My dad informed me of my cousin's wedding dat would b taking place at d village dis festive period, i den used d opportunity to ask him if its a must to do ones traditional wedding at d village, he was lyk yes its a must especially for we d female kids cos its customary so it won't seem as if we re OSU cos am from d eastern part of Nigeria nd to also show d family we re getting married to dat we ve roots and cum from sumwhere..I immediately closed d subject cos I didn't want to argue wit him, bt left wit me would prefer doing mine where I base..just want to know ur take on dis.

Our take ?
Wen ur dad has told u everi tin


Ok ma own take na bush e good to do amu

chimerase2:
Our take ?
Wen ur dad has told u everi tin


Ok ma own take na bush e good to do amu

I don't really see a reason for u to b insultive, if u knw u dnt knw wat to say or didn't want to comment u would ve simply ignored it..

Chizzy20:
I don't really see a reason for u to b insultive, if u knw u dnt knw wat to say or didn't want to comment u would ve simply ignored it..

pls I dnt insult pple check wat I said
I only gave u ma own take

It is termed traditional marriage,i.e it must be done in a traditional way of your people in your land or you want to go and practise your tradition in another's man land? Which can't happen.

I don't think it's compulsory unless the bride father hasn't build a house in their current city or due to tradition or believe

Olasum:
I don't think it's compulsory unless the bride father hasn't build a house in their current city or due to tradition or believe

So a traditional wedding should be done where the bride's father has a house? Interesting. Its called a traditional wedding 4 a reason

Zedric:
So a traditional wedding should be done where the bride's father has a house? Interesting. Its called a traditional wedding 4 a reason

yes,dat is why we have different ethnic groups and their ways of doing things.if u are yoruba,u dont need to good to one village,as long u perform d traditional rites,dat alone makes it traditional.just cos u believe in going to one village to do wedding and others dont,doesnt make urs any better dan them.different strokes for different folks.

If you are Igbo and you are not doing your traditional marriage in your village/home town then something is really amiss.

If I won't come to your home town for traditional wedding/marriage then am not doing anything with you.

@Op..you are suppose to know, you dont need your dad or so to tell you that. Than God he enlightened you.

Gracias

I don't belive it's a must... my cousins didn't do their's in our village so why should I? my village is a fetish place according to my Mum so going to do your trad wedding there is at your own risk.

Two of my cousins recently did their weddings and they both did both the trad and white on the same day in Lagos and the village people came so it's not a must in my opinion. I'm Igbo by the way

ChristyG:
yes,dat is why we have different ethnic groups and their ways of doing things.if u are yoruba,u dont need to good to one village,as long u perform d traditional rites,dat alone makes it traditional.just cos u believe in going to one village to do wedding and others dont,doesnt make urs any better dan them.different strokes for different folks.

I am Yoruba and I can tell confidently that its not a traditional wedding if done outside the village

Zedric:



I am Yoruba and I can tell confidently that its not a traditional wedding if done outside the village

hahhaha,den you are not yoruba cos dere is no yoruba law dat states dat,abegi,talk something else,how many yoruba will ask u ur village instead of hometown.pls try and lie reasonable

Hmm..

My sister who lives in chicago married a nigerian-american guy.

Both met in chi town. Did the traditional bit but did not step foot in nigeria. They happen to cordinate it somehow over the phone and representitives from both villages did the traditional bit in their absence.

I dont think both my sister and brother-in-law cared much but my father is still a bit true to some nigerian traditions and customs. So my sister, god bless her, played along.

She had a fabulous chicago church wedding tho.

ChristyG:
hahhaha,den you are not yoruba cos dere is no yoruba law dat states dat,abegi,talk something else,how many yoruba will ask u ur village instead of hometown.pls try and lie reasonable

Whoever said I was lying. Yorubas have their trad wedding in the village, at least the ones I know. Wia are u from?

Then why call it traditional?

Yes.

No















I don't think so.

Silly question!

Drsmith01:
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For Hen !

From your Dad,its compulsory..

So its compulsory,therefore its compulsory.

sukkot:
yes. in village headmaster

Funny!

Not compulsory, tradition marriage are mostly done where the girl parents are staying and that can be anywhere

:Ur. Dad has finished telling u d story. So no need to argue its like so for the easterners no copy yoruba oooooo na dem dey trad even for main road

Drsmith01:
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You are browsing with H and I'm using 3G

Babygal4eva:
I don't belive it's a must... my cousins didn't do their's in our village so why should I? my village is a fetish place according to my Mum so going to do your trad wedding there is at your own risk.

Two of my cousins recently did their weddings and they both did both the trad and white on the same day in Lagos and the village people came so it's not a must in my opinion. I'm Igbo by the way

Hmmm...
There is something she is not telling you

Chizzy20:
My dad informed me of my cousin's wedding dat would b taking place at d village dis festive period, i den used d opportunity to ask him if its a must to do ones traditional wedding at d village, he was lyk yes its a must especially for we d female kids cos its customary so it won't seem as if we re OSU cos am from d eastern part of Nigeria nd to also show d family we re getting married to dat we ve roots and cum from sumwhere..I immediately closed d subject cos I didn't want to argue wit him, bt left wit me would prefer doing mine where I base..just want to know ur take on dis.

Let me guess, you want to do it in Yorubaland's Lagos?

My dear, go to your village and do your trad wedding jor. Show your village witches that you still dey kampe. Make dem go kwench.

tempem:

For Hen !

like yhu abi

tempem:

For Hen !

Very funny! You must be basketmouth.

cynthia3d:
:Ur. Dad has finished telling u d story. So no need to argue its like so for the easterners no copy yoruba oooooo na dem dey trad even for main road

Are you sure you are stable?