I still cant wrap my mind arnd it. he buys me things but anytym i try getn him gifts or the likes, he lightly rejects it, but he does it in such a way it wont hurt my feelings though. I rily love dis guy and dat urge is always dia 2 xpress it but i just still cant scale his " dont worry boo, i shuld b d one 2 get u dis" fence...

Chai, OP where can I get your type of a lady that i ll love with my all?

geni340:
I still cant wrap my mind arnd it. he buys me things but anytym i try getn him gifts or the likes, he lightly rejects it, but he does it in such a way it wont hurt my feelings though. I rily love dis guy and dat urge is always dia 2 xpress it but i just still cant scale his " dont worry boo, i shuld b d one 2 get u dis" fence...

That's a responsible guy..but draw him closer and talk to him..

Sm guys r like dat

So you think you can just come and wash us abi.
Na Wash!

He probably doesn't want u spending too much money. That's genuine love right there. If u feel the need to spoil him, den I suggest u cook for him with dat money, he won't reject that.

You got a good guy on your hands ,do him right and stay true to him

channel the gift to something else.to show you care and love must not really be giftings

It's simple.

He has the same brand of boxers you keep getting him. Change them. Get him the ones with pockets and zips.

Correct guy. Stick to good virtues and you v a good life ahead of you. No hear from all d old cargo ladies weh full romance section always wanting younger girls to have unhappy relationships and be bitter like them.

You got a keeper but do not downgrade on your good virtues also.

I don't feel comfortable when a lady gives me gift, so I can't accept there gift, I did rather give them.

I use to reject gift from ladies in the past cos a lady once used it as a point one time when we had issue and she was referring to things she bought for me, after that time I stop collecting gift from ladies in general...Your bf is a nice dude rejecting ur gift politely, I suggest u stop telling him u are going to get him a gift giving him room to reject it..just buy it and make it a surprise. Make sure is something he will appreciate...you can buy him a car and see If he will reject it...lol

bisous:
You got a good guy on your hands ,do him right and stay true to him

You conclude he is a good guy because he wont take gifts?? wait till u hear my reasons for rejecting gifts from my ex 'politely' when we was together.

dablazor:


You conclude he is a good guy because he wont take gifts?? wait till u hear my reasons for rejecting gifts from my ex 'politely' when we was together.

OK I may be wrong but he sounds like one .....Why did you refuse gifts from your ex?

Have you bought a gift for him before and he rejected it? Like someone said, surprise him with the gift. You dont need to let him know you want to get him something since you know he will turn it down

geni340:
I still cant wrap my mind arnd it. he buys me things but anytym i try getn him gifts or the likes, he lightly rejects it, but he does it in such a way it wont hurt my feelings though. I rily love dis guy and dat urge is always dia 2 xpress it but i just still cant scale his " dont worry boo, i shuld b d one 2 get u dis" fence...

That's not his love language... Do you know what love language is all about. Hmmm Google it please.. I don't like gift either except she want to get me range rover 2015..model.. lol. All i want is to spend her quality time with me.

Buy hime car and see if he will reject it

Tah!!!! adonblivit

ritababe:
Buy hime car and see if he will reject it

Hello, merry xmas. Was so busy all thru d day such that i didnt come online to wish you. Hope you had a fabulous xmas celebration? Have fun. Jesus loves you!

geni340:
I still cant wrap my mind arnd it. he buys me things but anytym i try getn him gifts or the likes, he lightly rejects it, but he does it in such a way it wont hurt my feelings though. I rily love dis guy and dat urge is always dia 2 xpress it but i just still cant scale his " dont worry boo, i shuld b d one 2 get u dis" fence...

Let things flow as it does- curtail your desires towards him - he has the driving force right now so don't alter anything- go with the flow.

RedBenson:


Hello, merry xmas. Was so busy all thru d day such that i didnt come online to wish you. Hope you had a fabulous xmas celebration? Have fun. Jesus loves you!

u try wel well, after xmas don end na now u come dey telll me abi, no wahala

Some guys are like that, they need nothing from you, very unlike most guys on Nairaland. Op if I were you, i'll insist on buying him a gift, he should at least have something from me.

All a guy wants from his girl is true love and care. He wants to be treated as if he is your king and at the same time your baby. He wants to be treated as the number one.
Am speaking for myself ooo. Don't know about him or others. But some foolish guys take advantage of you wen u treat then thus and some starts misbehaving bkx d don't understand what u ar doing.

Etetejake:
All a guy wants from his girl is true love and care. He wants to be treated as if he is your king and at the same time your baby. He wants to be treated as the number one.
Am speaking for myself ooo. Don't know about him or others. But some foolish guys take advantage of you wen u treat then thus and some starts misbehaving bkx d don't understand what u ar doing.

True!

PervRocker:
He probably doesn't want u spending too much money. That's genuine love right there. If u feel the need to spoil him, den I suggest u cook for him with dat money, he won't reject that.

True Talk,
@OP, cook for him, I'm also that type of guy who can turn down gifts from ladies but I always need the grace of God to turn down 'FOOD' especially if its part of my long list of favorite!

PervRocker:
He probably doesn't want u spending too much money. That's genuine love right there. If u feel the need to spoil him, den I suggest u cook for him with dat money, he won't reject that.

True Talk,
@OP, cook for him, I'm also that type of guy who can turn down gifts from ladies but I always need the grace of God to turn down 'FOOD' especially if its part of my long list of favorite!

ritababe:


u try wel well, after xmas don end na now u come dey telll me abi, no wahala

Lol. No vex abeg. If i 4get u, na who i go remember? How u dey? However, i'm giving one of my sisters hand in marriage today. Join me as we celebrate my sister's traditional marriage today.

RedBenson:


Lol. No vex abeg. If i 4get u, na who i go remember? How u dey? However, i'm giving one of my sisters hand in marriage today. Join me as we celebrate my sister's traditional marriage today.

congrat

RedBenson:


Lol. No vex abeg. If i 4get u, na who i go remember? How u dey? However, i'm giving one of my sisters hand in marriage today. Join me as we celebrate my sister's traditional marriage today.

congrat

Abduletudaye:



That's a responsible guy..but draw him closer and talk to him..

. I know ur type.. U are the type who will claim total dominion over the bae

allyon:
. I know ur type.. U are the type who will claim total dominion over the bae

and its not so...

black guys wit black mentality. so becos d guy refuse to accept gift from d bae, u guys nw tag him a "saint"

luv is all about sharin, nd i tink d guy has his reason for nt acceptin d gift, nd beside, must u tel him u dt u want to get him a gift@ op