@Evina
Thanks for reaching out.

They have said it all. My people don't carry last.

OP, Please put on a cheery demeanour and know that things can only get better.

crackhaus:
Is there anything you can do to get you busy? Anything to keep your mind distracted from your father... this will be necessary sooner than later.
You only have to be strong for yourself and for your mother, she definitely needs you right now as much as you need her.
As for your dad, avoid him as best you can and actively avoid doing things that may upset him...he may still pick faults with things you do right, but you should find comfort in the knowledge that none of it is your fault - remind yourself that he is just being his usual self again... by doing this often, his hurtful remarks will have less and less effect on you.

excelsia:
Oh dear me, I'm so sorry love. I don't even know what to say, please let me hug you (((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))

You're loved my dear, please cheer up for your mom. Find a place in your heart to forgive your dad please, sooner or later, he'll realize what he has done, I just hope it won't be too late when he does

Raise your head up pretty princess, please don't let your tiara fall

kessel:
My 1cent advice is just to view it as normal, I ve been in your shoes I know what it's like. In those crazy period, I just stay quite and allowed him do the talking and guess what, when he is tired he will still stop by himself but when he talks nd u try to talk, he his make it painful by saying bad words. So just view it as normal wen he talks nd don't try to defend except wen he gives an opportunity to. God will strengthen you. Amen

crackhaus:
Is there anything you can do to get you busy? Anything to keep your mind distracted from your father... this will be necessary sooner than later.

You only have to be strong for yourself and for your mother, she definitely needs you right now as much as you need her.

As for your dad, avoid him as best you can and actively avoid doing things that may upset him...he may still pick faults with things you do right, but you should find comfort in the knowledge that none of it is your fault - remind yourself that he is just being his usual self again... by doing this often, his hurtful remarks will have less and less effect on you.

excelsia:
Oh dear me, I'm so sorry love. I don't even know what to say, please let me hug you (((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))

You're loved my dear, please cheer up for your mom. Find a place in your heart to forgive your dad please, sooner or later, he'll realize what he has done, I just hope it won't be too late when he does

Raise your head up pretty princess, please don't let your tiara fall