I need your honest opinion on this:

My girlfriend and I have been dating now for almost a year and few months. I love her deeply, sincerely, she is also damn crazy about me. There had been a time I tested her love and feigned break up with her... Gosh! She fell sick. She told all my friends to plead with me on her behave. and when I met her, she knelt down and ask me to overlook whatsoever she must have done. Honestly speaking, I have never seen such a deep expression of emotion. There and then I realised she probably love me deeper than I had initially assumed.

But the issue I'm having is, my gf is too withdrawn for my liking. I have talked this over with her times without number how I could help her improve on this behavior. If she was offended, it takes several efforts to make her speak up - man! It drives me crazy! Aside of this, even in our best times together, she doesn't act lively, thrilled or interesting. I thought it could me - I could be the problem. But I've found out that's her type of person... I get occasionally get frustrated by her behaviour. Sometimes, I just believe she would change that "she needs time" like her friend do say.

Fortunately, or unfortunately, I met her younger sis. Oh boy... She's a perfect opposite. No dull moments with her ...hahahahaa. She's charismatic, energetic, elegant... She is supercalifragilistic-expalidocious! I started getting attracted to her. Her sister soon noticed and complained I'm getting too close to her sis, but I waved her suspicion by saying we are just having platonic fun together.

Recently, I found out she is also thrilled about me! The way she respond to my presence, jokes, laughter... I just can't help falling so quickly in love with her. We've even hugged each other... And things are just developing so so fast between us. In fact, when I go to see her sis, she would jump and hug me not minding her sister's presence.

What do I do Guilt is kinda eating me up... I can no longer manage any fun with sister, just emotionless and short gist... Should just break up with my gf and continue with her sis?? Man... I'm confused.




For a friend.

Hmmm...

It happens all the time.

You meet a girl you like.

Relationship develops.

Then you meet the sister.

A younger, fresher version of your girlfriend.

And livelier to booth.

And here you are wondering, "Am I short-changing myself?"

Let me assure you, that lively sister has nothing to offer you.

It all becomes empty once you've satisfied that urge.

So, don't make that leap.

Stick with the stability that your girlfriend represents.

My 1 kobo.

Maybe you should follow ur heart. It's going to be a tough one tho.

But if u start dating her sis, it might bring some bitterness among the sis.

U should be a man and solve ur problem

If you date your gf's sister,whatz d assurance dat you wont leave her for someone better??

U found someone that loves u so dearly but u ar not satisfy bkx she is always withdrawn. Now u ar going for the sister bkx she is always lively. Wot if she disappoint u later? Meeeeen! meeeeen!! what the Bleep is wrong with this planet earth? If I can get a pretty girl that loves me without restriction like yours but is always withdrawn I will worship her like a god. Well, y am I even crying out loud when I know they prefer guys like u that can cheat on them when the slightest opportunity shows up.

Next you'd find out that her mom is more fun to be with..

^^hillarious

He should just leave that family alone before he disgrace himself for his over-active hormones

Na people like you dey make ladies call men dogs..

You want to swerve to the sister,bros,you go wicked for real life ooo..

If same is done to you,how would you feel?

Erickthrocyte:
I need your honest opinion on this:

My girlfriend and I have been dating now for almost a year and few months. I love her deeply, sincerely, she is also damn crazy about me. There had been a time I tested her love and feigned break up with her... Gosh! She fell sick. She told all my friends to plead with me on her behave. and when I met her, she knelt down and ask me to overlook whatsoever she must have done. Honestly speaking, I have never seen such a deep expression of emotion. There and then I realised she probably love me deeper than I had initially assumed.

But the issue I'm having is, my gf is too withdrawn for my liking. I have talked this over with her times without number how I could help her improve on this behavior. If she was offended, it takes several efforts to make her speak up - man! It drives me crazy! Aside of this, even in our best times together, she doesn't act lively, thrilled or interesting. I thought it could me - I could be the problem. But I've found out that's her type of person... I get occasionally get frustrated by her behaviour. Sometimes, I just believe she would change that "she needs time" like her friend do say.

Fortunately, or unfortunately, I met her younger sis. Oh boy... She's a perfect opposite. No dull moments with her ...hahahahaa. She's charismatic, energetic, elegant... She is supercalifragilistic-expalidocious! I started getting attracted to her. Her sister soon noticed and complained I'm getting too close to her sis, but I waved her suspicion by saying we are just having platonic fun together.

Recently, I found out she is also thrilled about me! The way she respond to my presence, jokes, laughter... I just can't help falling so quickly in love with her. We've even hugged each other... And things are just developing so so fast between us. In fact, when I go to see her sis, she would jump and hug me not minding her sister's presence.

What do I do Guilt is kinda eating me up... I can no longer manage any fun with sister, just emotionless and short gist... Should just break up with my gf and continue with her sis?? Man... I'm confused.




For a friend.

You see all this higleddy-pigleddy you are in is just a platform of oozing into cum guanga tuan gaga odoriferus saga in a raprous state of Higi haga,It is like u r consiously unconsiously in a state of dilemma nd with every stretch of imagination without exemption of expectation i can see ur heart hovering aroud an emotional demodatriangle and if u do not take urgent steps to meander the impulses and ur superflous hormone i'm sorry u may end up in a pestilential and delectrious aqua.Do u understand or i should explain further?

You are an idiooot!!!

















For a friend.

NinoBrown888:
Next you'd find out that her mom is more fun to be with..

lmao

Stick to yhur bae
There would always be sumbody dat iz much prettieer,jovial,fun to be wif,blah blah blah dan ur girlfriend
U just gotta be that one man that doesn't care

u just a friend with.................


















.benefit....






take dat ur big eye off her sis

my first advice to u is this; blood is thicker than water. they can do without u but they r still sisters. u feel u can ditch her n go for the younger one cos u r confident that what's btw u n d one u want to date is stronger than what's btw them both. so stare clear of the younger sister.
my 2nd advice to u is this; at the end of the day u will end up with non of them. as I've said times without number what u feel for each other is a facade that clears up with time. she's not ur first gf. u r not her first bf. n u certainly will not b each others last so pls straff d two of them now that u hv d chance.



if u can follow both pieces of advice then u my friend will have no problems. thank me later

I will comment when ut makes fp...just leave that household alone...are u just looking for fun or what?

starlingleanets:
You see all this higleddy-pigleddy you are in is just a platform of oozing into cum guanga tuan gaga odoriferus saga in a raprous state of Higi haga,It is like u r consiously unconsiously in a state of dilemma nd with every stretch of imagination without exemption of expectation i can see ur heart hovering aroud an emotional demodatriangle and if u do not take urgent steps to meander the impulses and ur superflous hormone i'm sorry u may end up in a pestilential and delectrious aqua.Do u understand or i should explain further?

explain further abeg

tope24:



explain further abeg

What am saying in escence is that the condition that conditioned the condition of the OP is the condition dat have conditioned many nd this does not good course for loosing Inihibition power.But his writings makes me say this is just a fallacy that borders from the Gen' of fallacy call Postork-emprompkin-porpdarork i mean to say its Capitalrejectamental according to human nature. You understand my point or i should explain further?

starlingleanets:
What am saying in escence is that the condition that conditioned the condition of the OP is the condition dat have conditioned many nd this does not good course for loosing Inihibition power.But his writings makes me say this is just a fallacy that borders from the Gen' of fallacy call Postork-emprompkin-porpdarork i mean to say its Capitalrejectamental according to human nature. You understand my point or i should explain further?

explain further biko

tope24:


explain further biko

This is very Crystal clear like a gigantic opuleism what else do u want make i explain.

You are just a greedy and lost somebody using these trashed excuse, let me tell you ; it took their parents time, dedication, hardworking and money to have taken care of them to that level they are! If your friendship to that family is to bring disunity, You will also have your family someday, do to others what you also wish from them.

Erickthrocyte:
I need your honest opinion on this:

My girlfriend and I have been dating now for almost a year and few months. I love her deeply, sincerely, she is also damn crazy about me. There had been a time I tested her love and feigned break up with her... Gosh! She fell sick. She told all my friends to plead with me on her behave. and when I met her, she knelt down and ask me to overlook whatsoever she must have done. Honestly speaking, I have never seen such a deep expression of emotion. There and then I realised she probably love me deeper than I had initially assumed.

But the issue I'm having is, my gf is too withdrawn for my liking. I have talked this over with her times without number how I could help her improve on this behavior. If she was offended, it takes several efforts to make her speak up - man! It drives me crazy! Aside of this, even in our best times together, she doesn't act lively, thrilled or interesting. I thought it could me - I could be the problem. But I've found out that's her type of person... I get occasionally get frustrated by her behaviour. Sometimes, I just believe she would change that "she needs time" like her friend do say.

Fortunately, or unfortunately, I met her younger sis. Oh boy... She's a perfect opposite. No dull moments with her ...hahahahaa. She's charismatic, energetic, elegant... She is supercalifragilistic-expalidocious! I started getting attracted to her. Her sister soon noticed and complained I'm getting too close to her sis, but I waved her suspicion by saying we are just having platonic fun together.

Recently, I found out she is also thrilled about me! The way she respond to my presence, jokes, laughter... I just can't help falling so quickly in love with her. We've even hugged each other... And things are just developing so so fast between us. In fact, when I go to see her sis, she would jump and hug me not minding her sister's presence.

What do I do Guilt is kinda eating me up... I can no longer manage any fun with sister, just emotionless and short gist... Should just break up with my gf and continue with her sis?? Man... I'm confused.




For a friend.

You are justa greedyand lostsomebodyusing these trashed excuse,letme tellyou ;ittooktheirparents time,dedication,hardworking and moneyto have taken care ofthem to thatleveltheyare! Ifyourfriendship to thatfamily is to bring disunity,You willalso have yourfamilysomeday,do to others whatyou also wish from them.

You better stick with the girlfriend and leave the sister alone. You think you can settle for the younger sis and dump the elder one like that? You'll end up losing both, and making a silly fool of yourself.

okk, I know ur babe na. I actually overheard her said to her friend dat she somehow prefers ur brother who appears to b more outgoing and humble as d reason for her withdrawing sometimes.

How hard will it be for men like u to stay with one wife dan for a heard of a camel to pass through d eye of a sewing pin. I tell u most solemnly, whoever u r with in dis life or d next, dere will always be someone prettier, more intelligent, smarter etc. u go just dey confuse dey go b dat na

starlingleanets:
What am saying in escence is that the condition that conditioned the condition of the OP is the condition dat have conditioned many nd this does not good course for loosing Inihibition power.But his writings makes me say this is just a fallacy that borders from the Gen' of fallacy call Postork-emprompkin-porpdarork i mean to say its Capitalrejectamental according to human nature. You understand my point or i should xplain further?

Pls brk down it down further beko my dictionary lacks big grammar

na igboh dey cause this kind thing. ones e clear you go know say you miss road.

Trust me those ladies are not for you. you are wasting your time, money, emotions & energy. you are also wrong being with the first girl. you'll hate her in the future. I could go on and on.


if I'm to advise, I'll say quit the two relationship now. it will lead to so many issues and you will not like it. besides you have already miss fired, so quit.

Bruv... no deeper words have been spoken on NL's Romance section. You are so on point. Would give you a million likes if I could.

Unionised:
Hmmm...

It happens all the time.

You meet a girl you like.

Relationship develops.

Then you meet the sister.

A younger, fresher version of your girlfriend.

And livelier to booth.

And here you are wondering, "Am I short-changing myself?"

Let me assure you, that lively sister has nothing to offer you.

It all becomes empty once you've satisfied that urge.

So, don't make that leap.

Stick with the stability that your girlfriend represents.

My 1 kobo.

Erickthrocyte:
I need your honest opinion on this:

My girlfriend and I have been dating now for almost a year and few months. I love her deeply, sincerely, she is also damn crazy about me. There had been a time I tested her love and feigned break up with her... Gosh! She fell sick. She told all my friends to plead with me on her behave. and when I met her, she knelt down and ask me to overlook whatsoever she must have done. Honestly speaking, I have never seen such a deep expression of emotion. There and then I realised she probably love me deeper than I had initially assumed.

But the issue I'm having is, my gf is too withdrawn for my liking. I have talked this over with her times without number how I could help her improve on this behavior. If she was offended, it takes several efforts to make her speak up - man! It drives me crazy! Aside of this, even in our best times together, she doesn't act lively, thrilled or interesting. I thought it could me - I could be the problem. But I've found out that's her type of person... I get occasionally get frustrated by her behaviour. Sometimes, I just believe she would change that "she needs time" like her friend do say.

Fortunately, or unfortunately, I met her younger sis. Oh boy... She's a perfect opposite. No dull moments with her ...hahahahaa. She's charismatic, energetic, elegant... She is supercalifragilistic-expalidocious! I started getting attracted to her. Her sister soon noticed and complained I'm getting too close to her sis, but I waved her suspicion by saying we are just having platonic fun together.

Recently, I found out she is also thrilled about me! The way she respond to my presence, jokes, laughter... I just can't help falling so quickly in love with her. We've even hugged each other... And things are just developing so so fast between us. In fact, when I go to see her sis, she would jump and hug me not minding her sister's presence.

What do I do Guilt is kinda eating me up... I can no longer manage any fun with sister, just emotionless and short gist... Should just break up with my gf and continue with her sis?? Man... I'm confused.




For a friend.

You lack CONSCIENCE.

You sound CONFUSED.

You lack EXPERIENCE.

The thrills her sister is giving you now is what she will do with the next guy once you aren't around. From past experience, I avoid loud girls like plague. Aside the noise, the long hair and fair skin, is emptiness.

I normally see this fakeness from far but sometimes one gets carried away by lack of a better choice or the glitterati associated with dating the most social pretty girl...

TrishaP:
Maybe you should follow ur heart. It's going to be a tough one tho.

But if u start dating her sis, it might bring some bitterness among the sis.

U should be a man and solve ur problem

Follow which heart ?

Only a heartless person can date her girlfriends sister.

Okay, may it happen to your boyfriend. Let him follow his heart...

Dont dupe d gals of deir goldn materials;stop bin 2 greedy.

Pls I advice you, stick to you girl, don't cause enmity between the sisters. Or better still if its tough just leave them both.

starlingleanets:
This is very Crystal clear like a gigantic opuleism what else do u want make i explain.

lol
its audible 2 d deaf and visible 2 d blind.
@OP, Stick 2 ur gf

dis is 1 of d reasons i disagree wit luv at ist sight. friend zone ur intened luver 4 atleast a month 2 be ok wit d seen qualities. she is nt lively blah blah fucken blah afta u bleep d cookies. ws she nt d same gal u claim 2 luv d ist 1week of relationship b4 u saw her vjay