graduate and also sent her to acquire a professional skill, yet she is disrespectful to the man? I guess you girls are with the wrong men. |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 7:27am On Dec 21, 2014 |
If you had a man that is different from the average Nigerian man, why on earth are you opening a thread to complain about Nigerian men? it is obvious you have an imaginary boyfriend as usual! firstEVA: 10 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by crackhaus: 7:29am On Dec 21, 2014 |
firstEVA:Not only insulting, I also kill people. Now tell me what message you want me to agree with? That the average Nigerian man is a hypocrite but the ones in your life are the exceptions, right? Like I said, you ain't serious... Think thoroughly next time before coming up with topics like this, nonsense! 5 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by dinachi(m): 7:30am On Dec 21, 2014 |
KanwuliaJara:If all the women in your family lineage argue and challenge then your family lineage is cursed! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by KanwuliaJara: 7:34am On Dec 21, 2014 |
dinachi: When ALL the men are like YOU nko? How we go do? ![]() 5 Likes |
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