Classicalmusic:
Well, it depends. Hope you're out of relationship.

Obviously, some folks find it difficult being in another relationship because of their previous experience while others think it's fun so they would always fall in love.

Meanwhile, we shouldn't be in a hurry to be in love. What really matters here is dedication. Being friends first is very important as to understanding each other.

It takes me couple of months to get a new girl because i love see to certain qualities in a woman and for the fact that people always focus on me to know the kind of woman that i go out with, i just have to go for the best. Someone who is good and kind-hearted but not infantile because it turns me off.

juanmata:
This ur thirsty lips without face tire me

Zeemoor:
Do you mind shedding some light on the bolded part?

Zeemoor:
Is dating too much of a hassle that we have to 'rest'?

Classicalmusic:
Well, it depends. Hope you're out of relationship.

Obviously, some folks find it difficult being in another relationship because of their previous experience while others think it's fun so they would always fall in love.

Meanwhile, we shouldn't be in a hurry to be in love. What really matters here is dedication. Being friends first is very important as to understanding each other.

It takes me couple of months to get a new girl because i love see to certain qualities in a woman and for the fact that people always focus on me to know the kind of woman that i go out with, i just have to go for the best. Someone who is good and kind-hearted but not infantile because it turns me off.

Zeemoor:
"They manage to never stay single for long : a month or two passes and… poof! – they’re in a new relationship "

Is this because you only dive into meaningful relationships that lasts for along period of time, or you avoid dating like the plague so as not to get hurt or because you wanted your undivided attention on something other than a relationship?

Your patience is amazing

damselabi:
Well said

Classicalmusic:
I live a quiet lifestyle.

Oahray:
well, I think such persons haven't made up their minds what they want, so they would rather taste from as many pots as possible to increase their chances of finding and recognising it.

lol. Hurt? Nah... I just see relationships as serious business, so I try to give it my all. But she has to be special enough, not just any girl with a pretty face and nice figure. There are many of those around, but there isn't enough energy to go round many girls

There's a certain sort of connection that has to be there. It takes a while for it to become very evident, and it takes even longer to severe. For that reason it's just not possible for me to move from one relationship right into another.


what is worth doing is worth doing well.

damselabi:
Nt a hassle,bt dosent mean u shud immediately enter another one.U shud try n mould a better you during dat period without anyone attached check wot n wot u were nt doin right. Jumping in and out of a relationships is nt nice.

Zeemoor:

May God direct your steps and help you in your 'ultimate search' for the right one

Oahray:
I've found her

naijaboiy:


2)i cant really say I have a particular span of time before I find a new partner.

The major thing is however long it takes that person should be who your heart really settles with

ireneony:
u see de look for partner, wonders shall never end

who wan friend you self

Irene body don dey scratch you again bah?

Tymax:
I can tell you (from experience) that the waiting period per se between two consecutive relationships is largely inconsequential. If you have been dumped today would you push away a potentially more suitable partner because you want to observe the waiting period?

It is not the length of the hiatus that matters. I would rather believe that your activites in-between make the difference. Some people heal, while others just fester.

grocery:
Nice thread.... please more ideas on serious relationship should be shared. Thanks

naijaboiy:

Irene body don dey scratch you again bah?

bring it on

ireneony:
bring it on

Those times don pass

Zeemoor:
Is diving back into the dating game soon after a breakup that easy?
Even with an amicable split, one can still feel depressed or emotionally unavailable for a good period of time

Zeemoor:
Thanks
What do you think about the thread?

Tymax:

Why do women take too long to get over stuff? Then the new guy has to wait for aeons before you consider him. I think you are just making a mountain out of a molehill.

Breakups happen everyday. If you get dumped, just take it in stride.

Serious guys (like my humble, noble self ) don't have time to waste on a lady who wants to observe a practice that is not proven to be efficient.

grocery:

Like I said before, its a nice thread. To me its very educative because there some things I just learnt from it.
But I need to understand the spacing for the serious relationship ishh.

permit me to ask this question...can u meet someone today and the next thing he is telling you about marriage even consulting you on things he wants to do, even telling you to come and meet his family. JUST ASKING THOU

Zeemoor:
Are you asking if I'd accept his proposal should he ask for my hand in marriage?

grocery:

exactly... will you accept his proposal

chibwike:
Wow...have read and read and read.....and i learnt more than enough.....zeemore kudos for assemblying the best individuals around...and making the thread...interesting....

Relationship is a chapter of life on its own...

So many things to say.

Zeemoor:

I can relate to that
When people have high expectations of you, whether you like it or not, you will be profoundly influenced by the expectations
You'd want to live up to their expectations

A good guy needs a good woman